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NYCTOTHEWORLD

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New to the board and site and just want to say it has been a great resource of information. So before I get into my story a little background on me. I have slept with a good amount of women in my life around 80 and have had 3 serious relationships over 2 yrs in my time. I wouldn't call myself an expert at game but when I am in the right state of mind I can get women to sleep with me fairly easily. So recently my company sent me to london well not so recent it was in Sept actually. I was put in contact with a girl from italy there who had been living in London for 10 mths. One time hanging out and we hit it off. We didn't sleep with each other that first week I was there but did hook up and played with the breats lol. She was dodging all my attempts to have sex so easily. She is kind of like a dude as as she has many guy friends from her younger years and I guess knows the game or so she thinks. Anyway, we continued to talk her texting me everyday and night, also skypeing a lot after work. I went to visit her a second time in November and I had sex with her, raw no less. We had sex during the 5 days I was there. I made a great impression on her as one skype session after I left her friend mentioned that she thought I was at the top of her list of people she slept with. The texting from her continued everyday, she was the one always initiating the texts as London is 5 hrs ahead of the US. I decided to visit her for the week of Christmas and things went down hill. We had sex one night and I was drunk and didn't pull out. She had to take the MAP and was extremely upset by my actions and having to do this. To make matters worse I kind of got angry, I know dumb move on my part. She cut me off for one whole day and I gave her the space. She finally meet me but not alone 2 days later and never alone again the rest of the time I was there until the day I was leaving. She mentioned that I took away her trust in me. We talked and I left on a decent note with her saying she doesnt want to lose me and that we will forget that night. We also both mentioned how we had been speaking way too much over the past three months also. My thing is now she has slowed down the talking and does not initiate the texting as much. She still will text me but not everyday as before. I know chase would say move on, but its not like I am sitting home sulking, I still go out and hit on women and have slept with someone else. I just still see her as being better than most woman. My question is it possible to come back from a situation like this? And what should be my game plan?
 

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What is your objective with this woman? Where does she fit in your life?

The amount of talking you have done with her is more than a casual FWB relationship. If that is your goal, dial down the chatty stuff. Give her some space. Use text for logistics, and speak when you are together in person. Leave her on a high note.

Remember people like you for how YOU make THEM feel....
 

NYCTOTHEWORLD

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My objective is to make her my Girlfriend. I feel like I need to pull away a little cause she might friend zone me after what I did and how I reacted and think I will always be around which I will not if the relationship will not go any where. Would you recommend NC for a couple weeks. Ill actually be in London with some Friends in 3 weeks, not sure if I should contact her while there.
 
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