You know what I been thinking of lately. Can't be with a girl who has feelings for you, can't be with someone who has a preference for you. So if I'm a goofy White guy, can't be with a girl who into goofy White guys. The more and more a girl into you, the more and more they wanna see you fallll. See how you handle it. If you in a relationship with a girl who has feelings for you, then you'll be in a relationship based on revenge, than anything else. Call it a power struggle. You won't have this problem with girls who aren't into you, as well as married women, but for married women their attraction to you has to be less than to their husbands. So married women and women not into you are the type of ones I want to spit game to, have conversations with, etc. I think they make better companions.
Can't be with a girl who has a preference for you.
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NealIRC,
and i thought i am the one with writing problems. I can't understand. Is it marry women who complements you or marry women who is similar to you but then you have power struggle?
Zac
and i thought i am the one with writing problems. I can't understand. Is it marry women who complements you or marry women who is similar to you but then you have power struggle?
Zac
Girls who have a preference for you will.ZacAdam said:
-Eventually ignore your texts, your messages.
-Wait for you to make your move just so they can say no (they wanna see how you handle rejection).
Women whom aren't into you won't.
Probably married women do compliment more.
When I go to places like Dunkin Donuts, only the guy employees give me free donuts, for example.
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What lol?
ALL women will test you during the course of a relationship to try and break you down and pull more commitment out of you and it's up to YOU, as the man, to handle all of that properly. Women only become spiteful and revenge-seeking when you push her into that realm but women DON'T get there, naturally.
Men lead, women follow and WHILE women are following they're also looking for cracks and weaknesses to figure out if you're worth following.
Generally, what you'll find is that as you work on yourself more as a man you'll want to keep around women who are more like yourself. Men who are attracted to women completely opposite them (and people in general) do so because they want those qualities that the person has BUT once you have them, yourself, you'll want to keep around people who are more like you. So, if you're goofy and playful (like myself) you'll want to keep around women who are also goofy and playful.
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ALL women will test you during the course of a relationship to try and break you down and pull more commitment out of you and it's up to YOU, as the man, to handle all of that properly. Women only become spiteful and revenge-seeking when you push her into that realm but women DON'T get there, naturally.
Men lead, women follow and WHILE women are following they're also looking for cracks and weaknesses to figure out if you're worth following.
Generally, what you'll find is that as you work on yourself more as a man you'll want to keep around women who are more like yourself. Men who are attracted to women completely opposite them (and people in general) do so because they want those qualities that the person has BUT once you have them, yourself, you'll want to keep around people who are more like you. So, if you're goofy and playful (like myself) you'll want to keep around women who are also goofy and playful.
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How?
Well, that isn't a clear cut answer since revenge-seeking is a strategy a woman might try out or develop. Basically, there is no answer where doing XYZ actions will cause revenge-seeking behavior.
However, the general answer is that you set bad expectations, set expectations you won't live up to or something of that nature.
You do behavior X when you lead her to think Y; she gets pissed and either a) tries out revenge to test you or get a reaction or b) she'll have been taught revenge as a strategy from past relationships/female friends, etc.
Keep in mind that "revenge" is a strategy that women learn; it's all over Hollywood and it's REALLY common among hood chicks and girls lower on the totem pole. He'll, I was watching Jersey Shore with my girlfriend last night and Vinny pulled a chicks number, his girlfriend found out and her response was "How would you feel if I did that same thing?" and it's a test; most guys hear that and correct their behavior.
Revenge, drama, etc. are all tests that women use to not get fucked over.
Well, that isn't a clear cut answer since revenge-seeking is a strategy a woman might try out or develop. Basically, there is no answer where doing XYZ actions will cause revenge-seeking behavior.
However, the general answer is that you set bad expectations, set expectations you won't live up to or something of that nature.
You do behavior X when you lead her to think Y; she gets pissed and either a) tries out revenge to test you or get a reaction or b) she'll have been taught revenge as a strategy from past relationships/female friends, etc.
Keep in mind that "revenge" is a strategy that women learn; it's all over Hollywood and it's REALLY common among hood chicks and girls lower on the totem pole. He'll, I was watching Jersey Shore with my girlfriend last night and Vinny pulled a chicks number, his girlfriend found out and her response was "How would you feel if I did that same thing?" and it's a test; most guys hear that and correct their behavior.
Revenge, drama, etc. are all tests that women use to not get fucked over.
New topic: do hotter women handle rejection differently?
Do women with bigger breasts handle rejection differently?
I wonder if there are any guys here who belong to the school "When it comes to rejection, all women, are the same."
Do women with bigger breasts handle rejection differently?
I wonder if there are any guys here who belong to the school "When it comes to rejection, all women, are the same."
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whats up with the spamming, man. Is there something other guys havent addressed?
We also need time to address. There's like so many questions and we don't have all the answers
Zac
We also need time to address. There's like so many questions and we don't have all the answers
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Virgin101 said:
Well, I read it and digested it just fine.
Certainly not laid out like a novel with precise and accurate punctuation/sentence structure but it doesn't mean I (or anybody else) can't read it and understand what he's saying. No need to go postal about something so irrelevant.
-Richard
The way I type is usually how I would say it in real life. So that explains the commas.Richard said:
I also type in a layering method. You know how in high school math, they don't teach you.
A1
A2
A3
And then.
B1
B2
B3.
What they instead teach you is,
A1 B1 C1, and then A2 B2 C2, and then A3 B3 C3. Called layering.
So while I may say something like "Can't do A, can't do B." Obviously, I could simplify it to "Can't do A or B" but that isn't my purpose.
The whole point of layering is to reiterate certain points more than others.
For example, "X happened," and then several sentences later "Because X happened, I did Y."