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Not sure if it's a limiting belief or a wrong belief but I'm a black guy in a predominately white country and Iv found that girls starts off really cold and the girls which are interested are really aggressive in their approach.
I'm not sure if the way I'm handling the situation is affecting my ability too close because I find that I'm getting with a lot of girls in the club and breaking the sexual tension just because I deflect the advances for a while but eventually get with the girls because Iv noticed if I deflect it too much attraction expires.
Any advice in closing would be appreciated
Maybe isolating them would be the plan so I can talk too them instead of trying to communicate on the dance floor.
I'm not sure if the way I'm handling the situation is affecting my ability too close because I find that I'm getting with a lot of girls in the club and breaking the sexual tension just because I deflect the advances for a while but eventually get with the girls because Iv noticed if I deflect it too much attraction expires.
Any advice in closing would be appreciated
Maybe isolating them would be the plan so I can talk too them instead of trying to communicate on the dance floor.
