Hey Fellas:
I have a question about responding to rejection over texts and am curious how you would respond:
I have had this happen multiple times and it is starting to get annoying.
I need some advice on how to handle it in the future.
According to Chase I have tried to just act cool and not get upset or angry but I am not sure if it is resulting in getting the result I want which is to get the pussy wet and laid.
Girl #1: She is a beautiful Korean/Russian mix a clear 9/10 probably could get any man she wanted in a heartbeat likes salsa dancing etc. When I saw her I new I wanted to take her from the beginning.
Date: Went to coffee. I deep dived and kept the conversation fun and exciting. Escalated into light touching etc built up the sexual tension.
I tried to stay cool and calm tried to move fast with her and take her that night but it didn't happen.
Next Day: Sent this text:
Me: Good morning XXX.
I enjoyed meeting you yesterday.
Her: Good morning XXX )) I enjoyed it also))
I didn't want to ask her out then because I felt the date was an okay one. According to Chase I waited 2-3 days since it was an okay date.
2nd day: Sent this text:
Me: Hey XXX, hope your week's going great. Enjoyed hanging out with you Sunday, you're very pleasant to talk to. Let's grab dinner sometime this week what's your schedule look like?
Her: Hi XXX ) Very busy week and I'm going to Russia this Friday for Holidays))
Her: Let's meet after I'm back. I really enjoyed your company too ))
Me: Hi XXX Cool. Sounds good. I am not sure if this is the correct response or not? - I don't want to sound needy or come off desperate but she is rejecting me.
How would you handle it?
Girl #2: Another sexy Asian/has her choice of any man she really wanted: 8/10 I took her out twice and missed my opportunity which I am pissed about but oh well.
However, currently we have still been contacting each other and she drunk called me last night so I sent this text:
Me: Where did you go last night?
Her: XXX Just drank beer. How many hours did you sleep?
Me: 10 I have been busy with work. What's your schedule like today?
Her: Yeah, finish 6, and start from 8-9:30.
Me: There is a cool new French restaurant I want to try. Why don't we grab dinner tonight at 10:00? We can meet at XXX exit 2 and go from there. Cool?
Her: How about we meet on Thursday. I don't work till 8 pm. I have a holiday.
Me: Awesome. See you Thursday - Is this the correct response or should I tried to have got her out sooner?
Her: K
Girl #3: Another cute Asian...at this point I think you see I have a bad case of yellow fever 7/10 took her out twice on the second date I bedded her and gave her great sex.
Tried to get her out that week but was rejected so went radio silent for the next week then sent this text:
Me: Good morning XXX- How was your weekend? I went to a cool Christmas Party.
Her: Good! Did you have a good time?
Me: It was a great time! I'd like to tell you about it I'd like to cook dinner for you. What's your schedule like this week?
Her: Oh that is good for you, I want to go with you. Maybe I am busy this week. I'm sorry.
Me: It would be nice to enjoy together Well when your not busy maybe we can meet again. Have a good day. - I wasn't sure if I should have sent this or not she is rejecting me but I don't want to come off as needy or desperate. How would you guys handle it?
What do you guys recommend is there a better way to handle it instead of just responding with- Cool.
Once again thanks for taking the time to respond-
Surfer
I have a question about responding to rejection over texts and am curious how you would respond:
I have had this happen multiple times and it is starting to get annoying.
I need some advice on how to handle it in the future.
According to Chase I have tried to just act cool and not get upset or angry but I am not sure if it is resulting in getting the result I want which is to get the pussy wet and laid.
Girl #1: She is a beautiful Korean/Russian mix a clear 9/10 probably could get any man she wanted in a heartbeat likes salsa dancing etc. When I saw her I new I wanted to take her from the beginning.
Date: Went to coffee. I deep dived and kept the conversation fun and exciting. Escalated into light touching etc built up the sexual tension.
I tried to stay cool and calm tried to move fast with her and take her that night but it didn't happen.
Next Day: Sent this text:
Me: Good morning XXX.
I enjoyed meeting you yesterday. Her: Good morning XXX )) I enjoyed it also))
I didn't want to ask her out then because I felt the date was an okay one. According to Chase I waited 2-3 days since it was an okay date.
2nd day: Sent this text:
Me: Hey XXX, hope your week's going great. Enjoyed hanging out with you Sunday, you're very pleasant to talk to. Let's grab dinner sometime this week what's your schedule look like?
Her: Hi XXX ) Very busy week and I'm going to Russia this Friday for Holidays))
Her: Let's meet after I'm back. I really enjoyed your company too ))
Me: Hi XXX Cool. Sounds good. I am not sure if this is the correct response or not? - I don't want to sound needy or come off desperate but she is rejecting me.
How would you handle it?
Girl #2: Another sexy Asian/has her choice of any man she really wanted: 8/10 I took her out twice and missed my opportunity which I am pissed about but oh well.
However, currently we have still been contacting each other and she drunk called me last night so I sent this text:
Me: Where did you go last night?
Her: XXX Just drank beer. How many hours did you sleep?
Me: 10 I have been busy with work. What's your schedule like today?
Her: Yeah, finish 6, and start from 8-9:30.
Me: There is a cool new French restaurant I want to try. Why don't we grab dinner tonight at 10:00? We can meet at XXX exit 2 and go from there. Cool?
Her: How about we meet on Thursday. I don't work till 8 pm. I have a holiday.
Me: Awesome. See you Thursday
- Is this the correct response or should I tried to have got her out sooner? Her: K
Girl #3: Another cute Asian...at this point I think you see I have a bad case of yellow fever
7/10 took her out twice on the second date I bedded her and gave her great sex. Tried to get her out that week but was rejected so went radio silent for the next week then sent this text:
Me: Good morning XXX- How was your weekend? I went to a cool Christmas Party.
Her: Good! Did you have a good time?
Me: It was a great time! I'd like to tell you about it
I'd like to cook dinner for you. What's your schedule like this week? Her: Oh that is good for you, I want to go with you. Maybe I am busy this week. I'm sorry.
Me: It would be nice to enjoy together
Well when your not busy maybe we can meet again. Have a good day. - I wasn't sure if I should have sent this or not she is rejecting me but I don't want to come off as needy or desperate. How would you guys handle it? What do you guys recommend is there a better way to handle it instead of just responding with- Cool.
Once again thanks for taking the time to respond-
Surfer
