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NarrowJ

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Intro:

An old friend from high school that moved about 3 states away came to visit this past weekend. I hadn’t seen him in like 10 years. Anyway, a bunch of us old high school buddies came up with this plan to all meet at the casino in St Louis for a nice reunion. There’s 6 of us in total. We all meet up at the hotel about 3:45 PM or so, check in, get our stuff up to our rooms and then head over to the casino buffet to get some food in us.


Early On:

We get done eating and head into the casino floor. There’s a bar on one end called “Globar”. We head there first, get drinks and sit down. We’re all entrenched in our own group for the time being. We haven’t gotten to hang out in a long time. So anyway, after we’re sitting there for a few minutes, these two girls (I’d say one a 7, and the other a good 8) go up and sit at the bar. You have to realize one thing about a casino, it’s mostly dudes- and in the case you see some women there, they’re usually with (a) their boyfriend/husband/etc or (b) with a group of friends, or like a wedding or something. Now, another thing here- my friends and I come from a town of about 12,000 population. These guys have probably never even heard the term PUA. The way they hit on girls is like yelling “hey baby!” and whistling at them or something lol. I mean, a couple of the guys are better with women than the others of course. I take this opportunity to show them something. I tell them I’m going to go talk to these girls.

So, I go walk up to the bar and stand close enough to them - beside the better looking one, of course :) – within their peripheral vision. As soon as HB8 notices me there, she glances over. I see this out of the corner of my eye, so I open her with “So- you two going to pay off your student loans with all the money you win tonight?”. They laugh and say no they played some slots, and the other girl mentions they came down on a party bus. I ask them where they’re from and all that stuff. They live like an hour west near Springfield, MO. We make good conversation for a couple of minutes. The bartender approaches and asks me if I need anything, so I get a round of beers for my friends. I buy the girls a drink too, but they say they’re not ready yet. I tell the bartender to go ahead and keep one on ice for them. They thank me, and I tell them it was nice to meet them- and offer them to come sit with our group if they’d like. They turn down the offer to sit with us, but very cordially.

When I return to the guys, they are all like “dude, those chicks want you” and “you’re a pimp” and etcetera. This makes me feel really good about myself haha. My friend Ben says “I’m going to go talk to them” and he goes up and to make a long story short, makes an ass of himself and probably ruins any chance of these girls sitting with us or hanging out with us. Oh well.


Mid- Evening (The Girl):

So we split into a two groups of 3 to do some gambling, and after a short while I’m down about $200 playing blackjack. I decide to take a break, go to the bathroom and go find the other guys. I see this good looking girl (HB8) leaned back in a chair by the bathrooms. She’s obviously not playing the slot machine in front of her. I ask “What’s the matter? That thing take all your money?” and she laughs and points off into the distance and says “No, the one over there with the panda on it did though!” and I laugh and ask if she’s here for a special occasion and she says no not really, her and a couple girlfriends are going to see Korn and staying at the hotel here. She says she’s waiting on her friends in the bathroom, the concert starts in 45 minutes and they are going to be late. Her friends come out and they seem in a hurry, so I can’t get her # or even her name.

I eventually find the other guys, and we hang out for a while and have more drinks and take a break from the tables. I’ve had a couple Hennessey & cokes at this point. Our group’s goal for the night is to basically get shitfaced and have a good time together, since we don’t get to hang out but maybe twice a year, max.


Later In The Evening:

So, I skip to this point because this is when things get interesting. Not much happens up until now, other than us guys drinking and bullshitting and occasionally a couple of us heading off to play some. It’s a little after 1 AM and there’s 4 of us at the Globar (the other 2 are off playing). I see the girl and her two friends from the bathroom (earlier) across the bar getting drinks. They don’t look visibly intoxicated, but I’m sure they are. After all, they’ve been at a Korn concert lol. I tell my guy friends “watch this- I’m going to make this girl go over there and talk to me, using only my eyes”. I have no fucking idea whether this is going to work or not haha, but I’m about three-quarters of the way drunk so I don’t care either way. They’re like “naw bullshit!” and I am waiting for her to see me, and as soon as she does I dart my eyes off to the right into the distance, coupled with a slight head movement as in “Hey meet me over there to talk”. As soon as I make this gesture I get up and walk to the point that I motioned to, never breaking eye contact AND SHE WALKS OVER THERE TOO. I feel like a God. I ask how the concert was and now that she’s up close I can tell that, yeah, she is fucked up. I get her name, since I couldn’t earlier, and we talk for a minute and I tell her to bring her friends over, I want to introduce the two groups. She is like the pied piper here, and brings her friends over and we introduce everyone.

Her friends are actually pretty cool, and my 3 friends are doing the male competition thing to win over the attention of her 2 friends. I take this opportunity to move her, so I tell her “lets go walk around. Bring your drink” and she does and we walk around and I start to kino. I place my hand on the small of her back, and stop her a couple times by lightly touching her arm or shoulder to get her to look at something. I get her far enough away from the Globar, I decide maybe I should try to kiss her. But, I don’t because I’m kind of afraid it’s too soon. I need to build some more rapport with this girl and seed something at my room and get her back there before I make a move. We walk some more and I start to deep dive and we eventually grab a couple chairs in front of some slot machines and sit and talk. At some point she brings up that she is in a relationship that she is trying to end, and she gets a little down and so I pick up the mood for her a bit by telling her that it must be nice to have this little mini-adventure with her friends and such. She’s very agreeable, and I seed things into the conversation like that this is her time to go have a good time and do some crazy things that she normally doesn’t. Talking about this seems to really pick her up. She is very high-energy all of the sudden. I decide its time to pull! I tell her to come with me, I need to go put my phone on the charger in my room. (a good excuse, because as I show her – it is nearly dead). She doesn’t seem skeptical at all, she’s still very high energy.


The Close:

In the skywalk on our way to my room she jumps on my back and I give her a piggy back ride and some people look at us funny and this middle aged man says loudly to us: “That’s how you keep a good girl right there! You hold on to her!” and we laugh and I drop her to her feet and I put my arms around her waist and say that those people thought we were a couple and she says that maybe its because we’re having so much fun. To which I say the fun has only begun, and she is very agreeable and still very high energy. We get to my room and I plug my phone in the charger and I start talking about the mini bar and how it’s like a little fridge that makes everything expensive. She is laughing, and I’m not sure if she knows the drill or what- but she sits on the dresser thing where the TV is and I sit on the bed across from her. I break out a couple beers out of the cooler and hand her one. She says she needs to make sure she stays with her group. I remind her we’ve only been gone like 15 minutes (its really been closer to an hour lol) and so we are sitting and she is telling me about her family and how they are Jehovah’s witness and all this (yikes), and we’re laughing it up, still very high energy. I had turned on some music on my phone when I plugged it in, and a song comes on and she shrieks and jumps up because she loves the song. I take this opportunity to grab her, and dance with her for a minute or so- and then she kisses me. I was totally going to kiss her, but she initiated first. So we kiss pretty passionately and I throw the both of us down onto the bed and she stops me and says “I need to text them, and tell them we’ll be back soon, so they don’t worry”. I say ok, and she does and then we go back to making out. I get very minor LMR when I go for the sex, she also stops and asks if I have a condom. I say I do, but I hate using them. She insists I use one, so I do. But, I end up just taking it off soon after we begin. I think we were too far into the throws of passion, she was just like “fuck it, let’s fuck like wild animals”. We have sex for a little over an hour and she says she needs to go. We put our clothes back on, and I’m very happy that she doesn’t seem to regret doing it one bit. She wraps her arms around me and smiles and kisses me very passionately before we exit my room. We hold hands through the skywalk, and she is beaming. Come to find out, when we get back to the casino – her friends and my friends are no longer at the bar. So we start texting them, and all 7 of them are over in her & her friends room drinking! So we go show up there and every single one of them is giving us shit about leaving and that they know what we just did, yada yada yada. We of course both deny, but it was still pretty funny! :)


Quick points:

1. This was one of my quickest lays ever. It was 1 AM or so when her and her friends were at the bar ordering drinks, and only about 3:30 AM when we had sex. I mean, yeah I had talked to her earlier in the evening- but only for a brief moment.

2. I think I just had a ton of confidence, because I was hanging out with old friends (who mostly have zero special or taught skill with women) and wanted to put some of the stuff I've learned on display for them. Which I did :) Plus, I think my value skyrocketed in their eyes due to the fact that they were hanging out with good-looking women in their hotel room, largely because I went and talked to this girl and had her introduce her friends.

3. This girl seemed like a pretty conservative type. She wasn't dressed real sexy or anything, but still looked really good. I'd rate her an 8 for sure. I think I was successful because I ran the frame that she needed to let her hair down and get crazy, to forget about this "bad" relationship she's been in.
 

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Well done on this one. I visited a casino in St. Louis a few years back - there's not much going on there, women-wise, or at least there wasn't when I went on a weekday evening. Nice to see you fared a little better than I did there...

NarrowJ said:
When I return to the guys, they are all like “dude, those chicks want you” and “you’re a pimp” and etcetera. This makes me feel really good about myself haha. My friend Ben says “I’m going to go talk to them” and he goes up and to make a long story short, makes an ass of himself and probably ruins any chance of these girls sitting with us or hanging out with us. Oh well.

Always fun to show off a little bit.

And funny when your old buddies ruin things.

NarrowJ said:
I am waiting for her to see me, and as soon as she does I dart my eyes off to the right into the distance, coupled with a slight head movement as in “Hey meet me over there to talk”. As soon as I make this gesture I get up and walk to the point that I motioned to, never breaking eye contact AND SHE WALKS OVER THERE TOO. I feel like a God. I ask how the concert was and now that she’s up close I can tell that, yeah, she is fucked up. I get her name, since I couldn’t earlier, and we talk for a minute and I tell her to bring her friends over, I want to introduce the two groups. She is like the pied piper here, and brings her friends over and we introduce everyone.

This whole sequence is key... you're getting a lot of strong investment from her in a very short span of time. Big attraction booster - if she didn't know before, she knows now.

NarrowJ said:
At some point she brings up that she is in a relationship that she is trying to end, and she gets a little down and so I pick up the mood for her a bit by telling her that it must be nice to have this little mini-adventure with her friends and such. She’s very agreeable, and I seed things into the conversation like that this is her time to go have a good time and do some crazy things that she normally doesn’t. Talking about this seems to really pick her up. She is very high-energy all of the sudden. I decide its time to pull! I tell her to come with me, I need to go put my phone on the charger in my room. (a good excuse, because as I show her – it is nearly dead). She doesn’t seem skeptical at all, she’s still very high energy.

Seems like you helped her come to a decision ("You know what? I'm sleeping with J tonight!"), and that energized her. Nicely done.

NarrowJ said:
and then she kisses me. I was totally going to kiss her, but she initiated first.

[snip]

I get very minor LMR when I go for the sex, she also stops and asks if I have a condom.

Yep - the decision had already been made in advance. These are always fun.

NarrowJ said:
2. I think I just had a ton of confidence, because I was hanging out with old friends (who mostly have zero special or taught skill with women) and wanted to put some of the stuff I've learned on display for them. Which I did :) Plus, I think my value skyrocketed in their eyes due to the fact that they were hanging out with good-looking women in their hotel room, largely because I went and talked to this girl and had her introduce her friends.

This happens if you enjoy taking center stage when you're with a group of guys who are watching you. Any hesitancy you might otherwise have just evaporates, because it stops being about what the girl thinks about you and instead is about, "Wait until my buddies get a load of THIS!"

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3. This girl seemed like a pretty conservative type. She wasn't dressed real sexy or anything, but still looked really good. I'd rate her an 8 for sure. I think I was successful because I ran the frame that she needed to let her hair down and get crazy, to forget about this "bad" relationship she's been in.

Depends on your definition of conservative, but the really reserved / inexperienced girls won't ask you to use condoms either because a) sex is love, and when you're in love you don't use a condom, and/or b) they're too shy to ask. However, you can get girls who've only had limited experience but have come out of a tumultuous relationship who just decide they're going to go on a tear and go have some wild sex - this isn't too uncommon.

Chase
 

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Well done on this one. I visited a casino in St. Louis a few years back - there's not much going on there, women-wise, or at least there wasn't when I went on a weekday evening.

Well, we were there on a Saturday night. So yeah, probably much busier than on a weeknight. I'd also bet that Casinos aren't great places to do pickup anyway, being that its about 70-30 men. Then, about half of the women that are there are with their husband/boyfriend/etc.

I think this was a combination of me actively scoping out girls and also just being damn lucky that we ran into some young girls that wanted to party.


Depends on your definition of conservative, but the really reserved / inexperienced girls won't ask you to use condoms either because a) sex is love, and when you're in love you don't use a condom, and/or b) they're too shy to ask. However, you can get girls who've only had limited experience but have come out of a tumultuous relationship who just decide they're going to go on a tear and go have some wild sex - this isn't too uncommon.

Well, maybe not "conservative". But, I'd go with young and inexperienced more than anything. She was very friendly and outgoing though. She probably got herself all excited, ended up back in my room with me, and then was thinking: "oh shit, I'm going to have sex with this guy and I've known him for like a few hours. I hope he has a condom!"

Anyway, yes, this is definitely one that I'm proud of. It is proof to myself that I'm starting to get to where things like getting investment, framing and kino are things that I just "do" without having to think to hard about it. Nothing uncomfortable and forced about it (which women pick up on and can kill an interaction, imo).
 

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NarrowJ said:
Anyway, yes, this is definitely one that I'm proud of. It is proof to myself that I'm starting to get to where things like getting investment, framing and kino are things that I just "do" without having to think to hard about it. Nothing uncomfortable and forced about it (which women pick up on and can kill an interaction, imo).

Agreed man - you've been making some strides. The biggest thing is just getting out there and doing it, and you're doing it. I'm excited to see what you're going to be pulling off in another 6 months or a year at this rate - keep going out and meeting girls and pushing things forward, try not to get tempted to rest on the laurels of your initial success. You have a real opportunity to push through to the other side and reach a point where you've basically solidified a skill set that you're never going to lose even if you take time off from it in the future (girlfriend, wife, career goals, focusing on another skill set or hobby, etc.).

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Thanks man, much appreciated. I do plan on taking this to the very highest level that I can.

If you were to go back and look at some of my initial posts on here - before I read much of your stuff - I was totally clueless. It is a very powerful feeling to have this much control over my love life. I never really thought that was even possible- that girls just either liked you or they didn't.
 

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Much appreciated, Franco! Believe me, was fun to write too haha :)

-NJ
 

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NarrowJ said:
I am waiting for her to see me, and as soon as she does I dart my eyes off to the right into the distance, coupled with a slight head movement as in “Hey meet me over there to talk”. As soon as I make this gesture I get up and walk to the point that I motioned to, never breaking eye contact AND SHE WALKS OVER THERE TOO. I feel like a God. I ask how the concert was and now that she’s up close I can tell that, yeah, she is fucked up. I get her name, since I couldn’t earlier, and we talk for a minute and I tell her to bring her friends over, I want to introduce the two groups. She is like the pied piper here, and brings her friends over and we introduce everyone.

Is this elite eye contact or something else

I found that one of my weak points is eye contact so if anyone has any tips or links to articles (ill probably go read what i can find now) that would be really handy

Lovely report
 
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