Been seeing 3 girls on rotation at home + just stayed in Mexico city with a latina that I met there a few months back but we parted ways once I left. Naturally, there is one girl I like more than the rest.
We mesh super well and the sex is so fucking passionate its great. However, I know this slippery slope as I've seen it before and there's no way in hell I'm going to let myself get into a relationship with this girl as I'm just starting to catch my stride again with cold approach.
The question I wanted to ask is a logistical question. From Dec 4th - Dec 12th, I saw this chick 3 times. Once at her place (same night lay from the club), then twice more where she came over to mine and stayed the night each time + met my roommate. I know I broke some FWB rules here, I wasn't thinking clearly. I liked her company quite a bit and she was the only one I wanted to see before I left for Mexico.
Each time we spent time together, before she would leave the next day, I told her something along the lines of "I don't know when I'll see you again, I travel quite a bit, will be in Mexico and then in Austin, so maybe in January." She'd always respond with "You never know, fate is a bitch"
Some weird things I've noticed/ question:
1) I've always texted only for logistics and texted her first both times throughout the week before I left for Mexico to come over. Ever since I left on the 13th, I haven't texted her. She hasn't texted me either. Which is a good thing I guess, but it's weird because most girls I've slept with usually like to keep a conversation going to which I end up teetering off but this one never tried in the first place LOL
2) I definitely want to continue fucking this girl now that I'm back in town. Should I hit her up first again or wait to hear from her? If we continue fucking again, will it screw me if I go backwards a step and just go to seeing her once a week, and not let her sleepover? I want to have a casual relationship with this chick bc I enjoy her company without getting invested too much emotionally, whats the best way to proceed?
P.S. I don't really care too much about the other 2 chicks, which is why FWB status is mega easy with them. They text first, we set a day, I come over and we fuck, then I leave a few hours later.
We mesh super well and the sex is so fucking passionate its great. However, I know this slippery slope as I've seen it before and there's no way in hell I'm going to let myself get into a relationship with this girl as I'm just starting to catch my stride again with cold approach.
The question I wanted to ask is a logistical question. From Dec 4th - Dec 12th, I saw this chick 3 times. Once at her place (same night lay from the club), then twice more where she came over to mine and stayed the night each time + met my roommate. I know I broke some FWB rules here, I wasn't thinking clearly. I liked her company quite a bit and she was the only one I wanted to see before I left for Mexico.
Each time we spent time together, before she would leave the next day, I told her something along the lines of "I don't know when I'll see you again, I travel quite a bit, will be in Mexico and then in Austin, so maybe in January." She'd always respond with "You never know, fate is a bitch"
Some weird things I've noticed/ question:
1) I've always texted only for logistics and texted her first both times throughout the week before I left for Mexico to come over. Ever since I left on the 13th, I haven't texted her. She hasn't texted me either. Which is a good thing I guess, but it's weird because most girls I've slept with usually like to keep a conversation going to which I end up teetering off but this one never tried in the first place LOL
2) I definitely want to continue fucking this girl now that I'm back in town. Should I hit her up first again or wait to hear from her? If we continue fucking again, will it screw me if I go backwards a step and just go to seeing her once a week, and not let her sleepover? I want to have a casual relationship with this chick bc I enjoy her company without getting invested too much emotionally, whats the best way to proceed?
P.S. I don't really care too much about the other 2 chicks, which is why FWB status is mega easy with them. They text first, we set a day, I come over and we fuck, then I leave a few hours later.
