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So I 've been working on how to improve in general. I'm still not cold approaching girls in the street, but I've been seeing a lot more result in these past months then I've ever had. I've gotten better at reading signals and the reason behind them, but I still slip up more often then I want, sometimes pretty bad too.
So I met a girl at a party last week when I was pretty drunk (stupid sure, but I guess I made an impression). She tracked me down through facebook.
Her: Hey, do you remember me? I atleast think It's you. We talked for quite a while and suddenly you were gone.
me: Sure sounds like me
I was a long night so I don't remember everthing :S
Her: Haha how so? Running away like that? :d and yeah same here, everything was quite cheap :d But you do still remember me?
me: I don't remember your name, but I still recognize you, else I wouldn't have accepted
Her: hahahaha good ! and yea we talked for quite but you suddenly and I found that a shame ! :d
me: Can't remember that But it sounds like we should do it again sometime
Her: yeah I can't quite remember everything but I do recall that. You were easy to recognize through your profile pic.
me: Always the profile pic haha (I have a drunk lama, some story with a friend)
Her: yeah you do look handsome in that haha
Because I really like the pic : number
So I texted her when she had time to meet up. She said she only had to attend 3 hours of class each week so she was available pretty much every week. I set up a date for wednesday. On tuesday I learned that a few classes dropped so I actually would have time that day. I suggested to do it then. She said she still had a group project and asked when I would be done. I mentioned after 4 oclock to which she said I should tell her when I was done.
When I was done I told her I was getting a bus now and would tell her when I would be there. She thought I would tell her when I was done because she still was wrapping up her group work. She mentioned to be done around six, so I suggested we met up 15 mins past 6, to which she agreed. She also agreed quite a few times for the misunderstanding and for keeping me waiting, to which I said I wasn't that much of a big deal, as my dorm was only 5 mins away.
So we met up and it showed we actually had a lot in common. I asked her if she wanted to watch a movie at my place and she agreed. We set up and she cuddled up to me on the bed. 2 mins later we were making out and 5 mins after that she took her panties off. All was going well till she her mum called. yikes ! She asked her to get home asap (she didn't know a thing about this though). So I escorted her to a bus stop and left once she was safely on it. I asked her if I could see her again and she said she wanted to.
Later on she said it was no biggie and that it was safe. The day after, at about 3 oclock after class I asked her if she was up to do something tomorrow, as we have thursday and friday off. This followed:
Her:Um, I have to work tomorrow.. But I should tell you something else :d I'm not looking for something serious at the moment..
Her: sorry :/
me: I'm just having fun but if you donn't want to meet up you should say so though
Her: I'm not sure yet
me: Ok, let me know when you made up your mind.
Now at first, when I sent this I thought it would be good to give her some space. Now looking back, I actually feel like I shot myself in the foot. I know I shouldn't get emotionally hung up on a girl and I think I'm not still, but I do want to know if this is salvagable or if not, what mistakes I should definitely avoid.
So I met a girl at a party last week when I was pretty drunk (stupid sure, but I guess I made an impression). She tracked me down through facebook.
Her: Hey, do you remember me? I atleast think It's you. We talked for quite a while and suddenly you were gone.
me: Sure sounds like me
I was a long night so I don't remember everthing :SHer: Haha how so? Running away like that? :d and yeah same here, everything was quite cheap :d But you do still remember me?
me: I don't remember your name, but I still recognize you, else I wouldn't have accepted
Her: hahahaha good ! and yea we talked for quite but you suddenly and I found that a shame ! :d
me: Can't remember that
But it sounds like we should do it again sometimeHer: yeah I can't quite remember everything but I do recall that. You were easy to recognize through your profile pic.
me: Always the profile pic haha (I have a drunk lama, some story with a friend)
Her: yeah you do look handsome in that haha
Because I really like the pic : number
So I texted her when she had time to meet up. She said she only had to attend 3 hours of class each week so she was available pretty much every week. I set up a date for wednesday. On tuesday I learned that a few classes dropped so I actually would have time that day. I suggested to do it then. She said she still had a group project and asked when I would be done. I mentioned after 4 oclock to which she said I should tell her when I was done.
When I was done I told her I was getting a bus now and would tell her when I would be there. She thought I would tell her when I was done because she still was wrapping up her group work. She mentioned to be done around six, so I suggested we met up 15 mins past 6, to which she agreed. She also agreed quite a few times for the misunderstanding and for keeping me waiting, to which I said I wasn't that much of a big deal, as my dorm was only 5 mins away.
So we met up and it showed we actually had a lot in common. I asked her if she wanted to watch a movie at my place and she agreed. We set up and she cuddled up to me on the bed. 2 mins later we were making out and 5 mins after that she took her panties off. All was going well till she her mum called. yikes ! She asked her to get home asap (she didn't know a thing about this though). So I escorted her to a bus stop and left once she was safely on it. I asked her if I could see her again and she said she wanted to.
Later on she said it was no biggie and that it was safe. The day after, at about 3 oclock after class I asked her if she was up to do something tomorrow, as we have thursday and friday off. This followed:
Her:Um, I have to work tomorrow.. But I should tell you something else :d I'm not looking for something serious at the moment..
Her: sorry :/
me: I'm just having fun but if you donn't want to meet up you should say so though
Her: I'm not sure yet
me: Ok, let me know when you made up your mind.
Now at first, when I sent this I thought it would be good to give her some space. Now looking back, I actually feel like I shot myself in the foot. I know I shouldn't get emotionally hung up on a girl and I think I'm not still, but I do want to know if this is salvagable or if not, what mistakes I should definitely avoid.
