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It's a constant poking and nuisance every time you will see someone who is better than you or if you hold by a belief that you know it's true, and you know that another person is trying to settle you down or trying to swerve you into their idea and using tactics to manipulate you. First things first, nobody is exceptional to it.
So how do you try to not be affect by the paradox of truths and the current conversation you having? Separate them.
"Truths" is what you hold to guide your life. What you believe, Spend some time and ask why you here, why you using this website. This can be apply to your life as well.
and the other, The Conversation or the activity you doing, or why you taking this girl out. People will be and are always about themselves. Even me too. I am here to tell you that i have big verbal argument, and that i learn that what people want is different from what they saying. I want you guys to know this. and it's my bias interest to know that people need to know this, too. (That last statement can be flawed, for my own personal reasons. Seems like The Observer Effect)
"“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself,
you will succumb in every battle”
- Sun Tzu
and in this context, Know why she wants you in a conversation or what is the other person and who they really are, what they represent. This will serve you.
Zac
So how do you try to not be affect by the paradox of truths and the current conversation you having? Separate them.
"Truths" is what you hold to guide your life. What you believe, Spend some time and ask why you here, why you using this website. This can be apply to your life as well.
and the other, The Conversation or the activity you doing, or why you taking this girl out. People will be and are always about themselves. Even me too. I am here to tell you that i have big verbal argument, and that i learn that what people want is different from what they saying. I want you guys to know this. and it's my bias interest to know that people need to know this, too. (That last statement can be flawed, for my own personal reasons. Seems like The Observer Effect)
"“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself,
you will succumb in every battle”
- Sun Tzu
and in this context, Know why she wants you in a conversation or what is the other person and who they really are, what they represent. This will serve you.
Zac
