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So this just happened. Im fairly new to this whole seduction business so two or three days ago I decided to hit the streets and do some daygame. It went well I was able to get 2 numbers from 7 approaches and both of those numbers were enthusiastic about meeting up. The first number I was meeting up with today and the second number I will be meeting up with tomorrow so wish me luck on that one!
Anyways With the first number girl she was a real cutie. Probably the cutest girl I have seen IRL in a while. Anyways I decided to arrange a date at a park because she told me she doesn't drink anything so bars and coffee places were out. Since there is still a pandemic not a lot of other places are open so park it is. I met up with her and the conversation was mostly me talking and asking her stuff about herself and then trying to tease her and keep escalating. We spend 1:30 minutes at the park talking and me just hearing about herself and then I eventually feel it's time to move her so I move her to a restaurant near my place. Now, I'm starting to run out of steam a little bit at this point as I think I was either not doing interesting conversation topics or she was boring (Only reason I bring this up is because she herself and her friends call her boring and the more I learned about her the more I was starting to agree as her responses even when given interesting prompts were not very interesting or exciting). I was feeling like I wanted to try for same day hook up so I asked her if she wanted to go to my place for some preztels (preztels because she had wanted to get some). She gave me a no and I was undeterred and I bided my time and waited. I asked her again if she wanted preztels and again she said no. Again I waited. I got the conversation good again and asked if she wanted pretzels and she said yes. I was thinking that I was in the clear and thinking that sex was going to be easy once I deal with some last minute resistance.
Only I didn't expect this last minute resistance. I have a fairly small studio with only a desk, 2 bookshelfs, 1 chair, and 1 bed. The bed is right next to the chair and the desk but far enough that it takes a little extra to over to it. So I invited her in, I turned on the news with my computer (from chases article) and offered some water. Then I said she could sit in the chair and that was GG. Once she sat in that chair I could not get her to get out of it. Like it wasn't like It didn't seem like she wasn't down for something as I would walk over to the chair and start to make out with her (which I did in the first 10 minutes per chases advice) and it would be going fine but because of the angle I couldn't really take off her clothes or like stimulate her with her clothes. So then Id try and move her from the chair or try and get her in a better position to get to the clothes and she would either move herself back into the chair or keep shutting me down. I think this happened like 5 or 6 times when I tried a variety of things ranging from just kissing more to saying she should come over to my bed because X reasons (at one point I even picked her up and put her on the bed but she quickly got up and went back to the chair) and other escalation tactics. She would not budge.
But after all these rejections I came up with another idea and I started to play a board game with her ( she said she likes board games) and THEN she moved from the chair to my bed. We played and got a little competitive and it looked like everything was going good again. Once the game was done I waited a little bit and then I made another move and she again was into the kissing and kissed by BUT THEN just moved back to the chair. After this time I was done and I decided to kick her out of my room with a excuse of I'm meeting up with friends in 30 minutes. She looked disappointed and the conversation between when she called the uber and when it arrived it was very little talking. Partly because I had talked about basically everything with her and I was running out of fumes and partly because I was just done wasting my time. Even with this she did give me a big hug as she left and then I was able to get her feeling in a good mood with some quick jokes. But on my inside I was slightly dejected. This entire episode last like 4 hours.
I'm fairly sure that Ill text to make sure she got home but its probably the last time were ever going to text.
Anyways things I did right:
Approaching her and getting her on a date is a big plus.
Was able to find out a LOT about her. She seemed to enjoy it so Deep dive skills are fairly well developed.
Got her back to my apartment on the first date.
I did do some sexual jokes and good light touches before bringing her back to my place. Which was good.
Things I did not quite right:
When we were playing the game she said to me (I didn't pick up on till she pointed it out) that she didn't ask me any questions about myself. So I guess she really wasn't hook that well?
I was obviously being uncalibrated with my approach when it came to the whole chair situation and I got to figure out what to do. Like I was lowering my value a little too much with trying to go back to her after she rejected me in the chair. I think it made me look needy. But like she wasnt leaving and in my mind my thinking was that if she did not leave, she must really want me to push past her ASD to fuck her. But I really should've regrouped my thoughts before trying to engage her more with the whole chair fiasco.
Maybe I should've talked about sex more? I didn't really talk about it as I have no real experience with that but I did hint at it a lot. But maybe I should've been more overt as there were a couple of times where she said " what are going to do with me over there (referring to my bed)" I would respond "Oh I can think of a couple of things {flirtatious look}". Which maybe was a sign I should've went into detail of what I wanted to do to her.
Anyways With the first number girl she was a real cutie. Probably the cutest girl I have seen IRL in a while. Anyways I decided to arrange a date at a park because she told me she doesn't drink anything so bars and coffee places were out. Since there is still a pandemic not a lot of other places are open so park it is. I met up with her and the conversation was mostly me talking and asking her stuff about herself and then trying to tease her and keep escalating. We spend 1:30 minutes at the park talking and me just hearing about herself and then I eventually feel it's time to move her so I move her to a restaurant near my place. Now, I'm starting to run out of steam a little bit at this point as I think I was either not doing interesting conversation topics or she was boring (Only reason I bring this up is because she herself and her friends call her boring and the more I learned about her the more I was starting to agree as her responses even when given interesting prompts were not very interesting or exciting). I was feeling like I wanted to try for same day hook up so I asked her if she wanted to go to my place for some preztels (preztels because she had wanted to get some). She gave me a no and I was undeterred and I bided my time and waited. I asked her again if she wanted preztels and again she said no. Again I waited. I got the conversation good again and asked if she wanted pretzels and she said yes. I was thinking that I was in the clear and thinking that sex was going to be easy once I deal with some last minute resistance.
Only I didn't expect this last minute resistance. I have a fairly small studio with only a desk, 2 bookshelfs, 1 chair, and 1 bed. The bed is right next to the chair and the desk but far enough that it takes a little extra to over to it. So I invited her in, I turned on the news with my computer (from chases article) and offered some water. Then I said she could sit in the chair and that was GG. Once she sat in that chair I could not get her to get out of it. Like it wasn't like It didn't seem like she wasn't down for something as I would walk over to the chair and start to make out with her (which I did in the first 10 minutes per chases advice) and it would be going fine but because of the angle I couldn't really take off her clothes or like stimulate her with her clothes. So then Id try and move her from the chair or try and get her in a better position to get to the clothes and she would either move herself back into the chair or keep shutting me down. I think this happened like 5 or 6 times when I tried a variety of things ranging from just kissing more to saying she should come over to my bed because X reasons (at one point I even picked her up and put her on the bed but she quickly got up and went back to the chair) and other escalation tactics. She would not budge.
But after all these rejections I came up with another idea and I started to play a board game with her ( she said she likes board games) and THEN she moved from the chair to my bed. We played and got a little competitive and it looked like everything was going good again. Once the game was done I waited a little bit and then I made another move and she again was into the kissing and kissed by BUT THEN just moved back to the chair. After this time I was done and I decided to kick her out of my room with a excuse of I'm meeting up with friends in 30 minutes. She looked disappointed and the conversation between when she called the uber and when it arrived it was very little talking. Partly because I had talked about basically everything with her and I was running out of fumes and partly because I was just done wasting my time. Even with this she did give me a big hug as she left and then I was able to get her feeling in a good mood with some quick jokes. But on my inside I was slightly dejected. This entire episode last like 4 hours.
I'm fairly sure that Ill text to make sure she got home but its probably the last time were ever going to text.
Anyways things I did right:
Approaching her and getting her on a date is a big plus.
Was able to find out a LOT about her. She seemed to enjoy it so Deep dive skills are fairly well developed.
Got her back to my apartment on the first date.
I did do some sexual jokes and good light touches before bringing her back to my place. Which was good.
Things I did not quite right:
When we were playing the game she said to me (I didn't pick up on till she pointed it out) that she didn't ask me any questions about myself. So I guess she really wasn't hook that well?
I was obviously being uncalibrated with my approach when it came to the whole chair situation and I got to figure out what to do. Like I was lowering my value a little too much with trying to go back to her after she rejected me in the chair. I think it made me look needy. But like she wasnt leaving and in my mind my thinking was that if she did not leave, she must really want me to push past her ASD to fuck her. But I really should've regrouped my thoughts before trying to engage her more with the whole chair fiasco.
Maybe I should've talked about sex more? I didn't really talk about it as I have no real experience with that but I did hint at it a lot. But maybe I should've been more overt as there were a couple of times where she said " what are going to do with me over there (referring to my bed)" I would respond "Oh I can think of a couple of things {flirtatious look}". Which maybe was a sign I should've went into detail of what I wanted to do to her.
It's not you really.