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shaneawi

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I was wondering what is the best way to react to a girl that is being rude, playfully mean, challenging, disagreeing with you, making fun of you? I've been working on moving away from being a nice guy. Whenever I'm around girks I'll have the I don't care attitude, a little selfishness, dominance, playful teasing. But what do I do when the girl responds back by being disagreeable and slightly rude herself? Does that mean I should tone it down and move her or is she just annoyed at me?
 

Frost

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The "I don't care" attitude works very well in this case. One way to do it is when she says or does something to challenge or test you, you look her in the eyes, put on a smile (not a big smile with teeth showing), and shake your head is if you're saying to yourself I can't believe she's even trying while you turn away. If she's trying to challenge you and sees that you're unaffected by it, and that you can see through her games, it will be a huge turn on for her.

And remember that a girl doesn't test you if she's not interested in you. Otherwise she would merely be polite or ignore you.

You can also tease her and destroy her frame, or even transition to a more sexual vibe (something like "If you keep this up I might give a spanking", if you see her light up, continue with "...if you're lucky"). And yes, I believe you should move her soon after you bust the test.
 
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shaneawi

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Okay, I just wanted to make sure that she saw me as an alpha male. She always disagrees with what I say or has a domineering attitude or tries to make fun of me playfully. She basically is doing the same thing I did to her. I wasn't sure if this was attraction or her way of saying that she won't submit to me.
 
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