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Chase,
I've been reading a lot of articles on GC lately and loved the one article about law of social exchange.
While I do read more about developing the fundamentals to be a sexy man and getting all of that down, one thing that confuses me a lot about the social world are the crowds. Maybe it is because I was an engineer in college and we tend to see things from an overhead sort of view and want it broken down objectively.
My question while reading this articles is how do the crowds differ between high status people and low status people (excuse my harsh language) now that you're in the adult world?
Like in high school, the weird kids with odd hobbies who struggled socially were in one group while the group with hot girls and high status guys were with another, what is the adult world version of this? How do you differentiate between the high value circles and lower value ones?
How the crowds the guy with tight fundamentals and a high value runs with vary from that of a guy that doesn't have those?
Like on a socioeconomic scale, an engineer and accountant are both wealthy enough and make money but both professions also have a lot of awkward guys and don't exactly get hot girls wet, so I feel like it has more to do with it than just money alone.
I've been reading a lot of articles on GC lately and loved the one article about law of social exchange.
While I do read more about developing the fundamentals to be a sexy man and getting all of that down, one thing that confuses me a lot about the social world are the crowds. Maybe it is because I was an engineer in college and we tend to see things from an overhead sort of view and want it broken down objectively.
My question while reading this articles is how do the crowds differ between high status people and low status people (excuse my harsh language) now that you're in the adult world?
Like in high school, the weird kids with odd hobbies who struggled socially were in one group while the group with hot girls and high status guys were with another, what is the adult world version of this? How do you differentiate between the high value circles and lower value ones?
How the crowds the guy with tight fundamentals and a high value runs with vary from that of a guy that doesn't have those?
Like on a socioeconomic scale, an engineer and accountant are both wealthy enough and make money but both professions also have a lot of awkward guys and don't exactly get hot girls wet, so I feel like it has more to do with it than just money alone.