Chase, possible technical mistake in your book? Check this.

[Ezio]

While reading Chase's book named "How to make girls chase", i noticed this conflict.

When he is talking about the attainability, in the text he says that when your attainability is too high girls may resent you, but right in the left side at the key points, he says the opposite - that they will tend to be overly nice.

There is a high chance that i have misunderstood it - if that is the case, please explain.

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[Chase]

Ezio-

Nope, that's correct - easy to get mixed up terms-wise with attainability.

Low attainability means you are not easy to get - you risk being unattainable. Too hard to get. Women will resent you for this.

Too high attainability and you're easy to get - you risk being no challenge. There's no mystery. Women will be bored with you for this, and treat you more like a sidekick than a man.

Another way of thinking about it: as value goes up, attainability goes down, unless you're also actively keeping your attainability balanced. If two men are exactly the same in all ways, but one owns a Lamborghini, the Lambo owner is going to be less attainable unless he makes adjustments to keep his attainability in check.

It's like how as someone's fame or wealth increases, his accessibility to the general public decreases; harder to book a lunch with Jack Nicholson the Hollywood superstar than it was to book a lunch with Jack Nicholson the MGM cartoon studio gofer.

Attainability becomes the primary struggle you deal with once you're reasonably high value, because self-improvement-oriented guys have constantly rising value, which means constantly dropping attainability unless you work on that specifically.

Chase