Chase says not pay for dates and not treating women as equals - Countersense?

[lux7]

WOMEN AS FAIRER SEX
In an article Chase recommends of not treating women like equals but more like the fairer sex as it used to be in the 50s (the "gallant way" women go nuts for).
https://www.girlschase.com/content/confl ... st-century

WOMEN AS EQUALS
In another article, he says that paying for dates is chivalrous but recommends not to pay for dates because "lovers treat each others as equals".
https://www.girlschase.com/content/should-you-pay-date



Is paying for dates the exception or do I miss something.. ?

 

[Smith]

Re: Chase says not pay for dates and not treating women as equals - Countersense

Hey Lux,

Maybe Chase can explain this better, but the idea I got was to not treat women as equals when it comes to interacting with them in a sexual and romantic way. You should be leading, assertive and clear about what you want while not hurting her emotionally at the same time. At workplace or other settings, you can treat them as "equals" if you want.

The reason he recommends to not pay for dates is because it puts you in the bf/provider zone, and chances are she'll make you do several dates before she sleeps with you (or keep you in the orbit). As you know, attraction expires or life intervenes or some other bs might screw things up... So don't get too caught up on the words/phases that were used. Understand the meaning behind the action.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Re: Chase says not pay for dates and not treating women as equals - Countersense

Lux,

Hello. I like to weigh in without reading into details so much. Not paying for date to me is important... still, at least for now. When you new, you tend to make leeways too much for the girl, thus this causes you to lose girl. Given an example, You might give a great text but because she needs to discrete because she has a boyfriend or maybe she is busy, she did not respond to you.

The easy way to look at this is to think of paying for date is a technique. Why do you use "paying for date"?

What is "paying for date" for and what environment are you in? Additionally, do you pay because of societal conditioning or that someone is a busybody/loudmouth whom you unconsciously feel suppressed.

and later on, you learn that "pay for dates" decrease the lover role points and increase provider role points, and you need to up the lover points as you progress through the date.

I hope this helps.

Zac