Classic DWW Text Help Request

[DoWhatWorks]

Context:

Recently laid 2 new girls and think 1 will quite easily be retained but number 1 may slip if I'm not careful

Where we are now:

Had sex first date. Multiple rounds and stayed for food and fun conversation. She offered for me to stay round but I politely declined and said I just want my own bed which she understood

Follow up texts:

DWW Text: Hiii XXX was fun & "lovely" seeing you last night aha, hope you have a great day

Girl Text: Hahahha absolutely same to you hope you're not suffering too badly from a lack of sleep

** 1 Day Later**

DWW Voice Note: Hiii XXX hope you aren't too rough after your weekend of drinking, be cool to hang out again and you can finally hear that cheesy music of yours let me know when you're next free... I'm around Thursday evening

**Few Hours Later**

Girl Voice Note: Hii DWW lovely to hear from you, aha I would love to play you music, I'm in the bath tub which explains why you may hear water but I'll let you know when I'm free once I've checked my schedule and definitely hang out

**1 Day Later**

DWW Text: Sounds good

Where I think I messed up

I should have had a clear call to action that said "Did you manage to see your schedule " instead of sounds good which is easily skipped over / ignored

What I'm planning next?

I don't want to lose momentum but I also don't want to scare her off by being too keen. Thursday is now tomorrow and I haven't heard back do I:

1) Ping her with a inside joke meme tonight, build a good vibe then check her schedule?

2) Ping her with an inside joke on Sunday then do the same as the above?

3) Call her

Shamelessly going to plug the usual suspects who give the best text advice here in my humble opinion

@Velasco @Glow @Skills @Fluxcapacitor @topcat

Ideally want to lock her in during the week as I've got a busy weekend and think it may fizzle out if it spills over to next week - thoughts?

 

[DoWhatWorks]

Plot Twist / Update

Said girl has sent a voice note saying her friend is staying over until Friday but she's invited me for a double date on Thursday.

The 2nd guy is going to be another random who they'll find from a dating app - what a mess hahahaha.

I'm socially graceful enough to roll with it but tempted to either skip or suggest I bring a friend so at least I supply someone haha, either way I will update this thread

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

@DoWhatWorks dude! My first comment was going to be how long has it been since you messaged, she might get in touch still which ironically she has.

I feel not only were you missing a call to action but you also took a day to respond, this isn't to bad but I feel you could have opened up more options replying sooner in this case. This mostly comes from your recent LR where you left your tinder match for a day before messaging, not always on the app is good but now you haven't rewarded her of the app. If she decides to mirror your investment to not reply sooner (don't you love silly little games) you'll be waiting a day for her to check her schedule. Your reply without a call to action is also really low effort, you wouldn't look out of place replying a little sooner.

This is all redundant after she's replied but it could increase your odds and stops you wondering how do I resurrect this? going forward.

I'd have said option 1 would be your best bet if you were thinking she's likely to bail if it goes longer, though the issue comes with your plans for the weekend. If you're already really busy and can't capitalise following up late Sunday night or Monday morning is a good alternative.

If you're not going to skip the double date, if you have a good wing make the suggestion. You can't rely on a random to help you out and it could be a total disaster. If you don't have a good wing (you will be judged by his standard, think cheerleader effect) then this is a non starter.

Goodluck dude!

 

[Fuck This]

"If you are gonna get some random from a dating app, I'll save you the trouble. Let's get liquored up and I'll do you both. "

If you are feeling abundant...

 

[Skills]

Yeah you are getting un patient she is cool just relax, you will likely see her again, also again soft close pre hard close... even post sex and to keep her on the radar the morning with sun emoji has been working for me, bro you need to do cold approach in the mix

 

[DoWhatWorks]

As always you guys never disappoint.

@Fluxcapacitor - thank you as always man! Slow replies was due to me being genuinely busy but note definitely taken.

Agreed that a random was too much of a wild card. I ended up getting a wing who I know through a friend and is well connected socially.

Kind of using this to my advantage as if I give him an easy lay he'll be inclined to pay back the favour and invite me to parties in the future

win - win

@Fuck This that got you added to my request for help list lol. Really good point this could of been a perfect 3 way opportunity which I haven't done before. It is high risk for a girl I haven't locked in yet though.

@Skills Accurate as always - I was inpatient as she hit me up like an hour or 2 after I posted my original comment. I'll make sure to keep to pre-close before actual close and not skip the steps in the future.

Agreed I need to cold approach again more... Kind of just want to ride this easy wave of girls before going back out in day game again... My online escapades is like having a pizza cheat day after months of white fish and salad lol.

There's an anti-gambling advert in the UK that says: "when the fun stops... Stop" I'll follow that for now haha.

 

[DoWhatWorks]

UPDATE:

Story is too funny that I couldn’t even wait to share it aha. 1:32am & just left the Uber with our very own @topcat. LR reports to follow soon.