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From today in my journal.
First Class
I got the number of a cute hipster girl from the school's interface and messaging her to possibly study, she left her number without me asking for it.
I sent her: "Hey the preview of your notes were solid, we should meet up and study for the exam if you're down." and she replied with some words and her number. (When I did this I actually had studying in mind, or else that'd be low key creepy to be browsing class rosters lol. When she left her number it reframed the way I was thinking about it, I didn't even ask for it) I let that breath for two days, then texted her before the exam today.
I find her and switch gears from talking about the exam/class to why she wants to do psych and find out shes doing social work because she wants to help people on a macro level, she got sucked up into the feminist movement but isn't hardcore about it, she used to have an eating disorder (which just came out of her, I did my best to relate saying the therapy I'm researching right now is used to treat bulimia), and she's about to graduate.
When she brought up the feminist thing, she showed me her "pussy ring". I looked at it, and said
The test comes out, I finish before her, then slowly look over my test until she starts looking over hers. Then turn mine in, and walk out about the same time she does.
We chat for a sec about how tests aren't a good measurement of how effective someone will be at learning practical skills in the real world and that we both grab concepts/skills fairly quickly.
Two hours later
Me: Hey Hipster (; will you be in town over break?
Second Class
Was starving before my next class and grab some food at the adjacent building's cafe. I see a girl from my highschool, greet her, and while waiting for my food ask her about where she's at now in life and what she does for fun around campus, just to keep myself in a social mood.
Last Class
My next class rolls around and there's a pretty, tall, asian girl with adorable eyes in this class.
Last week we started chatting after the test, then walked back from class together.
Then:
I stopped her with "Myla, are you in a hurry?" and she stopped to walk with me. We have the same walking route of going home from class every day, so it was easy and comfortable. We chatted for a while, she unfortunately has a boyfriend that lives in a city a few hours away (I never even asked if she was single), but because of the distance I don't care as much about the boyfriend when trying to seduce her. She asks me what I'm doing and I tell her I'm going to some bar for cheap drinks if the wind takes me there.
While I asked her about why she was in the class and where she's headed I remember feeling was as if we were old friends, talking. She's a shy girl yet we were both very comfortable with the conversation and at ease.
She told me she doesn't go out much, but when she does she's the only girl among a bunch of guys, and I said
I didn't see her in the class after that.
Today:
I walk in late to class and Myla's looking at me, then she goes to the bathroom or something. I get a text back from Hipster girl and go outside the class to read it and get a drink, then turn up from sipping and she's walking towards me with a big smile and lit up eyes. She says "Hey!" and I respond warmly asking "Hey! How was [city]? she responds and ask's me how [bar] was, I say "Ah, I never went. Still good times though
" as we walk back inside with good vibes.
Class ends and I'm putting my stuff away, and I look up and she's standing there, waiting for me a little anxiously. I smile and walk past her and out the door. As I'm walking through the hallway some dude starts talking to her with super basic conversation about the class and it sounds awkward. I keep walking and she eventually catches up to me and opens on me.
There's these wax stains on my shirt from an old fraternity story and she teases me about them, I laugh and explain a quick summary of what happened, using pregnant pauses along the way, then flip it on her and ask her about why she never did greek life, but not to get me wrong because I'm glad I'm out of it now. I got the chance to compliment her clothing style and long black hair, touching her clothes as I did. We chat about greek life for a bit, agree we like being GDI's, then she's saying something about her shadowing she'll be doing back at home, and she's not excited. I ask why she doesn't like it, if it's shadowing what she's gonna be doing you'd think she'd love it.. and her mentor is creepy..
Right then we get to her bus stop and part ways. It was the second time she's brought up having a boyfriend, but I think she's interested. That is, unless I'm already friend zoned.
I've never attempted anything like this with a girl that has a boyfriend. The only time I've escalated with that was at a party at my house, so if anyone's got advice on sculpting down a woman's defenses anchored in another man, I'd appreciate any feedback. The dude is hours away so I have that to my advantage.
Hueman
First Class
I got the number of a cute hipster girl from the school's interface and messaging her to possibly study, she left her number without me asking for it.
I sent her: "Hey the preview of your notes were solid, we should meet up and study for the exam if you're down." and she replied with some words and her number. (When I did this I actually had studying in mind, or else that'd be low key creepy to be browsing class rosters lol. When she left her number it reframed the way I was thinking about it, I didn't even ask for it) I let that breath for two days, then texted her before the exam today.
Me: Hey Hipster this is Hueman from Psych counseling. I'm gonna be at [hall] soon if you're down to cram
Her: Sounds good! I'm leaving now.
Her: I'm chillin in the back!
Her: Hahah I've got the fox in the snow sweatshirt
Me: Stylish haha, I'm about to roll up
I find her and switch gears from talking about the exam/class to why she wants to do psych and find out shes doing social work because she wants to help people on a macro level, she got sucked up into the feminist movement but isn't hardcore about it, she used to have an eating disorder (which just came out of her, I did my best to relate saying the therapy I'm researching right now is used to treat bulimia), and she's about to graduate.
When she brought up the feminist thing, she showed me her "pussy ring". I looked at it, and said
The test comes out, I finish before her, then slowly look over my test until she starts looking over hers. Then turn mine in, and walk out about the same time she does.
We chat for a sec about how tests aren't a good measurement of how effective someone will be at learning practical skills in the real world and that we both grab concepts/skills fairly quickly.
Me: Where are you headed?
Her: Home, the union, you?
Me: I'm gonna go bust out the laptop and get some shit done, what was that coffee shop you were talking about
Her: [coffee shop name] !
Me: Yeah [name], we should go there soon.
Her: Yeah we should go and study
Me: Let's go, but not to study
Her: *big smile* Okay, sure!
Me: Are you single?
Her: Yes, I am
Me: Well lucky you
*fork in road*
Me: Alright, well I have your number
Her: Yeah text me!!
Two hours later
Me: Hey Hipster (; will you be in town over break?
Second Class
Was starving before my next class and grab some food at the adjacent building's cafe. I see a girl from my highschool, greet her, and while waiting for my food ask her about where she's at now in life and what she does for fun around campus, just to keep myself in a social mood.
Last Class
My next class rolls around and there's a pretty, tall, asian girl with adorable eyes in this class.
Last week we started chatting after the test, then walked back from class together.
Then:
I stopped her with "Myla, are you in a hurry?" and she stopped to walk with me. We have the same walking route of going home from class every day, so it was easy and comfortable. We chatted for a while, she unfortunately has a boyfriend that lives in a city a few hours away (I never even asked if she was single), but because of the distance I don't care as much about the boyfriend when trying to seduce her. She asks me what I'm doing and I tell her I'm going to some bar for cheap drinks if the wind takes me there.
While I asked her about why she was in the class and where she's headed I remember feeling was as if we were old friends, talking. She's a shy girl yet we were both very comfortable with the conversation and at ease.
She told me she doesn't go out much, but when she does she's the only girl among a bunch of guys, and I said
I didn't see her in the class after that.
Today:
I walk in late to class and Myla's looking at me, then she goes to the bathroom or something. I get a text back from Hipster girl and go outside the class to read it and get a drink, then turn up from sipping and she's walking towards me with a big smile and lit up eyes. She says "Hey!" and I respond warmly asking "Hey! How was [city]? she responds and ask's me how [bar] was, I say "Ah, I never went. Still good times though
" as we walk back inside with good vibes.Class ends and I'm putting my stuff away, and I look up and she's standing there, waiting for me a little anxiously. I smile and walk past her and out the door. As I'm walking through the hallway some dude starts talking to her with super basic conversation about the class and it sounds awkward. I keep walking and she eventually catches up to me and opens on me.
There's these wax stains on my shirt from an old fraternity story and she teases me about them, I laugh and explain a quick summary of what happened, using pregnant pauses along the way, then flip it on her and ask her about why she never did greek life, but not to get me wrong because I'm glad I'm out of it now. I got the chance to compliment her clothing style and long black hair, touching her clothes as I did. We chat about greek life for a bit, agree we like being GDI's, then she's saying something about her shadowing she'll be doing back at home, and she's not excited. I ask why she doesn't like it, if it's shadowing what she's gonna be doing you'd think she'd love it.. and her mentor is creepy..
Me: "He thinks you're cute, doesn't he?"
Her: "Yeah, he liikes me"
Me: "What's the creepiest thing?"
Her: "Oh gosh I don't even wanna say it"
Me: "Oh come on
Her: "Nooo" *smiling and blushing*
Me: *laughs, pushes her arm playfully* "Myla! You have to tell now!"
Her: "It's so baaad. I used to not mind but now I have a boyfriend"
Me: *holds her arm a few seconds* "You're gonna tell me eventually anyways
Her: "Okay, haha sure
Right then we get to her bus stop and part ways. It was the second time she's brought up having a boyfriend, but I think she's interested. That is, unless I'm already friend zoned.
I've never attempted anything like this with a girl that has a boyfriend. The only time I've escalated with that was at a party at my house, so if anyone's got advice on sculpting down a woman's defenses anchored in another man, I'd appreciate any feedback. The dude is hours away so I have that to my advantage.
Hueman
