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Saturday night, I went to a nightclub.
Recently I thought, rejections can lead to negative social proof. How can I minimize it?
My method was to wave my hands at a girl as if to say hello. Even if the girl ignored, (almost) no one else would saw it.
Thus I walked around the club, waving hello to girls.
I highly recommend Alek’s podcast, as it contains a lot of good tips.
The best tip is to “ping and move on.”
So I just did this the whole night. Many times I waved at a girl in group, she ignored me, I changed the angle, waving at another girl, and we had a conversation.
Around 1:30 am there was a girl I pinged was receptive to me. Blonde, although kinda old. So I danced with her, escalated it gradually, then making out, I moved out first.
She said, “You’re bold.”
I said, “I liked your eyes.”
She said, “I was going with someone”
We danced a bit more. Making out 2 more times..
She said, “You’re cute”
I said, “Let’s get the fuck out of here” (you’ll hear this line in Alek’s podcast).
She said, “I’m going with someone, he hasn’t been back”
And looking around the crowd.
I gradually eject. Next to me was a young blonde, the kind that would be impossible without the preselection.
I said hello, chatting with her a bit.
Me, “Look at the glass. What you’re seeing”
Her: Nothing
Me: I also see nothing. The cup however, represent our desires. The more we repress our desire, the more it grows.”
Her (speechless)
Yeah my delivery was crap. I told her to move over there, no ball. Thus I ejected.
The story continues next time.
Recently I thought, rejections can lead to negative social proof. How can I minimize it?
My method was to wave my hands at a girl as if to say hello. Even if the girl ignored, (almost) no one else would saw it.
Thus I walked around the club, waving hello to girls.
I highly recommend Alek’s podcast, as it contains a lot of good tips.
The best tip is to “ping and move on.”
So I just did this the whole night. Many times I waved at a girl in group, she ignored me, I changed the angle, waving at another girl, and we had a conversation.
Around 1:30 am there was a girl I pinged was receptive to me. Blonde, although kinda old. So I danced with her, escalated it gradually, then making out, I moved out first.
She said, “You’re bold.”
I said, “I liked your eyes.”
She said, “I was going with someone”
We danced a bit more. Making out 2 more times..
She said, “You’re cute”
I said, “Let’s get the fuck out of here” (you’ll hear this line in Alek’s podcast).
She said, “I’m going with someone, he hasn’t been back”
And looking around the crowd.
I gradually eject. Next to me was a young blonde, the kind that would be impossible without the preselection.
I said hello, chatting with her a bit.
Me, “Look at the glass. What you’re seeing”
Her: Nothing
Me: I also see nothing. The cup however, represent our desires. The more we repress our desire, the more it grows.”
Her (speechless)
Yeah my delivery was crap. I told her to move over there, no ball. Thus I ejected.
The story continues next time.
