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- Nov 27, 2012
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approaching girls at the gym wont get you banned if you know what your doing and who where the boundaries are. saying that, gym is not a good place to learn because you don't know what your doing are will probably get shot down a few times and receive a reputation you don't want.
from what you wrote, sounds like the girl was into you earlier hence why she made an effort to smile at you a few times - that should have been your cue to get talking with her.
sounds like she thought it was doing her no good, so she decided to stop making an effort, but thought she would give it another shot with you on the cardio. shame about the friend. not much i would have bothered doing here if you have no genuine chance of starting a convo, just one of those things.
if i was you i wouldn't worry about it, just give it a shot next time you have an opportunity. don't wait for her to come to you this time though, go and make something happen. prepare to face a bit of resistance on her part but keep it light and casual for a bit, make her laugh, get her comfortable and take things forward.
from what you wrote, sounds like the girl was into you earlier hence why she made an effort to smile at you a few times - that should have been your cue to get talking with her.
sounds like she thought it was doing her no good, so she decided to stop making an effort, but thought she would give it another shot with you on the cardio. shame about the friend. not much i would have bothered doing here if you have no genuine chance of starting a convo, just one of those things.
if i was you i wouldn't worry about it, just give it a shot next time you have an opportunity. don't wait for her to come to you this time though, go and make something happen. prepare to face a bit of resistance on her part but keep it light and casual for a bit, make her laugh, get her comfortable and take things forward.
