Cockblocking during day game

[Lithuanian]

Hey,

I renewed my daygame recently and am trying to learn now properly this spere. Yesterday I approached several girls, but one approach was different in that, I never encountered cockblocking. I read about cockblocking on this site, but I thought it's more common in clubs and I almost never go to clubs.

Situation was like this: I approached two girls with indirect-direct: "Excuse me, do you know where is X street? (we were in this street). Girls started laughing (couldn't believe at such stupid question) and said yeah, it's 200 meters from here. I said that I was kidding and wanted to say hi because I thought you (pointing towards one of the girls) were cute. Again they started laughing at disbelief, but the other girl said they have boyfriends and both started laughing. Now I asked: "Really? Are relationships seriuos?" Again the other girl said yeah, we are gonna be married, look she has engagement ring and they started to laugh again. I asked then were they were going and they said to cinema, but the other girl again said, we are in a hurry. Now being begginer I didn't know what to suddenly say in this situation and said good luck and we walked into different directions.

So I have two questions:

1) how I should've coped in this situation, i.e. with cockblocking?
2) what to say, when girls are insisting they have boyfriends, but it's obvious they don't, but they still keep insisting?

 

[Smith]

During the day, when a girl says they have a bf, it's true most of the time...it's not like in a nightclub, where they're consciously trying to block guys hitting on them left and right. I would just move on and not waste my time lol.

 

[Lithuanian]

Yeah, moved on, but I need to learn from this and next time do a better job. And it was obvious they were lying about their boyfriends, because they were laughing when they were saying that.

 

[HellAtlantic]

If they were interested do you think they'd lie about having BFs? If you were Leo Dicaprio approaching them do you think they'd say they had BFs even if they did? They weren't interested, they saved you time and you were able to move on. Guys are silly, getting nervous to approach out of fear of a nasty rejection and when a girl lets them down easy they don't get it and think it's a game. Plenty of girls out there bro, plenty...save your efforts for the ones who are wild about you.

Case in point. I was at a bar 2 nites ago. One girl points at me and then pointed at her friend in the universal sign for "my friend likes you" way. So I approached her friend. Chubbyish but very cute face, long blonde hair, nice blue eyes, nose piercing, big tits. Looked like a farm girl which made her stand out cuz this is NYC. 25 yr's old. Thought I was late 20s (I'm 38 but in great shape and take care of myself). She tells me off the bat she's a lesbian. Has a GF. I keep talking to her anyway. She tells me "look I think you're good looking but I really am a lesbian". Her friend walked by, touched me and pointed at her friend again. I persist more, loud music so I alternate between talking into her ear and then leaning back to look her in her pretty blue eyes. 10 min convo. I decide if she is or isn't a lesbian it's inconsequential - couldn't figure out what game was being played so I said fuck it only one way to find out if she's a lesbian and that's to kiss her so I went in for the kiss and she offered me her cheek. I kissed it, made her kiss my cheek, and I said bye. I didn't spend another minute worrying about it or worrying what else i could've said. I said what I had to say, made a move and let the chips fall where they went. If she wasn't that into me or was really a lesbian there was nothing i could've said (In a loud bar) that'd make her change her mind, so I moved on.

Point is, don't worry if they were lying or not. They weren't interested and let you down easy, and if they were interested youd never have heard of a BF to begin with.