Hey this happend earlier today at my job, I work retail in a college area so I find it to be a grreat way to practice social skills and pickup too. So to the story already an hour into my shift n not seeing too any cute girls I try to at least approach one a day to keep away my approach anxiety. Was wearing a black slim fit collard shirt which makes my figure Fucking sexy some as jeans n grey chucks with a grey undershirt. Anyway to the main point the girl.
As I'm walking to bedding from the closets dept I notice her on the other side of the lane, I notice her hair then immediately shift down to her skirt showing her pale but very sexy legs, I immediately picture them wrapped around me... I can't approach cause I'm helping someone else so I do my business and come to find her at the section in between housewares and closets. I open from the side and asked if she needed help, she immediately turned and faced me, full attention and said yes with a smile. I showed her what she wanted and I asked her if her hair was naturally that color. She said no I'm a blonde and then I said ah, but it's cute tho, I got a smile and walked away and let her so her browsing.
I didn't feel like doing shit so I just chilled close to the wood where I first met her but a bit further in my dept(housewares) she got her cart from where we met and began pushing towards my zone so I look over and smile she does too but it's a weird one maybe like a grimmace? Not sure if that's the right way to explain it.
Then she glanced away and I began to hesitate for like three seconds and as she was crossing infrpnt of me I said hey you got a sec? She was a step or two away said yea wassup then snapped back and locked in wig me and she was standing close like a few feet away,(intimate distance
) I said your cute, I'm Raqimus with a hint of a smile. She said I'm C after a 2 second pause i said are you single? She said yes very happily I just broke up with my boyfriend Monday(it's Friday). I don't know how to relate because I've never had a legit bf/gf relationship and I say something on the lines of oh how is it and she says good cause she ended it. I said cool I'm not looking for a relationship she said neither am I and we both smiled at each other. (Heres where I think I begaan to drop the ball)Then I said cool let's exchange numbers, she said okay we begin to exchange numbers and I notice she's shaking quite a bit and I have an insatiable curiosity so I ask if she's cold and she says no why, I said your shaking... she says oh it's the jitters I get it from the coffee(I think I could of went with a frame after but didn't think about it till now). I said ah the jitters I used to get them all the time from coffee haha. She said yea I just can't live without it. So she gave me the number(broke eye contact down here I think , it'd my bad habit when i go to look at my phone) wasn't sure what her name was so I said c right? And she said yea then spelled it for me then I realized I never got a date so I just asked when she'd be free this week.(forgot to specify for what) she said what? Then I repeated and she said oh wow, then she started saying she didn't know said she didn't know gonna be really busy this weekend and all this other stuff and I'd kinda stopped caring.
Then I said oh your too busy or something like that but the tone was like sucks for you, then she said but you can still text me and I said alright cool and gave her a smile. We decided to end the interaction and as she was walking off a thought popped into my head about her hair and I Said your hair keep it like that and she gave me a smile and walked away.
Where if think I fucked up besides what was stated earlier.
Towards the second half as I tried to get the date she started to break eye contact up she did that twice Nd I noticed began to stare too long. I was a major creeper a couple of years ago and I've been working on the vibe for a while, I just feel comfortable staring into peoples eyes I don't usually feel tension or awkwardness.
I also think I fucked up maintaining my vibe and got more logical if anyone can point out anything else it would be appreciated, imma shoot her an ice breaker in a bit and see where it goes from there and I'll update, thanks for reading.
As I'm walking to bedding from the closets dept I notice her on the other side of the lane, I notice her hair then immediately shift down to her skirt showing her pale but very sexy legs, I immediately picture them wrapped around me... I can't approach cause I'm helping someone else so I do my business and come to find her at the section in between housewares and closets. I open from the side and asked if she needed help, she immediately turned and faced me, full attention and said yes with a smile. I showed her what she wanted and I asked her if her hair was naturally that color. She said no I'm a blonde and then I said ah, but it's cute tho, I got a smile and walked away and let her so her browsing.
I didn't feel like doing shit so I just chilled close to the wood where I first met her but a bit further in my dept(housewares) she got her cart from where we met and began pushing towards my zone so I look over and smile she does too but it's a weird one maybe like a grimmace? Not sure if that's the right way to explain it.
Then she glanced away and I began to hesitate for like three seconds and as she was crossing infrpnt of me I said hey you got a sec? She was a step or two away said yea wassup then snapped back and locked in wig me and she was standing close like a few feet away,(intimate distance
) I said your cute, I'm Raqimus with a hint of a smile. She said I'm C after a 2 second pause i said are you single? She said yes very happily I just broke up with my boyfriend Monday(it's Friday). I don't know how to relate because I've never had a legit bf/gf relationship and I say something on the lines of oh how is it and she says good cause she ended it. I said cool I'm not looking for a relationship she said neither am I and we both smiled at each other. (Heres where I think I begaan to drop the ball)Then I said cool let's exchange numbers, she said okay we begin to exchange numbers and I notice she's shaking quite a bit and I have an insatiable curiosity so I ask if she's cold and she says no why, I said your shaking... she says oh it's the jitters I get it from the coffee(I think I could of went with a frame after but didn't think about it till now). I said ah the jitters I used to get them all the time from coffee haha. She said yea I just can't live without it. So she gave me the number(broke eye contact down here I think , it'd my bad habit when i go to look at my phone) wasn't sure what her name was so I said c right? And she said yea then spelled it for me then I realized I never got a date so I just asked when she'd be free this week.(forgot to specify for what) she said what? Then I repeated and she said oh wow, then she started saying she didn't know said she didn't know gonna be really busy this weekend and all this other stuff and I'd kinda stopped caring.Then I said oh your too busy or something like that but the tone was like sucks for you, then she said but you can still text me and I said alright cool and gave her a smile. We decided to end the interaction and as she was walking off a thought popped into my head about her hair and I Said your hair keep it like that and she gave me a smile and walked away.
Where if think I fucked up besides what was stated earlier.
Towards the second half as I tried to get the date she started to break eye contact up she did that twice Nd I noticed began to stare too long. I was a major creeper a couple of years ago and I've been working on the vibe for a while, I just feel comfortable staring into peoples eyes I don't usually feel tension or awkwardness.
I also think I fucked up maintaining my vibe and got more logical if anyone can point out anything else it would be appreciated, imma shoot her an ice breaker in a bit and see where it goes from there and I'll update, thanks for reading.
