Cold Approach

[enon]

Would you spontaneously approach a girl if you know you're gonna see her everyday at school? What if things don't go well, won't it get awkward walking past each other everyday?

 

[ray_zorse]

Just go in lower energy, I usually wouldn't use a "totally cute" opener in that case, but you can certainly compliment her on something she wears etc. Just keep it deniable, like until you get her out on a date don't say things that are explicitly sexual or convey too much intent, make sure everything has a double meaning. A better question would be, "if she's in my classes then should I ask her out on a date, what if things get awkward?" and that's a call you have to make. Sure, there's a girl like that in my office, but hey, who cares, I acted like a dick (got nervous around her, etc) and made things awkward and uncomfortable but IDGAF...
-Ray

 

[DLegend]

If you're doing cold approach at school it depends on 2 things:

- If you care about your reputation, then you gotta go indirect, otherwise don't approach at all.
-if you don't give a shit about your reputation, and want to improve tons faster, just go direct on every walking set of legs you see with a pretty face. \

So , it's really a matter of what you're capable of doing, goodluck!

 

[enon]

If you're doing cold approach at school it depends on 2 things:

- If you care about your reputation, then you gotta go indirect, otherwise don't approach at all.
-if you don't give a shit about your reputation, and want to improve tons faster, just go direct on every walking set of legs you see with a pretty face. \

So , it's really a matter of what you're capable of doing, goodluck!

What do you mean by "indirect"? I've been subtle about the way I compliment girls sexually, is that what you mean?

For example:
Me: "I have a thing for Mexican girls" (The girl I'm talking to is Mexican)

But of course this could also mean any another mexican girl, not specific to her.

 

[enon]

Just go in lower energy, I usually wouldn't use a "totally cute" opener in that case, but you can certainly compliment her on something she wears etc. Just keep it deniable, like until you get her out on a date don't say things that are explicitly sexual or convey too much intent, make sure everything has a double meaning. A better question would be, "if she's in my classes then should I ask her out on a date, what if things get awkward?" and that's a call you have to make. Sure, there's a girl like that in my office, but hey, who cares, I acted like a dick (got nervous around her, etc) and made things awkward and uncomfortable but IDGAF...
-Ray

So, small talk except a little bit more sexual?

 

[ray_zorse]

Well not exactly, you still deep dive and get to know her, be sexual too but in a way that if she calls you out on it, you say... "Oh, I was just referring to the blah blah... what were you thinking of?"... and keep chase framing a bit subtle, like for instance references to her boyfriend hunting, rather than references to her tying you up... this way you've protected your ego a bit if it goes south and you still have to live with her/her friends etc. It's good to be subtle / discreet anytime but more so in class or social circle. OTOH be bold if you can handle it.
-Ray