College God?

[Joniman]

Hey guys, I had some college specific questions that I couldn't find an answer to in GC college articles.
- I am a prospective freshman in college. I am not a transfer student. I am black african (Light Skin).
- I would rate myself a 7. I believe I have great facial features but I have acne and I am too skinny. My clothing style needs to get updated too.
- I am also introverted(not deeply though)
Questions:
1)This my most important question please be descriptive: How do I make a lot of friends during the first weeks of college, which I believe are very defining for the rest of your 4 years social life in college. Any dorm tips, orientation...? How can get some hot girls and cool guys in my friend zone early on?
2) Should I join a non-black fraternity because top fraternities really increase your social value, I heard.?
3) As a black student, is it bad to enter a predominantly white school (over 60% white)? Are interracial hookups and dating prevalent in these schools? (Anyone with experience or witness.)
4) Do you need to be rich and white to join a traditionally white frat?
5) Any other tips on college?
Thank You

 

[Joniman]

Bump? Anyone?

 

[JimmyB]

I don't want to respond too much because I think college is a time for experimenting and finding yourself. I think if you try to get into the cool crowd you may get some girls, but you also may fall into a lifestyle that isn't you and you'll be left no better off after 4 years.
That aside: first off, are you into white girls mostly? Or what's your preference there? That's what you'll find in sororities, so that's relevant.
Just be friendly to everyone early on and go out the first few days/weeks to get to know people early on.
If your school is largely greek life, you might be well off joining a fraternity. BUT, if you can't join a top one you might be best off not joining one and just becoming friends with the kids. That way you can go to several fraternity events and be cool with everyone.
My suggestion on getting into a fraternity (no you don't need to be rich and white, but that is why some kids get in that are otherwise worthless) - go to the good fraternities' events, try to socialize, and don't try too hard. Dress well, but not typical "frattire" or you look like a tryhard douche. If you can just look like you're put together, actually be put together, and be a good guy, that's mostly what you need. Also maybe put on some weight and develop a high alcohol tolerance. Not sure if you're a drinker, but if you can drink a ton and not get hammered you'll do well. Another point - don't get super drunk and make an ass out of yourself. There's nothing worse than some one who can't handle his alcohol.
I don't know anything about black fraternities, this is just regular fraternities I'm talking about.

 

[Joniman]

Alright thanks. I don't have that much of a race preference as long as they have a thick Ass and Small waist and decent personality. . What do you mean by you will stay where you started off after 4 years?

Thanks. I am trying to make this post: tips for high school students joining college. I have read in multiple places the first week is where you make your presence felt and that you can't miss this opportunity.

-How to make friends during the first weeks? At orientation, dorms, dining halls... how to rush a frat and get in, if being minority matters in joining frats, how to get laid, sex tips for college (where and when), class tips, how to become a God in college... basically anything related to chicks and college

Anyone welcome to write more tips or steps

 

[MrCharming]

Hi Joniman,

The Fact that you are so Curious about College and asking all those questions is a Good Thing. It says that you're Smart - and that you Care about Succeeding

I attended a Few Years of College, and it is Hands Down
THE EASIEST SEXUAL EXPERIENCE YOU WILL EVER ENCOUNTER

As Far As College Goes: FUNDAMENTALS ARE KEY!!

(I hope you are Dorming, it makes Logistics wayyy too Easy) When you are Dorming - most Guys get far too Comfortable with Sweatpants, Slippers, and a Hoodie. They don't have their Fundamentals down pat. This makes you Stand Out when you walk into Class, Into the Cafeteria, into the Events with a Dress Shirt and some Dark Fitted Jeans. Or whatever your Style Is... OWN IT!!! Be that Guy who walks in and makes Heads Turn. When your Fundamentals are Down Pat - the Ladies WILL talk - they WILL get Curious and wonder all sorts of things
"Who's that Guy? Does he have a Girlfriend? Play any Sports? Join any Clubs? Who does he Hang With?" ... and all sorts of things
Fundamentals is how you leave them Wondering about you Long after you're Gone. Fundamentals Are Important

As For Making Friends...
*Make sure you show up to some of the events that the RA's and SGA throw on Campus. Some of them are Fun - and the Girls go there to meet new Guys
*The lounges are often being occupied by people who are in a relaxed state
*Walk up to Lunch Tables and ask "Hey - is it Cool with you guys if I sit here?" and they'll be more than welcoming
*IF (IF) you smoke weed - Invite a friend or two over and just smoke, chill and relax. Weed Brings People Together. Put a Towel under the door to prevent the Smell from lurking into the hallways and spray the room with air freshener when you're done
*A lot of People in College Feel Very Alone. Be the one who initiates a hangout - even if they're busy - they will remember you when they have something they want to invite you to

As For Sex...
*Get Numbers as soon as Possible. Since you're running Social Circle Game - it's more likely she'll run into you again - and see/remember how Charming you are
*Since you're in Social Circle - sending random casual Texts like "Hi Joanne! Just had an exam in Psych! I thought my head was going to Explode! What's up with you?" and building comfort with Girls really makes you stand out to them. But make sure you're always asking to hangout with them... don't get in the Friend-Zone
*Invite many girls to hang out. And since logistics are pretty much taken care of FOR YOU when you're at Colege - it's almost too easy. Keep it Casual and Fun
For Example... Talking to a Girl in the Cafeteria
"Hey Stacy you seem pretty Cool! But I've actually gotta get to class right now. I wanna kick it with you though - lets hang out at the Lounge in J Hall - at 5 o'clock tonight after class"
If you're fundamentals are Tight - she'll be more than excited to hang out. Talk to her, Chill with her, Physically Escalate, Build her Comfort with you, and when she's ready - go for the pull !

And then you can Invite another girl to hang out with you in the lounge at 8:30 ... rinse and repeat

Final Words

College is a Great Place to Invite Girls over to
*Watch a Movie
*Study Together
*Just Hangout
*Smoke Mary Jane (Careful with that one though - make sure you're ATTRACTIVE and NON-NEEDY of Mary Jane)

College is a Great Time for getting to know yourself and who you are. You should really be Focusing on being a Better You and Growing as an individual. Once you know who you are - you have this natural Confidence about you that Glows - and the women are surrounded by it

College is Fun man. Study your notes every day for 15 minutes at least - so you can have more time for other things like Banging Girls...
Just Have Fun, It's a Good Time

MrCharming... Out

 

[Joniman]

Nice Tips. Thanks.
Anyone else?