So on August 27, two and half weeks ago, I enter College as a Freshman at a university in New York. So far as expected, it has been going relatively cool as compared to my high school career which was pure absolute shit.
1. My roommates are all fucking cool and they all fucking love me. 3 of my roommates are fucking savages when it comes to girls and networking. - One of my roommates is extremely hot (no homo) and all girls love him. He is pretty cool and I hang out with him most of the time.
- THE other roommate is awesome at knowing where parties are and making friends.
- Anyways, what I am trying to say is that my social circle is pretty chill. We also have two hot girls that come with us to parties.
Now this all seems cool and perfect, right, but I have serious problems that need to be fixed before College social circles are established. Here are all of my questions:
1) How do I make friends in class that go beyond the class into either becoming partying buddies or fucking a girl? The same question for making guy friends too?
- I can make small talk, but I don't know how to take it further. For example, coincidentally, this hot girl is in 3 of my 4 classes. I talk to her small talk, but I can't take the conversation to the next level. How do I get her to be more than classmates?
2) Is it okay to approach girls at a frat party and how do I do it? Any frat game guides appreciated.
- I get invited to a lot of parties and since we have hot girls, we get in, but after that I just stick with the group and don't do shit. Probably because I don't have experience. How do I meet girls at a frat party? Direct or indirect? Any answers to this are appreciated.
3) I feel like I am too tame. My friends are all loud and funny. Meanwhile, I can make some sarcastic funny comments once in a while, but I want to be more than that. How do I become engaged in conversations? For example, when someone jokingly messes with me, I can't mess back that easily. I just laugh or sometimes if lucky make funny comments. I am pretty chill but I want to develop a more loud personality. I also talk pretty quietly, any guide on how to talk loudly.
4) Is there a way to meet hot college girls in the day time? I am joining the Intramural soccer team, track team and some other club. How do I make hot female friends in college?
5) I have heard the first 2 months of college until Halloween is primal for making friends and I am making more friends than I expected and all my friends are pretty cool and hot (no homo). But I feel like I am the weak social guy in my group. How do I meet more people during this 2 months of college and not just meet but make sure they are more than just that.
6) I have heard that bringing a bottle of vodka to a frat party is a major way to attract attention, but I don't know what to do at frat parties even if I bring liquor. More frat game tips.
7) I also went to a college bar, and I felt the same way I felt at a frat party. I had to stick with my friends because I was uncomfortable. How to talk to hot college girls at a college bar and make more friends and become independent at parties?
8) How to be fun around girls? I feel like I talk too formally, instead I want to tease and have fun. Any tips.
9) Any additional college tips regarding social life especially with getting laid.
Thank you in advance for any reply. You don't have to answer every question but appreciate it if you do.
Some facts about me
1) 5.8 inches
2) Skinny
3) Rate myself at 7.5 just because I am skinny. I actually look good, but clothes don't look good on me because I am skinny.
4) Light skin black
1. My roommates are all fucking cool and they all fucking love me. 3 of my roommates are fucking savages when it comes to girls and networking. - One of my roommates is extremely hot (no homo) and all girls love him. He is pretty cool and I hang out with him most of the time.
- THE other roommate is awesome at knowing where parties are and making friends.
- Anyways, what I am trying to say is that my social circle is pretty chill. We also have two hot girls that come with us to parties.
Now this all seems cool and perfect, right, but I have serious problems that need to be fixed before College social circles are established. Here are all of my questions:
1) How do I make friends in class that go beyond the class into either becoming partying buddies or fucking a girl? The same question for making guy friends too?
- I can make small talk, but I don't know how to take it further. For example, coincidentally, this hot girl is in 3 of my 4 classes. I talk to her small talk, but I can't take the conversation to the next level. How do I get her to be more than classmates?
2) Is it okay to approach girls at a frat party and how do I do it? Any frat game guides appreciated.
- I get invited to a lot of parties and since we have hot girls, we get in, but after that I just stick with the group and don't do shit. Probably because I don't have experience. How do I meet girls at a frat party? Direct or indirect? Any answers to this are appreciated.
3) I feel like I am too tame. My friends are all loud and funny. Meanwhile, I can make some sarcastic funny comments once in a while, but I want to be more than that. How do I become engaged in conversations? For example, when someone jokingly messes with me, I can't mess back that easily. I just laugh or sometimes if lucky make funny comments. I am pretty chill but I want to develop a more loud personality. I also talk pretty quietly, any guide on how to talk loudly.
4) Is there a way to meet hot college girls in the day time? I am joining the Intramural soccer team, track team and some other club. How do I make hot female friends in college?
5) I have heard the first 2 months of college until Halloween is primal for making friends and I am making more friends than I expected and all my friends are pretty cool and hot (no homo). But I feel like I am the weak social guy in my group. How do I meet more people during this 2 months of college and not just meet but make sure they are more than just that.
6) I have heard that bringing a bottle of vodka to a frat party is a major way to attract attention, but I don't know what to do at frat parties even if I bring liquor. More frat game tips.
7) I also went to a college bar, and I felt the same way I felt at a frat party. I had to stick with my friends because I was uncomfortable. How to talk to hot college girls at a college bar and make more friends and become independent at parties?
8) How to be fun around girls? I feel like I talk too formally, instead I want to tease and have fun. Any tips.
9) Any additional college tips regarding social life especially with getting laid.
Thank you in advance for any reply. You don't have to answer every question but appreciate it if you do.
Some facts about me
1) 5.8 inches
2) Skinny
3) Rate myself at 7.5 just because I am skinny. I actually look good, but clothes don't look good on me because I am skinny.
4) Light skin black
