Honestly, this could probably be further divided into multiple threads. My girlfriend of slightly less than a year keeps bringing up marriage or engagement. It's kind of an on going quick commitment theme. She wanted to be gf fast, then she moved in because of distance from work fast (two months), and now that I want to pump the brakes and have her get her own place she's not responding well to that. A lot of that is my fault for not sticking to my frame, but I think I might be on a runaway train if I can't articulate this. Oh, and by the way she brings up major issues out of the blue or when we are out almost like an ambush. It's hard to prepare. Other than that she's mostly awesome (when not randomly annoying). Any ideas?