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To my fellow cold approaches an issue I bump into is what to say at the start?
I find myself thinking of really smooth situational opener after the moment's gone. What's helped me with approaching is having a go to line:
"I like your outfit"
> then saying "you up to anything exciting" > before the final convo starter "where you from seem way too friendly to be from London"
It takes the thinking out and stops me making an excuse. The opener works for me because it's indirect enough to be low investment but direct enough to show attraction. I'm also big on aesthetics so it's congruent with my personality. Problem I have is when a girl's outfit is nothing special or she's gorgeous but dresses horribly I.E big flappy jeans and tight top which is a very popular look these days but I digress.
**To make this a handy resource, what are your go-to openers? AND follow up questions to get her invested?**
Text to copy and paste:
Opening statement or question:
Follow up conversation statements or questions
Optional - why do you use the above and why does it work?
I find myself thinking of really smooth situational opener after the moment's gone. What's helped me with approaching is having a go to line:
"I like your outfit"
> then saying "you up to anything exciting" > before the final convo starter "where you from seem way too friendly to be from London"
It takes the thinking out and stops me making an excuse. The opener works for me because it's indirect enough to be low investment but direct enough to show attraction. I'm also big on aesthetics so it's congruent with my personality. Problem I have is when a girl's outfit is nothing special or she's gorgeous but dresses horribly I.E big flappy jeans and tight top which is a very popular look these days but I digress.
**To make this a handy resource, what are your go-to openers? AND follow up questions to get her invested?**
Text to copy and paste:
Opening statement or question:
Follow up conversation statements or questions
Optional - why do you use the above and why does it work?
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