I'm 21 years old and I go for girls that are 21 - 22 years old. Some of the girls I try to persue have dated ex boyfriends that are 8+ years older than me and these guys drive, have their own car and have a normal job with atleast a good salary whilest am still living with my parents and dont drive and have unstable income. Most girls in my country when they are 21 or 22 years old prefer to date guys older than them with a secure job coz they tend to get serious when they see most of their friends getting married at that age. Sometimes I feel like am out of their relationship legue because of this. Any tips on how I can pull this off or maybe my mindset is all wrong?

