Compliance (Momentum) As A Sticking Point

[James D]

Just thought I'd open this thread.

Ever found that you're good at creating a connection with a girl...

Good at arousing her...

Yet fail somewhere along in your process because the momentum was lacking?

Been having this issue lately and working to fix it.

I've been running my game through SAC. For a while, A was a bit of an issue.

That's been fixed and great results came from it.

But damn it, I just keep forgetting to ask for more compliance.

I don't even have trouble getting compliance.

If I ask, she will comply, provided everything is going well.

But I simply don't even think of escalating that compliance and building more momentum to the courtship.

The way I see it, with compliance, it's about generating it first (S +A) and then building momentum from that compliance generated.

That building of momentum is what I forget.

Anyone faced this sticking point before?

How did you push through?

 

[topcat]

I had somewhat of a similar sticking point.

What i found was the solution to build momentum, was to remember to reward compliance. This kept trained me to look out for subtle signs of compliance to reward, whether this was from her autoinvesting or me creating it.

Understanding that her complying and me rewarding (read: encouraging) the compliance would lead to priming her for eventual sex (without lmr) trained me to look out for signs of compliance to encourage, and create new opportunities for her to comply to.

A slight switch in mindset and where i put my attention, with big rewards.

Perhaps this will help you also.

 

[Chase]

@James D,

You kind of just need to develop this habit or mentality where you enjoy asking women to do stuff for you and start to feel like something is missing if too long goes without getting her doing things.

The thing that is missing is "she is not really immersing herself in the process / investing in it." Really it's almost a sense that she isn't putting in as much effort as she should be... so you are going to help her out. By asking or telling her to do things.

You know, like... you're doing a pretty cool thing for her, by leading this seduction forward, giving her this conversation, this experience. She ought to be investing in that too. If she isn't investing enough, that sense kicks in, and you just start asking her for stuff, working to get her more involved.

Takes a little time to develop but once you have it you just get used to asking girls for stuff, telling them to do things, etc., and it feels weird to you if too long goes without doing so.

Chase

 

[James D]

@James D,

You kind of just need to develop this habit or mentality where you enjoy asking women to do stuff for you and start to feel like something is missing if too long goes without getting her doing things.

The thing that is missing is "she is not really immersing herself in the process / investing in it." Really it's almost a sense that she isn't putting in as much effort as she should be... so you are going to help her out. By asking or telling her to do things.

You know, like... you're doing a pretty cool thing for her, by leading this seduction forward, giving her this conversation, this experience. She ought to be investing in that too. If she isn't investing enough, that sense kicks in, and you just start asking her for stuff, working to get her more involved.

Takes a little time to develop but once you have it you just get used to asking girls for stuff, telling them to do things, etc., and it feels weird to you if too long goes without doing so.

Chase

thanks for the reply Chase, I'll start adopting this mentality right away