Comply or Bye..

[BrideBeGone]

Hey guys, I'm new here (female ) and just responded to a thread by @TheEcho In field reports which I thought was interesting.

Anyway, I used to post on another popular male seduction forum but done with that and heard about this forum from another female member here, so thought I'd give it a shot!

Kinda had enough with female forums like Loveshack.org and would NEVER post on FDS, or the like.

My frame as a woman is pretty atypical from most women, so hope you will bear with me!

So my question is this:

On the other male seduction forum the term "comply or bye" was a main staple.

Early on, you test for compliance (nothing drastic or offensive) and if she has high interest, she will comply and if doesn't and/or playing games, she won't.

If she doesn't, at that point it's "bye." Move on to your other options.

Comply or bye. I think Rollo Tomassi discussed this in his book "The Rational Male" too.

What do you think about this? Is it relevant to your dating and sexual experiences?

Thanks in advance!!

 

[TheEcho]

At my current rusty state, yeah, I bow out of an approach smoothly and unphased if they turn things down. I think the goal is to be able to work through things to an extant, as roadblocks are often an opportunity to show your confidence, steadiness, and wit.

 

[Chad Tyrone]

Early on, you test for compliance (nothing drastic or offensive) and if she has high interest, she will comply and if doesn't and/or playing games, she won't.

If she doesn't, at that point it's "bye." Move on to your other options.

Comply or bye. I think Rollo Tomassi discussed this in his book "The Rational Male" too.

What do you think about this? Is it relevant to your dating and sexual experiences?

Just cause she declined a compliance demand means you walk away herein waving her off...you could switch to compliance requests or have ur demands ending with an intonation in the end if u ain't doing them right.There are a lot more things u could do asking for little then going for bigger forms of compliance later on,going for the hard push and addressing any objections she might have.

Rewarding her when she complies which gets her complying more and more.Always persist in situations that count.U don't have to walk away where persistence could have saved the interaction .

"Comply or bye by Rollo"What comes close to this was walking away when a chic LJBF'ed you.Never saw comply or bye...which book in the series did u read this?

As for me I would walk away if I feel I have exhausted all options with her...and only if she's worth the effort.

But if u r doing things right... that is warming up to bigger forms of compliance, rewarding compliance, focusing on the benefit she'll "enjoy" if she complies... you won't have to worry about walking away cause then she'll be into you.We tend to value things we invest in.

~Chad Tyrone

 

[BrideBeGone]

Just cause she declined a compliance demand means you walk away herein waving her off...you could switch to compliance requests or have ur demands ending with an intonation in the end if u ain't doing them right.There are a lot more things u could do asking for little then going for bigger forms of compliance later on,going for the hard push and addressing any objections she might have.

Rewarding her when she complies which gets her complying more and more.Always persist in situations that count.U don't have to walk away where persistence could have saved the interaction .

"Comply or bye by Rollo"What comes close to this was walking away when a chic LJBF'ed you.Never saw comply or bye...which book in the series did u read this?

As for me I would walk away if I feel I have exhausted all options with her...and only if she's worth the effort.

But if u r doing things right... that is warming up to bigger forms of compliance, rewarding compliance, focusing on the benefit she'll "enjoy" if she complies... you won't have to worry about walking away cause then she'll be into you.We tend to value things we invest in.

~Chad Tyrone

Hi Chad, although I have read part of Rollo Tomassi's book "The Rational Male," I heard all this from the other seduction forum I used to post on. I am fairly certain the guys over there were quoting Rollo Tomossi's "Rational Male," but I could be mistaken, it may have been from his "Iron Rules" which was discussed a lot over there too.

In any event, I really liked your response! I always thought the "comply or bye" mindset was a bit extreme and harsh, seduction (and dating) is nuanced, never black and white.

People (both women and men) are complex, and to just say BYE when a woman doesn't comply with one of your "compliance tests" (which are no better than women's shyt tests imo ) is well, again extreme, and a man may be missing out on a great experience with a great woman if he had simply been a bit more open minded and done what you suggested here:

There are a lot more things u could do asking for little then going for bigger forms of compliance later on going for the hard push and addressing any objections she might have.

Anyway, appreciate your response, I am still trying to weed myself away from that forum, it may take awhile!

 

[Skills]

The seduction forum you come from is full of trolls, anti gamers, incels, and all the rejects that got banned from other forums there are less than 5 decent poster in that toilet and they barely post... also all they do is nitpick and conspiracy every field tested practical post we have here cause they are to autistic to understand...

Every poster we receove from that toilet ends up getting banned in less than 6 months...

Please if you are here be humble and learned and dont bring kj specially from rollo 40 lay count in a lifetime tomassi, who has not game prior to beepers.

 

[BrideBeGone]

Okay @Skills and thanks for confirming what I already suspected and why I left. As a woman, I will admit I really had no business being there but own I became somewhat addicted to it, definitely my own bad on that!

I went there to learn and I am here to learn as well, from what I have read you guys seem much more open to different perspectives (including women's) and are respectful which I truly appreciate.

I think I won't post for awhile and just read, and learn. I am married a little under one year and believe it or not still learning, I actually hope the learning never stops. As we grow and evolve as men and women, we should always strive to learn imo and continue growing and evolving into our best selves, or rather "better" selves.

Thanks again!

 

[sunnygirl]

The seduction forum you come from is full of trolls, anti gamers, incels, and all the rejects that got banned from other forums there are less than 5 decent poster in that toilet and they barely post... also all they do is nitpick and conspiracy every field tested practical post we have here cause they are to autistic to understand...

Every poster we receove from that toilet ends up getting banned in less than 6 months...

Please if you are here be humble and learned and dont bring kj specially from rollo 40 lay count in a lifetime tomassi, who has not game prior to beepers.

hey @Skills, she's new to this forum, also when I arrived here I was apprehensive it would have the same kind of vibe. I brought up those kind of topics as well when I began here. However, after reading many of the posts here and the content that the legitimate skilled seducers who have TONS of success, including feedback on my own field report, they are extremely fulfilled in their life and don't really bring up these 'redpill' theories, because they simply don't work that effectively in seducing women, just heads up.

A few seducers I HIGHLY recommend their content @Teevster @Lofty @Skills @Dreamer @TheEcho @Beck Bass @King @Wick @Lucky and many more, they are legitimate and know their stuff!

This link might help https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...ere-topics-but-not-because-were-afraid.23494/

 

[TheEcho]

The ranking system seems to be held pretty tightly, makes it easier to know when to take things with a grain of salt vs not.

 

[Skills]

Okay @Skills and thanks for confirming what I already suspected and why I left. As a woman, I will admit I really had no business being there but own I became somewhat addicted to it, definitely my own bad on that!

I went there to learn and I am here to learn as well, from what I have read you guys seem much more open to different perspectives (including women's) and are respectful which I truly appreciate.

I think I won't post for awhile and just read, and learn. I am married a little under one year and believe it or not still learning, I actually hope the learning never stops. As we grow and evolve as men and women, we should always strive to learn imo and continue growing and evolving into our best selves, or rather "better" selves.

Thanks again!

Nah you can post all you want, we are here to learn

 

[TheEcho]

I think I won't post for awhile and just read, and learn. I am married a little under one year and believe it or not still learning, I actually hope the learning never stops. As we grow and evolve as men and women, we should always strive to learn imo and continue growing and evolving into our best selves, or rather "better" selves.

Btw, what is your goal? For guys it's pretty straightforward lol

 

[Skills]

hey @Skills, she's new to this forum, also when I arrived here I was apprehensive it would have the same kind of vibe. I brought up those kind of topics as well when I began here. However, after reading many of the posts here and the content that the legitimate skilled seducers who have TONS of success, including feedback on my own field report, they are extremely fulfilled in their life and don't really bring up these 'redpill' theories, because they simply don't work that effectively in seducing women, just heads up.

A few seducers I HIGHLY recommend their content @Teevster @Lofty @Skills @Dreamer @TheEcho @Beck Bass @King and many more, they are legitimate and know their stuff.

This link might help https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...ere-topics-but-not-because-were-afraid.23494/

Yeah i think she thinks i am calling her out, i am not, i am calling out that toilet and the amount of trolls and kjs there, no her or you

 

[BrideBeGone]

@Skills

What is kj? Never heard that one!

P.S. Didn't think you were 'calling me out' per se, you were simply being direct with your opinion which I actually appreciate!

 

[BrideBeGone]

Btw, what is your goal? For guys it's pretty straightforward lol

My goal is understanding the male mindset better and gathering different perspectives about relationships and the human experience in general.
And like I said learning and also offering my perspective as a woman when I believe it will add value as well!

 

[Skills]

@Skills

What is kj? Never heard that one!

P.S. Didn't think you were 'calling me out' per se, you were simply being direct with your opinion which I actually appreciate!

Keyboard jockey is someone that talks big on internet forums , but cant back it up with real life accomplishment..or someone that gives advice on things that he has not field test, aka tried

 

[TheEcho]

Good thinking to go to places like this to find unfiltered thoughts. Most advice elsewhere is so watered down and PC to the point of being useless (or the complete opposite and pretty malicious towards one group or other)

 

[BrideBeGone]

Keyboard jockey is someone that talks big on internet forums , but cant back it up with real life accomplishment..or someone that gives advice on things that he has not field test, aka tried

lol, oh I know what a keyboard jockey is, I just didn't put it together with "kj" but I am sure if I thought about it hard enough, I would have figured it out!

Thanks though, you just saved me time doing so!

P.S. I agree with you for the most part, however there are some good guys over there, just thought I'd mention that; I made a few friends I just thought it best to leave, it was time.

Enough about that! Moving forward....

 

[Skills]

lol, oh I know what a keyboard jockey is, I just didn't put it together with "kj" but I am sure if I thought about it hard enough, I would have figured it out!

Thanks though, you just saved me time doing so!

P.S. I agree with you for the most part, however there are some good guys over there, just thought I'd mention that; I made a few friends I just thought it best to leave, it was time.

Enough about that! Moving forward....

yes if you read my answer i said less than 5 and they barely post, i know some of the better ones there, for example "fastlife" he is really good, i know couple of other ones... But the noise to value ratio there is horrible....