I´m going to try and keep this short.
I have been living abroad for 4 months and in the first week I met this girl. We´re both not from here and we will go home in one month.
From the beginning on we had a very special vibe together, we can talk for hours about some deep stuff and laugh even longer with what appears to other as complete and utter bullshit. We have sex regularly and even when we don´t call it like that we go on dates together. (think doing ´culture´, visit a bar, go to a romantic restaurant etc.)
I obviously like the girl and she tells me I am the person she wants to see when she´s down and even more when she´s happy. I have to go home in a month and she tells me she would stay longer if I would too and she tells me it´s something more than friends going on between us. We are making plans to visit each other in the future, europe is a small place.
...obviously I try to just enjoy the vibe between us for the little time we have left with each other but sometimes I can´t help but bring it up that I like her and everytime I do that, two times in all those months so far, she turns cold and assures me that there is nothing more between us than friendship. What happens then is that we don´t have sex for a while and I start trying to conquer her again from the beginning up until the point where I tell her again. (I know I probably shouldn´t but I would like to hear her say she likes me in the same way at least a little bit). I´m sure that somewhere she likes me too, her actions and behaviour scream yes but her words try to convince me even harder of the opposite (or maybe she´s trying to convince herself?). I know actions speak louder than words but still this is very confusing. She tells me that I have no idea because for her it´s way more confusing.
my question here:
What is the best way to handle this? I really like this girl and I would love to explore where this goes after we go home, even if it doesn´t work out in the end. Normally my game is A+, no problems with inner game but what´s happening with this girl is really fucking with me, that´s why I´m turning to you for some solid advice.
PS: of course I would never betray my actual girlfriend, but since that isn´t the case I didn´t stop fucking around lots of other girls in the meantime.
I have been living abroad for 4 months and in the first week I met this girl. We´re both not from here and we will go home in one month.
From the beginning on we had a very special vibe together, we can talk for hours about some deep stuff and laugh even longer with what appears to other as complete and utter bullshit. We have sex regularly and even when we don´t call it like that we go on dates together. (think doing ´culture´, visit a bar, go to a romantic restaurant etc.)
I obviously like the girl and she tells me I am the person she wants to see when she´s down and even more when she´s happy. I have to go home in a month and she tells me she would stay longer if I would too and she tells me it´s something more than friends going on between us. We are making plans to visit each other in the future, europe is a small place.
...obviously I try to just enjoy the vibe between us for the little time we have left with each other but sometimes I can´t help but bring it up that I like her and everytime I do that, two times in all those months so far, she turns cold and assures me that there is nothing more between us than friendship. What happens then is that we don´t have sex for a while and I start trying to conquer her again from the beginning up until the point where I tell her again. (I know I probably shouldn´t but I would like to hear her say she likes me in the same way at least a little bit). I´m sure that somewhere she likes me too, her actions and behaviour scream yes but her words try to convince me even harder of the opposite (or maybe she´s trying to convince herself?). I know actions speak louder than words but still this is very confusing. She tells me that I have no idea because for her it´s way more confusing.
my question here:
What is the best way to handle this? I really like this girl and I would love to explore where this goes after we go home, even if it doesn´t work out in the end. Normally my game is A+, no problems with inner game but what´s happening with this girl is really fucking with me, that´s why I´m turning to you for some solid advice.
PS: of course I would never betray my actual girlfriend, but since that isn´t the case I didn´t stop fucking around lots of other girls in the meantime.
