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** I'd like to start by introducing myself. I'm weekendwarrior, I've been reading this site for 2 years and occasionally lurked on the forums. I'd like to think my texting has greatly improved but I find myself very conflicted so hope you guys can help!
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I've been seeing this girl since new year and been shagging her, she's been gently pushing for a relationship and been texting me every day. I know I shouldn't but I found myself texting her every day because our chats were fun. Since lockdown she's became less talkative and started texting just once a day. I was cool with this but when she continued taking a day to reply after her deadline had passed it annoyed me and I took a day to reply to her.
This ironically pissed her off so she took 3 days to reply to me. I thought I don't want to play games I'll just text her like normal, after a day of normality she's been taking 3 days to reply for 2 weeks and it's starting to annoy me. If she was starting a conversation I wouldn't mind but I've asked a question.
I've tried killing the conversation deliberately and every time I do she'll ask questions to keep it going but yet takes days to respond. Her lack of effort is confusing me, I don't want to play silly games both taking 3 days to reply but I don't want to be putting in more effort than she's giving. I thought about texting saying "I get the feeling you're not interested, that's cool I can stop trying. You've got my number if you want to get in touch" but don't want to seem emotional over it. What do you think?
Warrior
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I've been seeing this girl since new year and been shagging her, she's been gently pushing for a relationship and been texting me every day. I know I shouldn't but I found myself texting her every day because our chats were fun. Since lockdown she's became less talkative and started texting just once a day. I was cool with this but when she continued taking a day to reply after her deadline had passed it annoyed me and I took a day to reply to her.
This ironically pissed her off so she took 3 days to reply to me. I thought I don't want to play games I'll just text her like normal, after a day of normality she's been taking 3 days to reply for 2 weeks and it's starting to annoy me. If she was starting a conversation I wouldn't mind but I've asked a question.
I've tried killing the conversation deliberately and every time I do she'll ask questions to keep it going but yet takes days to respond. Her lack of effort is confusing me, I don't want to play silly games both taking 3 days to reply but I don't want to be putting in more effort than she's giving. I thought about texting saying "I get the feeling you're not interested, that's cool I can stop trying. You've got my number if you want to get in touch" but don't want to seem emotional over it. What do you think?
Warrior