Ok so for starters I'm recently unengaged, my fiancée left me for the person that I once called my closest friend so my confidence and ability to trust people kind of went out the window. So there's this girl. She's my best friends wife's best friend so that's how we met, we have a lot of common interest and even share a birthday. 1 night about a month ago we became physically intimate after having a little to drink. She is also recovering from a bad break up (not quite like mine, but bad) so she texted me the day after and everything was going well, we hung out and talked for hours. Well right before I left I hit a soft spot, I reminded her of her ex and well she got really really scared of that feeling and distanced herself. Well it's been a month and I've played it cool, we talk on a regular basis and I give her lots of space. But gradually she talks less and less to me. My best friend tells me she likes me but she's scared right now. I want to make a move and ask her out but I'm afraid she will either reject me or I'll over extend. Not sure what to do. What do y'all think? I really like her but after everything with my ex I don't really trust my gut anymore.
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Mc90,
I would suggest a non threatening date like mcdonalds or starbucks in a very open area. Talk to her on the date. If you said something and she became distanced, in your case here, there must be a recovery period she's going through.
So yea, talk to her.
z@c+
Mc90 said:
I would suggest a non threatening date like mcdonalds or starbucks in a very open area. Talk to her on the date. If you said something and she became distanced, in your case here, there must be a recovery period she's going through.
So yea, talk to her.
z@c+
Appreciate the response Zac. I did talk to her, and she was up for hanging out (like going to see a movie with me) So that's a huge relief. Only problem is she picked up a 3rd job and rarely gets a night off. So, I still have my doubts, but at the same time I'm pretty confident she likes me.
