Contacting FWB that ran its course

[mystery2014]

Had a FWB situation for about 18 months and it ran exactly like in Chase's article.

First time she said she wanted more we had no contact for 1 month til I contacted her and managed to start things back up again. It was only a matter of time til she told me again she was stil in love with me and we ended things again.

Been 6 months now no contact and strangely Ive found myself thinking about her more and more. Its her birthday in a couple weeks and I was thinking of droppping a message along the lines of "happy birthday, hope you are well, if you ever want to get back in touch my door is always open, enjoy your day".

Good/bad idea?

 

[Franco]

mystery,

It's not really recommended given that this girl obviously had very strong feelings for you -- enough so that she was already willing to come back to you one time after you kinda ended it. Contacting her again after 6 months of separation might get somewhat of a rough reply from her. Unless you want to give her some sort of commitment this time around, I think you'd probably be better off sleeping with some new girls and finding some new FWBs rather than trying to reel back in old ones who obviously want something more that you won't give them.

- Franco