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Cro-Magnon Man
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When you think you know everything about your partner, how do you continue to dial up the excitement you would feel when seducing new women?

Relationship experts commonly recommend to never stop "courting" your mate. Of course emphasizing gifts, and spontaneous getaways. Well you can't always go spend money on a solution....there needs to be some action that re ignites that primal urge to have wild animal sex right now.

What are your ways of "continuing the seduction" When you have conquered the prize?
 

Franco

Tribal Elder
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TwoRocky,

Generally after the "honeymoon" phase is over when being in a relationship with a new girl, sex will never QUITE be the same as it was when you two first got together. Nothing beats the excitement of the first few times having sex with a girl that you're really into.

With that being said, there are certainly things you can do to enhance the sexual romance... without spending a dime.

One example of "upping" the passion in the relationship is by suddenly turning your girlfriend on with raw, sexual enthusiasm. If you start to get into a routine with your girlfriend, some of the excitement starts to fade. Naturally, it's expected that you two will eventually fall into a routine more or less, which is completely fine, but it's also the perfect opportunity to be spontaneous with how you turn her on sexually.

There are also ways to turn your girlfriend on with a little money. Taking vacations will certainly spark some sexual enthusiasm but for a hefty price. Instead, try buying her some sexy lingerie -- you can even take her to Victoria's Secret and pick out panties/nightwear with her. She'll probably love this. And if you happen to have the opportunity, sex in the dressing room can be quite exhilarating... ;)

Speaking of dressing room sex, any type of public sex is usually a great way to ramp up passion with your girlfriend. The nerves/excitement of taking your girlfriend to a public location and discreetly penetrating her can cause her to really go wild for you -- most men wouldn't have the balls to do it!

Anyway, these are just a few ideas. As far as having the relationship continue to advance in ways beyond sex or raw passion, there are ways to include growth and self-expansion for both you and her as well. Adding these types of elements can keep your relationship lasting for years.

- Franco
 
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