Could do with some advice

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This paragraph is just an intro, what I need help with is the second paragraph. Hey there my name's Javed, I'm 20 years old and I'm from the UK, I want to start by saying thanks to Chase and his colleagues for sharing their knowledge on pick up, and making it easily accessible to those that want it. I'd describe myself as being beyond shy so you could imagine my interactions with girls is virtually non-existent. In order to alleviate that problem, I sought out help online and came across Girlschase. I began reading some articles and found them not just useful but interesting aswell. I decided to buy the Mastery Pick Up Package and shortly after that subscribed so that I could have all the available knowledge possible. I have read quite a lot based on the fundamentals e.g posture, walk, eye contact. And also conversations e.g conversationalist and the deep dive. Just reading through all these articles has made me seem more confident. I have really only applied what I've learned on fundamentals IRL. The walk is a bit awkward in that you're supposed to keep your legs wide apart but I'm not sure on how wide it should be . But I've still incorporated a wide walk. It's the conversation aspect that I need to apply and get good at soon and I will detail why below.


On the 19th of August, I'm going to Spain for a day or two and My aim for that trip is to kiss a girl, you might be thinking "why not go for more?" Well the problem with that is, I'm on this trip with my older brother, chances are we'll be in the same room, so there is no chance of me bringing a girl back. What I'm most likely going to try is get 20-30 mins time alone to explore the city, and that is when I'll try to get the kiss. Now I read somewhere that it's easy to get girls when you're abroad, so I'm sort of banking on that to help me. Any advice that you can give me on achieving my aim would be very much appreciated. Now having no pick up experience, I've decided to go get new clothes and begin pick up. Now I want to make as much progress as quickly as possible so any help on what to do tomorrow in order to get really well versed in pick up would be very helpful. Thanks in advance.

 

[ray_zorse]

On the walk I would not worry about putting legs far apart, IIRC that was just a passing comment by Chase on how one day his package was a bit sore and he was favouring it when some random complimented his walk -- rather you should try to walk slowly but with the longest stride possible (law of least effort). Try to get a bit of upper body movement e.g. swing your arms a little with each step, & if you're wearing a size S or M shirt as recommended elsewhere, with chest up & shoulders back, you should feel it moving slightly against your chest w each step.

As to the kiss it would prob be easiest to achieve this in a club setting. Only just be aware that if you change your mind & want to go for more then you will have lost the anticipation, mystery and intrigue & probably will not be able to get her back to the hotel room after club makeout. This has happened to me quite a few times (didn't understand why at the time). Anyway, why don't you talk to your bro, you don't have to reveal all your innermost concerns, worries & desires but just approach as a "what if I needed to bring a girl back", you may find him more supportive than you expect.

cheers, Ray

 

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Thanks for the insightful reply Ray, the walk you suggest sounds like I'm trudging through snow lol but I'll change it to that. As for the kiss, a nightclub sounds like a good idea but I don't drink and I'm not going to kiss a girl that's been drinking, that's my issue with that. I was seeing it as me just walking a short distance away from the hotel, talking to a pretty girl on the street and that leading to a kiss. To be honest I wouldn't be comfortable with going for more than a kiss, just seems way too soon for that. I genuinely have no interest in going further than a kiss when I'm there. Also do you think I should approach differently given that I'm from the UK and talking to a spanish girl?

 

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Any other advice would be much appreciated.

 

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On the 19th of August, I'm going to Spain for a day or two and My aim for that trip is to kiss a girl, you might be thinking "why not go for more?" Well the problem with that is, I'm on this trip with my older brother, chances are we'll be in the same room, so there is no chance of me bringing a girl back. What I'm most likely going to try is get 20-30 mins time alone to explore the city, and that is when I'll try to get the kiss. Now I read somewhere that it's easy to get girls when you're abroad, so I'm sort of banking on that to help me. Any advice that you can give me on achieving my aim would be very much appreciated. Now having no pick up experience, I've decided to go get new clothes and begin pick up. Now I want to make as much progress as quickly as possible so any help on what to do tomorrow in order to get really well versed in pick up would be very helpful. Thanks in advance.

Picking up girls in a foreign country is actually not much easier if you're still a beginner and have zero experience, but it does give u the exotic factor and you can gain A LOT of experience by taking more risks and pushing your boundaries, so don't be settled for a kiss if you think you can go further.

You also might need to adjust your game on the fly.