FR++ Could WE Have Gone All The Way If….

[thedude]

Hello…

Another date, more progress but I still didn’t get the lay god dammit. Though odds are I may see her again…
Standard setup, get coffee but instead of staying in the coffe shop I take her and go sit down by the river.

The conversation flows great.
I won’t go into the details but I told her my pre-selection story, I use kino, I even use a good push-pull thing>>

Me: You smell good
Her: Ah thank you” laughing”
Me: Don’t let it go to your head though.

I try and kiss her the first time but she doesn’t let me, I build more comfort and then go for it a second time and she is happy too.
More talking/ more kino and a bit more kissing and I pull her with this as we’re talking about music…

Me: Have you ever listened to chillstep before?
Her: No

Short conv on it…

Me: I gotta show you it over some delicious Sangria.

I get up and she follows, She asks where we’re going but I ignore it and keep the conversation going..

We get to my place… shoes off, she goes and sits on the couch, I poor some Sangria and go to the bathroom real quick.

I go and sit next to her real close. We continue talking, the entire time I keep smelling her too without kissing her.

Eventually the conversation dies and we start kissing, she starts getting really into it and straddles!

I move her where I’m on top of her on the couch.

Then after a little bit of that(kind of awkward). I pick her up wedding style and carry her to the bed.

This is when everything goes to shit….

I tell her she smells good again and I keep caressing her body…
I want to eat her pussy and make her come to I start kissing her body, making my way down to her abdomen. I try to take her jeans off but it’s a no-go.

It’s after this that she starts saying things like “I need to go soon”

I try and turn her on with some dirty talk I learned from David Shade
“ I know your dirty little secret… in public you act like a nice girl… all trim.. and proper… but I know your my dirty little girl”<<should not of used possessiveness so early

We keep kissing but she puts the breaks on completely.

I tell her I don’t want to do anything she doesn’t want to do.

She says she needs to take the 2:30 bus which is in like 25 minutes.

The rest of the time we cuddle and kiss, I ask her what she thinks of me so far, she tells me she thinks I’m mysterious and can’t figure me out..

I give her a genuine compliment about her having a vivacious personality.

We walk to the bus stop, more banter until we give a soft kiss to each other good bye…

I NEED TO WORK ON M SEXUAL ESCALATION.

I ALSO WANT TO MAKE WOMEN CUM THEIR BRANDS OUT MAN!!

 

[thedude]

Re: FR++ Could WE Have Gone All The Way If….

The sad thing is that probably like the kenyan chick(she's ghanian), I'm probably not gonna see this girl again.

God dammit, I need to get this figured out

 

[lao che]

Re: FR++ Could WE Have Gone All The Way If….

couple things,


let her straddle you. being on top of her, as you said, can be kinda awkward, also feels a little trapped for the girl. her being on top makes her feel like she's in control, but not really.

get her hands on your dick before you start trying to please her. this "standard escalation" of kissing face then neck then boobs and moving ever downwards to belly and finally TA DAAA the treasured vajayjay. it can work, but it's ... too tentative and too much giving control to the girl. like, she stops you at the boobs, and you pull back but then try again, then get further down, and she stops you again so you step back then try again ..... she's in control and she knows you're trying to please her.
switch it around so she's pleasing you. get her hands on your boner. everything else will follow

meh, the sex talk isn't good. but you already realize that. and seems a little like a last gasp desperate attempt.

plus, why not just bang her on the sofa? try that next time. moving into the bedroom might have been a nail in your coffin here.

 

[thedude]

Re: FR++ Could WE Have Gone All The Way If….

Thanks for the reply Lao che