Hey folks. After applying many of the lessons from GC, I finally had my first date where things did go very well.
Let me tell you what happened:
All in all, its been a good date (by my standards). But the thing concerning me is that I could not close the deal then and there. She could not take me home because her friend lives there and we are from the same social circle so we want to keep it low. I am having a little crazy situation at my place because I live on a friends couch so privacy is not possible. Luckily I made a snap decision to arrange a new date after asking her when she will be alone next time. We both know what will happen then, but I don't want life to intervene in the meantime.
However since one of GCs "rules" in courtship is about closing the deal then an there, how are my chances to close it next time?
And one final thing: She has some orbiters chasing her hard, even one that is wanting to be her BF, but she also told me she recently came out from a 5-year relationship and was only looking to "date around" and "have fun". I guess I feel like I am getting close to a milestone in my seduction career, but feel like I don't want to fuck this up because I really want this to happen.
What do you guys think is the probability for this to happen? And how do I keep my sanity now that I have to wait for about 3 more days?
And do I need to do something before the date or do I only have to wait until one or two hours before the meeting to reassure her that its still on? (We will meet at the train station and go to her place from her work. She will cook some food and we will drink wine together).
Did I do the right moves until now? Can I do something before the date or do I just need to wait?
I hope you can give me some advice before the day
Let me tell you what happened:
- *I used touch very good. Escalated elegantly (by my standards), but also took away touch from time to time to not kill tension.
- *I deep dived a lot, and she talked for about 70% of the time.
- *I chase framed and had a sexual vibe throughout the whole date. Building tension as well.
- *I arranged a second date on a high point. And we are going to her place in about three days
- *I also presented myself as a lover
- *After two hours of talking and at a high point, I decided to follow her to the tram station. I kissed her gently, not too much because I did not want to destroy tension. Later I sent her a message saying that I had a great time and ill see her soon. She responded by saying "Thanks for an amazing evening See ya on thursday" and I responded back "Will do"
All in all, its been a good date (by my standards). But the thing concerning me is that I could not close the deal then and there. She could not take me home because her friend lives there and we are from the same social circle so we want to keep it low. I am having a little crazy situation at my place because I live on a friends couch so privacy is not possible. Luckily I made a snap decision to arrange a new date after asking her when she will be alone next time. We both know what will happen then, but I don't want life to intervene in the meantime.
However since one of GCs "rules" in courtship is about closing the deal then an there, how are my chances to close it next time?
And one final thing: She has some orbiters chasing her hard, even one that is wanting to be her BF, but she also told me she recently came out from a 5-year relationship and was only looking to "date around" and "have fun". I guess I feel like I am getting close to a milestone in my seduction career, but feel like I don't want to fuck this up because I really want this to happen.
What do you guys think is the probability for this to happen? And how do I keep my sanity now that I have to wait for about 3 more days?
And do I need to do something before the date or do I only have to wait until one or two hours before the meeting to reassure her that its still on? (We will meet at the train station and go to her place from her work. She will cook some food and we will drink wine together).
Did I do the right moves until now? Can I do something before the date or do I just need to wait?
I hope you can give me some advice before the day
