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My main goal these days is to get used to approaching. I know my biggest weakness is approach anxiety and I want to become used to approaching so whenever I see a cute girl smiling at me I just take action and not freeze.
My goal in my previous outings was to approach 5 girls. I count everything as one be it saying hi or giving a compliment. Today I bumped it up to 10. I do street stops in a big and crowded shopping street.
The first girl I talked to was pretty receptive. She was a redhead and I love redheads so I told her hair looked amazing. She said thank you but was very suprised. I was not smooth though not by a long shot. I asked her where she was going. She said she was meeting up with a friend. I told her great and asked her to come to the side of the street so we wouldn't get run over by people. She complied. After a bit of chitchat (the vibe wasn't that comfortable) I told her we should get coffee. She said thank you but it's not necessary. I told her it needn't be necessary.
- I like your hair. You clearly like something about me because we're still talking. Let's get coffee.
She said she was talking to me because this was the first time a guy came up to her to talk to her. She took out her phone and I said "are you gonna put my number?" with a smile. She said she already had "a number" with an emphasis. I took it as she was saying she had a bf. I said ok see you later! (ugh) she said nice to meet you! I think my mistake here waa not creating rapport. I could have talked more with her until she was hooked but I got hasty (Quick, I gotta get her number).
There was an Indian/ American girl who worked at UN. But she wasn't interested.
There was one girl I said hi. And she just kept on walking and said Idiot in a loud voice. Wow. That was a first lol.
One women I made eye contact with then smiled, she smiled back so I called out to her. I moved her to the sidewalk but she seemed super shy and awkward. She couldn't look me in the eye. We talked for a bit and I was super smooth. She said she was looking to have fun. I asked her what kind of fun? She told me to where someone paid first. However she didn't make much sense. She said you wouldn't want to pay first right as if she already knew the answer to the question. She was being super shy and awkward though. I suggested we drink something together but she said she had to look for someone else. I got the vibe she wasn't a pro prostitute. She just seemed like she fell on hard times and could them I wouldn't be a customer.
I met one girl she seemed like a white thrash. Couldn't tell if she was a trans or not. She seemed like a girl, dressed slutty, had some boobs but she was super thin, didn't have an adam's apple, had a thin voice. But something seemed off about her. I decided to talk to her and lead us to a Starbucks. At the cashier I was looking at the cashier and was gonna mouth (trans?) but couldn't find a way to do it. I paid for her muffin and got myself a cup of tea. She then wanted to buy a bottle of water and looked at me expectedly but I told her she could buy that herself. We sat down I touched her legs and asked her whether she put some glitter on her legs. She told me that that was a cream. I was still doubtful if she was a girl so I wasn't that much interested in her or the convo. I asked her whether she was studying she said no, I asked her whether she was working she said no. I asked her playfully how did she pay for everything. She said her boyfriend paid for everything as if daring me to contradict her. I said oh isn't that hard on the poor guy with a smile. Then she went positively mad. She said they were serious and she was gonna marry him. She was saying how dare I told her that, who did I think I was. I should get off my high horse, I was just a dick stuff like that she got off made a scene and stormed out. At first I thought she just came for the free muffin but she left her muffin untouched. I asked the guy near us whether he thought she was a trans. The guy said no she didn't look like one. She asked me what I said to her. I gave him a quick recap. I think she was a bit crazy and she knew that she was so beneath my value she autorejected at the first sign of imaginary insult.
That's all the good bits. Pretty interesting stuff happens when you cold approach. I'd just do it for all the stories when I accumulate lol.
My goal in my previous outings was to approach 5 girls. I count everything as one be it saying hi or giving a compliment. Today I bumped it up to 10. I do street stops in a big and crowded shopping street.
The first girl I talked to was pretty receptive. She was a redhead and I love redheads so I told her hair looked amazing. She said thank you but was very suprised. I was not smooth though not by a long shot. I asked her where she was going. She said she was meeting up with a friend. I told her great and asked her to come to the side of the street so we wouldn't get run over by people. She complied. After a bit of chitchat (the vibe wasn't that comfortable) I told her we should get coffee. She said thank you but it's not necessary. I told her it needn't be necessary.
- I like your hair. You clearly like something about me because we're still talking. Let's get coffee.
She said she was talking to me because this was the first time a guy came up to her to talk to her. She took out her phone and I said "are you gonna put my number?" with a smile. She said she already had "a number" with an emphasis. I took it as she was saying she had a bf. I said ok see you later! (ugh) she said nice to meet you! I think my mistake here waa not creating rapport. I could have talked more with her until she was hooked but I got hasty (Quick, I gotta get her number).
There was an Indian/ American girl who worked at UN. But she wasn't interested.
There was one girl I said hi. And she just kept on walking and said Idiot in a loud voice. Wow. That was a first lol.
One women I made eye contact with then smiled, she smiled back so I called out to her. I moved her to the sidewalk but she seemed super shy and awkward. She couldn't look me in the eye. We talked for a bit and I was super smooth. She said she was looking to have fun. I asked her what kind of fun? She told me to where someone paid first. However she didn't make much sense. She said you wouldn't want to pay first right as if she already knew the answer to the question. She was being super shy and awkward though. I suggested we drink something together but she said she had to look for someone else. I got the vibe she wasn't a pro prostitute. She just seemed like she fell on hard times and could them I wouldn't be a customer.
I met one girl she seemed like a white thrash. Couldn't tell if she was a trans or not. She seemed like a girl, dressed slutty, had some boobs but she was super thin, didn't have an adam's apple, had a thin voice. But something seemed off about her. I decided to talk to her and lead us to a Starbucks. At the cashier I was looking at the cashier and was gonna mouth (trans?) but couldn't find a way to do it. I paid for her muffin and got myself a cup of tea. She then wanted to buy a bottle of water and looked at me expectedly but I told her she could buy that herself. We sat down I touched her legs and asked her whether she put some glitter on her legs. She told me that that was a cream. I was still doubtful if she was a girl so I wasn't that much interested in her or the convo. I asked her whether she was studying she said no, I asked her whether she was working she said no. I asked her playfully how did she pay for everything. She said her boyfriend paid for everything as if daring me to contradict her. I said oh isn't that hard on the poor guy with a smile. Then she went positively mad. She said they were serious and she was gonna marry him. She was saying how dare I told her that, who did I think I was. I should get off my high horse, I was just a dick stuff like that she got off made a scene and stormed out. At first I thought she just came for the free muffin but she left her muffin untouched. I asked the guy near us whether he thought she was a trans. The guy said no she didn't look like one. She asked me what I said to her. I gave him a quick recap. I think she was a bit crazy and she knew that she was so beneath my value she autorejected at the first sign of imaginary insult.
That's all the good bits. Pretty interesting stuff happens when you cold approach. I'd just do it for all the stories when I accumulate lol.
