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pks391

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Okay so I was walking down the road taking my nighttime walks when I meet this acquaintance from my childhood who had some sort of negative or twisted event that turned him kinda crazy where he wanders the streets, does drugs and gets himself into trouble.....

Now in the past few years with the help of Chase's articles, I turmed myself into this really positive just-the-right-amount of selfish person and this guy comes up to me and does se small talk and asks me why I am not on social media so I tell him that it's filled with negativity and besides I don't need it....so he goes on to try and deep dive me in the most epic fail way possible....he asks me if my friends were negative amd if i left them...I said I have no room for negative people....

After he's done he gives me his number and tells me to send him some positive quotes om WhatsApp to help him be positive......I deleted it later after taking it.....

Then he goes on to say that I do have a lot of brains but I am a selfish Egotistical Cynical person.....and I'm just wondering in what logic did he say that.....

I wanted to know that isn't a right amount of selfishness needed??? I am not a pessimist....but them when I introspect, I always think whether I have gotten too selfish.....

So my question is that isn't it okay to be a little selfish??? And by doing so am I being a bad person? Isn't being selfish part of the Alpha's personality?

I mean I know the guy was crazy but i always think that everyone can see something which I mau not know or notice. I don't want to turn into a person who is unpleasant in the future.
 

RAFox

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Pks,

When you get criticized, it's essential to look at the critic himself. Does he get a boatload of girls? Then maybe you should consider his advice.
On the other hand, is he just unstable, constantly negative and making people miserable wherever he goes? Pass.

You said it yourself. He's a mentally aberrant person and fixed on negativity. So why would you take anything this crazy person says, seriously?
Just act like you never even met him, erase his existence out of your mind just like you deleted his number.
Your mental energy is better spent on other things.

Cheers,
RAFox
 

pks391

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RAFox said:
Pks,

When you get criticized, it's essential to look at the critic himself. Does he get a boatload of girls? Then maybe you should consider his advice.
On the other hand, is he just unstable, constantly negative and making people miserable wherever he goes? Pass.

You said it yourself. He's a mentally aberrant person and fixed on negativity. So why would you take anything this crazy person says, seriously?
Just act like you never even met him, erase his existence out of your mind just like you deleted his number.
Your mental energy is better spent on other things.

Cheers,
RAFox

Thank you for the advice RAFox :)
I have this stupid belief that even if someone is lacking in something maybe he can see something that I can't ......that's why I was doubtful...
 
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