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Crypted messages from girls on social media, how do you react?

Quicknick

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So I have this girl way younger than me. Made everything "right": worked on fundamentals, least effort, domination, moved fast, kissed her, lead her to passionate sex in 3 diferent ocasions, text her less than she does to me, and passed the image of "bad boy" to her.

Thing is we will spend 8 weeks apart, cos she lives on another town and went there to vacations.

I kind of like this girl, and that obviously makes me totaly useless. Monitoring her Facebook page, I know some of her posts are directed to me. Since last time we where together it was 3:

A song saying something about a guy whos messing with girls little heart(a few hours after being together), a photo with a male "friend" a few days later in a concert of a band we both like,(damn that made me mad) and 2 weeks later other music about being "oceans away".

I never reacted to any of the posts directly in her page or indirectly in my page.
I know Chase is always against social media and I'm folowing that advice by not posting this kind of crypted messages, but don't i take the risk of her going on Auto-rejction because she thinks i'm too distant or aloof? I don't text her or call her either because I have an "official" relation and she' s ok with that.

How do you guys react to those positive and negative indirect messages from girls on social media?
 

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SLate her in a Category Fuck Buddy, Multiple Relationship, or Exclusive relationship. From what you described, she is a Fuck buddy. I'd hide her from your Social feed and only contact her for sex.
 
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Quicknick

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GoGetter said:
Quicknick said:
How do you guys react to those positive and negative indirect messages from girls on social media?
I don't. The time you waste on social media is the time some other guy is passing you: getting richer, getting cooler, getting ripped.

Thanks for the replyes.

Although I understand the logic of not "living" in the virtual world of social media I don't fully agree on getting out of it because reality is that girls use social media a lot. And they are aproached and make contact with guys there. Abstaining completly of social media will leave those competitors free way to play their strengths on our girls. Its like saying "I know this girl hangs out in a certain bar, but i won't go there cos is not a cool place and I just go get fitter, richer, better... "

Meanwhile at the bar competition is getting the girls who are there exposed to them.

Of course i agree that to much Facebook and other social media makes you look like you don't have a life, but sometimes girls try to reach for you through it and you can give back a little, specialy when you are too far away to meet on person. Otherwhise you might look not attainable and send them into auto-rejection.

The dificult part is how much and in what way to react to those hidden, sutle messages.

hope I explained my view in a correct way.
 
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