I’ve been seeing one person at a time for safety reasons during covid. The current is from bumble. We met on Monday and again on Thursday. Today she had plans for the fourth. But she came over this morning for breakfast and “cuddling.” In reality she came over to eat breakfast and have sex.
She says the is asexual but always initiates sex. She wants to text a lot. But she also just moved here a day before quarantine started. So I am one of her only two friends.
I’m getting so many mixed signals. She acts like she likes me and wants to be with me and enjoys our intimacy. However, she also says things that indicate she is considering walking away. I know she isn’t someone I would ever fall in love with. But with quarantine I’m trying to date one woman at a time and i’m already on my third quarantine gf. Should I back off and see if she’ll chase? After Thursday she made it seem like she may not want to see me again. So I didn’t text her the next day and by two she texted me. Then things went back to normal. Today she acted kinda weird when leaving. Maybe this is normal for girls who aren’t crazy high interest. But I think if I am going to commit to one girl maybe she should have more interest in me. I have hated dating during this time though. I don’t know what to do. I feel like I’ve been in three relationships back to back with girls I didn’t like. There was a girl I did like too. We met on bumble and had drinks then hooked up within two hours. She’s a small town girl and I could tell I made her feel like a slut. Never got her back. But i know there are plenty of girls available and I can find one I like. I cancelled a date Thursday to see this girl again and am now wondering if that was the wrong move. Am I being paranoid about the virus and should I just date normally. I really don’t know.
She says the is asexual but always initiates sex. She wants to text a lot. But she also just moved here a day before quarantine started. So I am one of her only two friends.
I’m getting so many mixed signals. She acts like she likes me and wants to be with me and enjoys our intimacy. However, she also says things that indicate she is considering walking away. I know she isn’t someone I would ever fall in love with. But with quarantine I’m trying to date one woman at a time and i’m already on my third quarantine gf. Should I back off and see if she’ll chase? After Thursday she made it seem like she may not want to see me again. So I didn’t text her the next day and by two she texted me. Then things went back to normal. Today she acted kinda weird when leaving. Maybe this is normal for girls who aren’t crazy high interest. But I think if I am going to commit to one girl maybe she should have more interest in me. I have hated dating during this time though. I don’t know what to do. I feel like I’ve been in three relationships back to back with girls I didn’t like. There was a girl I did like too. We met on bumble and had drinks then hooked up within two hours. She’s a small town girl and I could tell I made her feel like a slut. Never got her back. But i know there are plenty of girls available and I can find one I like. I cancelled a date Thursday to see this girl again and am now wondering if that was the wrong move. Am I being paranoid about the virus and should I just date normally. I really don’t know.
