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Paulie Walnuts

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If you just want to read about the Pull scroll down to the "Pull" section, this was my first ever actual night game street pickup (that lead directly to sex), so I'm fucking excited and wrote up the entire night!!!

So literally am in the process of writing up my LR from Friday night :D, totally did not expect to be writing this one up too (I'm technically taking a "break" from pickup), buuuut it was Saturday night and I'm still kinda riding high from what I like to call "The Winner Effect" (from the pull on Friday). Anyway so instead of studying for my midterm on Monday like I was planning too I decide to go out with another of the brokers from the office who's pretty big into RSD (though he's just now starting to be able to approach after coming out with me a few times and turning him on to some GC material ;)), he also brings his friend Isaiah who is buff and good looking (former marine) but would rather just get wasted then actually talk to women.

Before I leave the house I drink some coffee and watch Tyler RSD infield (starting to become my ritual for night game), I like GC better than RSD just because I feel like I learned a lot more here (reading articles, listening to podcasts and reading field and lay reports) than I did watching the videos; but I put a lot of Tyler's techniques into practice along with my GC techniques and fundamentals.

Anyway, I'm a little late out to the bar we're meeting up at, was looking for the watch and ring my dumbass left at the girl from Friday nights LR's place. Finally get there at about 10:20ish and know I need to immediately start making approaches. I find my friends and talk to a few girls, first approach was god awful (started waaaaay too high energy), but things get better as I tone it down and calibrate better. I find some random girl who's on a 21 run for her friend and she apparently recognizes me from some class we had together back in high school (she's a couple years my junior), apparently she goes to school in Seattle now so I decide to grab her number (asking for the date of course). Through this interaction I keep all 6 girls busy by being sort of an entertainer to 5 of them while simultaneously deep diving (barely though... lol) the target girl. I also tell them random things like "I'm a ninja" and that "My name is Tiberius", I keep everyone laughing and get the girls number.

I get 2 more numbers at the bar we're at, (one interaction I teach them about Beta Male Shaming, another I verbalize my game as I run it on them), one girl gets kind of sarcastic on me when I tell her I'm there to pick up girls (grabbed her friends number and have her in my arms as she's trying to break my frame), but even though I'm sweating a bit and she points it out (bloody hot in there!) I don't let her break my frame.

Some interactions fail, but I don't let the rejection even phase me a bit. Shorty (the other broker I came with) and I eventually come across some cute Asian girls from Orange County, I go up and tell the hotter one she's attractive as fuck with a seductive smile on my face, her face lights up and she tells me I'm pretty hot myself. The two turn out to be sisters and I make small talk, banter then deep dive, then since I know I need the practice Leading I say "Well since you guys are only in town for the night let's hangout!", we end up going upstairs to grab a table and I start working Kino. It's going really well though I'm working game on the younger sister and when Shorty gets up to go find Isaiah's drunk arse I can see the older one giving me the "resting bitch face look", I don't really care and continue working Kino, unfortunately I'm 90% sure I missed an escalation window somewhere in that interaction because when I say let's go to some other bars she says she needs to go meetup with a friend (she also said she was in town only for the night and her sister said till Tuesday...... could she have wanted the D and tried to make it seem like it was just that??)
I decide to at least get her number so I can try and work something out later. Get her number and we leave the bar, text her:

Me: Hey I think you're attractive as FUCK! Let's hangout later tonight :)
Her: You're not so bad yourself, sure dude let me know wassup
Me: Are you staying in Seattle? Would love to come chill :)


No response after that but whatever haha. We go to another bar and nothing interesting happens other than some other approaches and one other number.

I decide it's time to go to our "cleanup spot" which is the big German themed bar about a 10 minute walk away that all the hot College/Sorority Girls plus hot mid to late 20's women go too. I always have pretty solid luck here number closing and I decide tonight I'm gonna get a makeout! (though I always wait till I'm at my prime point of the night and totally "in state" because it's a very high competition environment). Anyway we get there and it's fucking packed! I tell random girls that I'm a ninja and a roman emperor, at some point after a couple approaches I end up finding some tipsy hot blonde girl at the bar who is whining about some 80 year old buying her drinks, I tell her "Only beta males buy drinks for women" and then start making out with her (I'm kind of a douchebag when I'm on "The Winner Effect", I also make friends with some chick because I'm winging Shorty with her friend (though the girl I'm talking too has a boyfriend who was literally upstairs), find out the poor bastard spent FOUR YEARS in the Friend Zone (best friend high school) before they finally started dating (guess it works for some people). Trying to give Shorty some isolation time with the girl he's working on I tell the girl I'm talking too that: "I absolutely have to congratulate her boyfriend on being an inspiration to friend zoned men everywhere" (Boss wingman shit), I go do just this (and the boyfriend just looks at me like I'm a retard hahahaha), but when I get back SHORTY STILL HAS NOT CLOSED (Number or otherwise)!!! I decide I am annoyed and find Isaiah about 15 feet way getting wasted and tell him he will stand in for me to wing Shorty.

I lead him over to the group and then head off with a wink, I find a hot soccer player from Oregon with a giant ass and decide to converse with her (favorite interaction of the night other than the sex one), I literally tell her "She will be my future ex wife", we chat a ton and seem to really hit it off. Apparently some Beta douchebag she came with has a crush on her and is super mad about us talking (which unfortunately for him only seems to drive her closer to me, we chat for 15-20 minutes and we're joking about how she's gonna move to Seattle to come get married too me (she is considering moving here), I almost pull her a few times; we were very close to her ditching her friends and us... "Getting Coffee ;)", (literally this was just for plausible deniability since the entire time she's basically in my arms and I'm feeling her up IN A CALIBRATED CHILL WAY!) She really does almost decide to come with me but unfortunately Douchebag Beta has the hotel key and they are also her ride home to Oregon (I'm not bloody driving 10 hours round trip, idc how hot the girl is). Logistics are unfavorable so it doesn't work out, we decide to be texting buddies and she tells me I'm hot as fuck. Dope. (The deep dive and sexual framing was real in this interaction, like.... I was basically straight up telling her I was going to bone her if she came with me, in a "Joking", "Playful" way of course haha).

As I go off to find my friends I grab some random hot blonde girl leaving and use a Tyler RSD move (the "two seconds ;), come here!"), it totally works and I say "Tell me who you are and what you're passionate about", she says tennis and I tell her she's gonna teach me tennis and grab her number after 30 seconds. Isaiah thinks she's cute as hell so he decides he's going to go hit on her too, I just chuckle because he's drunk as fuck and it's not gonna go well; it doesn't indeed and he gets shot down by the fucking GIANTS she's with! (Literally these guys were all like 6'7, or 6'8), anyway the bar starts closing so we head out! I'm super fucking glad we did because this is where I pulled ;).

The Pull:

So we leave the bar and the cops are outside yelling into microphones and shit, Isaiah is talking about going back and picking a fight with the random 6'8 giants and I decide I should take off and go study for midterms like a good boy before things get too hairy. As I split off from my mates back to my car, I randomly start a conversation with some British guy wearing a bathrobe; as we chat I end up walking past this cute, short blonde that looks a bit older than me. I decide I'll give her a compliment, why the fuck not right? So I tell her "I like your scarf", she stops cold and says "Thank you!" with this awkward smile, I decide to push my luck because again; why the fuck not right?

I walk up to her and leave my bathrobed British new friend behind, I literally just ask her what she's doing and when she says going home I say we should hangout; LITERALLY DID NOT EXPECT THIS TO WORK AT ALL! I tell her "we should chill at her place", she says "no" so I say "no worries let's go chill somewhere else"! She asks me if I want to get a drink and I say sure, then... by some random act of God she just decides it's cool if we just go back to her place (I mean I persisted on that a little... ;)). She ends up living in a condo building LITERALLY RIGHT NEXT TO MY FAVORITE CLOSING/CLEANUP SPOT FOR NIGHTGAME, FUCKING SCORE DUDE! On the way there she literally can't stop talking about how "She can't believe she's doing this right now", I say it's totally chill and not a big deal and try to talk about random other shit, like what she does for a living. She says she's in marketing, we get to the building and again while she's using her keycard on the door she says she can't believe this is happening right now, I tell her to just relax and give her a hug.

We get to the elevator and she asks me if I do blow, I used to do this a lot when I was running nightclubs and raves (it was always free for me), but don't really anymore because it fucks up my game and my dick; so fuck that right? I say "Yeah every once in awhile haha", just trying to not make myself sound "other" or judgey, I can always turn it down later if need be. We finally get up to her place on the 5th floor, we walk in and she lives alone. She offers me a drink and I say no, she acts like this is weird, I rationalize my not drinking because I saw too much shenanigans when I was running events. At this point I try to kiss her and she gives me some LMR, but I get it anyway. I decide she needs more comfort building so I talk more about what she does for a living. She opens up a bit but at this point I have to use the restroom because of my disability, once I come out she comes up and says verbatim "Well it was really nice meeting you but........", I think to myself ahhhh fuck man, to be this close and not CLOSE! FUCK THAT! So I tell her let's just chill and hangout for a bit and lead her over to the couch to sit down for a bit. We kiss a bit and I feel her boobs and kiss her neck but when I make a move to escalate further she pushes me off, kind of hard actually so I give no resistance and immediately get off; not tryna get rape charges here. I decide to do more comfort building.

We chat for a bit but she still seems... awkward, talking about how she still can't believe I'm a random guy she just met inside her condo. I use everything I have to put her at ease and try to make myself less polarizing, I even give her my business card so she can see I'm a normal person and not some psycho serial killer. At some point (not sure exactly how or why), the tension broke and she came and sat down on the couch with me again (this was before she drank any of that drink too mind you... so it's not the booze that put her at ease), we chat more and I can see the tension going down more and more and her becoming more and more comfortable! I know I can escalate now, FUCK YEAH! We start making out and it's smooth fucking sailing from here, she let's me feel everything except for her vagina (I try to get under her jeans, man I fucking hate skinny jeans, honestly it's like they TRY and make our job harder), I try for it once and she pushes me off so I restart the process and start escalating again with more comfort while first saying "We don't have to do anything you're not comfortable with :), just let me know!" This works perfectly and the next time I go for it she lets me. I tell her we should go over to the bed because it's more comfy, she doesn't immediately get up so I take her hand and lead her there.

From here it's simple, I get clothes off, finger her and though I'm expecting resistance when I take my clothes off; I don't get it, though I moved slower and built comfort first, let her touch my dick rather than just pulling it out and going inside her. Anyway once I pull it out and she gives me a handy for a bit, my penis isn't fully erect but I decide to go for it anyway (what I've noticed in these sort of... fast pickup escalations where they aren't dates I have a hard time getting a boner, just because I'm really fucking nervous or whatever. It was very unfortunate by I came in like..... 5 strokes (Tf is wrong with me haha), I don't lose hope though, I pull out and start fingering her. I think it's been a while for her because she got waaaaaay too aroused by me stimulating her clit, but I got another boner by rubbing myself on her pussy and fucked her again (properly this time), IT WAS FUCKING AMAZING! She was super fucking tight for an old lady haha (no children I think), so it was dope!

After I cum inside her she ends up cuddling with me for awhile, I tell her how old I actually am (never lied to her, she just never asked and I didn't say anything, learned my lesson with the teacher I picked up from school). She can't believe it but decides she'd like to see me again, I get her number and then tell her I have to study for midterms. It was funny because she kept cuddling with me and shit but then when I went to get a drink of water she said either I had to go to bed or take off because she needed sleep, I just chuckled and said "Ok mum", which she thought was hilarious but said never do again. Annnnyway now I have a dope pad to crash at and awesome sex waiting for me whenever I can't close at the end of a night haha (since she literally lives a block from the bar I cleanup at!)

Problems I'm having right now:

Probably tons of other shit too but my main issue right now is sex.... IT REALLY SHOULDN'T BE I have been with 79 women now, that's not a joke and yes I did count (though I was coming from a utterly idiotic mindset that has completely changed! Thanks GC!), now that I'm not on anti-depressants anymore I'm having trouble with premature ejaculation (it's not exactly premature I guess... but like 5-10 minutes into it I'll cum, and I can't stroke as fast as I need too to hit the "Lover" frame that I want).

Like Friday's girl? Said there was no sexual chemistry between us (Girlspeak for: You didn't make me cum shithead you don't get to be in the Lover role anymore), this is clearly something that I need to get handled or I'm fucked! It's getting better I guess (since I'm now getting used too the extreme feeling from sex, that I didn't get before when I was on anti-depressants), what tactics and advice do you guys have?
 

Smurf

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Re: LR: Cute 36 Year Old While Walking Back to My Car From Bars (2nd Lay of wknd

That's awesome dude!

Sounds like you had a solid night, good process on that pull.

Jake.

P.s.,

Do you have any tips for the rave scene, that's where I do my night game since I can't go to bars yet ;)
 

Paulie Walnuts

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Re: LR: Cute 36 Year Old While Walking Back to My Car From Bars (2nd Lay of wknd

@Jake D.

Tbh I had a hard time pulling in the actual "Rave and EDM scene itself", they're kind of a tight knit group here in Seattle (though it's a MASSIVE group). I fucked myself royally by coming off needy and douchey when I first got in (to some of the Alpha females of the group that were the hottest but unlike the rotating college girls that come through, these actually stick around). I still got my fair share of girls because I was a big House Party/Club/Event guy that ran my own stuff and the other companies could draw on that (so I got invited to everything) but even though I got girls I was still a pariah in a way haha. I was really tight with all the guys in there but most of the girls thought I was a douchebag/creeper (I really didn't creep on anyone I just didn't actually understand social dynamics very well).

Tips though I'm not sure where you're at but for big raves it's literally like bar scene, just do whatever the fuck you want and nobody will really remember or care the next morning. If it's a house party/smaller event and you notice the same people at most of these (do some observation first, I really wish I'd done that before I started hitting on everything that moved back in the day), run it like social circle game; move fast when you see opportunity unless you'll take a big hit to your reputation (like a drunk girl or something, don't want to be seen as taking advantage of that kind of stuff).
 

Ambiance

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Re: LR: Cute 36 Year Old While Walking Back to My Car From Bars (2nd Lay of wknd

Trackrunner-

Great work, trying something you thought for sure would fail. I know you are happy you did ;) Some thoughts I had...

Your alpha-esque vibe is golden. Obviously you get a lot of attraction from women when you're in that zone. Whenever I experience it myself the night always turns out well. That said, I would refrain from using pickup/manosphere terminology such as Beta. It doesn't really give you any points and can be detrimental as it is a little tryhard. Otherwise, great stuff.

As far as escalating, you did a great job persisting in a non-needy manner with the 36 year old. Your frame overpowered hers and she became more comfortable with you. I would study up on building sexual tension in less overt ways, and change up your escalation style tom something more California Pimp like (see the Ricadus articles) just for the experience of it. I have been very successful skipping a lot of steps by having a girl touch my dick and then going straight for her pussy.

As far as lasting longer, If you feel you are about to cum slow down or even stop. The girl really won't mind, and after a few minutes your dick will catch on. The only problem with this is it might become harder to cum later if you remove yourself from the plateau. I know you have been with 79 women, so perhaps you have experience to share with me about that

All in all, wicked report. Very fun read :)
 

lux7

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Re: LR: Cute 36 Year Old While Walking Back to My Car From Bars (2nd Lay of wknd

trackrunner12 said:
Probably tons of other shit too but my main issue right now is sex.... IT REALLY SHOULDN'T BE I have been with 79 women now, that's not a joke and yes I did count (though I was coming from a utterly idiotic mindset that has completely changed! Thanks GC!), now that I'm not on anti-depressants anymore I'm having trouble with premature ejaculation (it's not exactly premature I guess... but like 5-10 minutes into it I'll cum, and I can't stroke as fast as I need too to hit the "Lover" frame that I want).

Like Friday's girl? Said there was no sexual chemistry between us (Girlspeak for: You didn't make me cum shithead you don't get to be in the Lover role anymore), this is clearly something that I need to get handled or I'm fucked! It's getting better I guess (since I'm now getting used too the extreme feeling from sex, that I didn't get before when I was on anti-depressants), what tactics and advice do you guys have?


A tip out of the top of my head would be not to use that kind of language at all.
It puts you in a tense state.
You're not "fucked".

And the second tip would be to take your state a couple notches down :).
You're no "fucked" dude, you'd be fucked if you had a gun to your head and the guy was hell bent in pulling the trigger.
And even then, hell, you could still take it lightly... You'd die anyway sooner or later.

And I'd even go as far as saying to move yourself away from a "need to perform to give women's pleasure" mindset.
Yes it's good to, yes it's nice, yes it's great... BUT you don't "have to". As much as it's also nice to open the door for a woman but you "don't have to".
Enjoy the moment for what it is: a beautiful moment between the two of you and take her off the pedestal of "the one who has to be pleased".

It's interesting you know you've been with 79 women even though you yourself say "coming from idiotic mindset".
 
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