The pandemic hasn’t forced people to wear masks where I live, if you go out and drink, so this place I went to still gets lots of clientele. I got results but I’m sure I missed some things along the way.
I’m about to go to a dance bar with my buddy. It’s got a country vibe with a small dance floor that has a three stair step to a railing you can overlook at the crowd dancing under the strobe lights with a bar close to it. Two other places you can get drinks are closer to the entrance.
The clock ticks at 1 AM, my style looks good, and we walk inside. I notice the ratio is close to 50/50 with guys and girls. I order a drink and warm up with the bartender and other guys with small talk.
I walk around more to assess everything. It seems most women are with a BF, so I felt resistant to talk to some people.
Eventually, I slowly make my way closer to the dance floor and a really cute girl waves a hand at me. Wasn’t sure if it was a gesture signaling me to dance with her but I took it as an IOI and went for it. She was with two other girlfriends. I got her name as we danced by the entrance of the dance floor, she made out with me a little and later on her friends ushered her to dance with them.
I didn’t get a chance to number close or isolate, so I assumed she wanted me to come along and dance with her group (possibly a mistake?). I didn’t have enough time to insist we grab a drink together. I tried dancing with her in front of the friends but she instantly had a different attitude. She didn’t wanna dance with me and said “have a good night,” as she turned toward her group. I was very confused because she behaved as if she was completely sober.
I made other approaches, but nothing too crazy to write about.
Anyway, that’s all for now. Haha. Any feedback is appreciated.
I’m about to go to a dance bar with my buddy. It’s got a country vibe with a small dance floor that has a three stair step to a railing you can overlook at the crowd dancing under the strobe lights with a bar close to it. Two other places you can get drinks are closer to the entrance.
The clock ticks at 1 AM, my style looks good, and we walk inside. I notice the ratio is close to 50/50 with guys and girls. I order a drink and warm up with the bartender and other guys with small talk.
I walk around more to assess everything. It seems most women are with a BF, so I felt resistant to talk to some people.
Eventually, I slowly make my way closer to the dance floor and a really cute girl waves a hand at me. Wasn’t sure if it was a gesture signaling me to dance with her but I took it as an IOI and went for it. She was with two other girlfriends. I got her name as we danced by the entrance of the dance floor, she made out with me a little and later on her friends ushered her to dance with them.
I didn’t get a chance to number close or isolate, so I assumed she wanted me to come along and dance with her group (possibly a mistake?). I didn’t have enough time to insist we grab a drink together. I tried dancing with her in front of the friends but she instantly had a different attitude. She didn’t wanna dance with me and said “have a good night,” as she turned toward her group. I was very confused because she behaved as if she was completely sober.
I made other approaches, but nothing too crazy to write about.
Anyway, that’s all for now. Haha. Any feedback is appreciated.
