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Background
This was a bit of a milestone lay for me because it was my first "real" threesome. (I pulled 2 girls from a club after a party I threw earlier this year, but one wasn't interested in the other girl, so I just fucked them one after the other). I feel like I always have exactly one bi girl that I'm seeing at any time, and whenever there are 2, the looks level and archetype are too different to bring them together. This was also my 150th lay.
Girl 1: 22yo Colombian webcam model. Petite with white skin, red and blonde dyed hair, and nose and tit piercings. Thin and average/pretty face. I met her from online a few weeks ago and we had slept together twice before. Chill, slightly introverted, sweet/feminine, sexually open, and stoner girl type.
Girl 2 (the new one). 26yo French solo traveler in the city for almost a week on a 7 month trip. White, thin, average/pretty face. Open-minded, adventurous, smart upbeat/easygoing, and sweet/feminine.
Me: Late 20's 6' white American. Slim body, average face. Longer dark-ish hair, usually slightly edgy-ish style.
The Lay
I meet girl number 2 at a bachata social on a weeknight. It was my first time at the event. I had been dealing with some annoying personal things, so wasn't really in a gaming/social mood that night. I talked with her some during the social. She was friendly and interested in background. I teased her quite a bit about her travel style and music tastes and open-looped her about my job, but my vibe/nonverbals were off that night (Consistency with nonverbals is a weak point of mine). My vibe was too nice/friendly, and maybe a little passive/in my head too. Optics weren't great either as I was just chilling and watching others dance half the time (I'm pretty beginner-ish at dancing). I liked her friendly, feminine vibe, but I wasn't planning on doing anything with it.
The social ended around 12:30am or so, and a lot of the people there were going to a party event at a bar near me. I usually go to this event most weeks - I actually closed a girl from their last week (I brought a different girl that I had already slept with there, but ended up taking home her classmate's cousin that I met that night despite her attempts to claim me. But that's another story). It was pouring rain, but I live a few blocks away, so decided to go anyway.
The party is mostly a crowded dance floor. I alternate between hanging out and dancing with a couple groups I already knew there and a couple groups I met at the social that night.
At one point when talking to girl 2, I asked her "So what's the craziest experience you've had in your trip so far?". And she mentions having her first threesome 2 weeks ago. So I start talking with her about it and immediately think: "This girl is pretty sexually open. This is the type of girl where if she's attracted to me I can probably sexualize and close really smoothly. She seems very open to meeting people tonight. And she's cute and I like her personality. So why don't I do something". The problem is that I've built zero sexual tension with her all night, and hadn't flirted at all except for some teasing and disqualification stuff.
But as soon as we get on that topic, another girl swoops in and immediately grabs her and pulls her away from me to talk to her. I've decided to try and turn the game switch on now, so I walk 2 steps over, wag my finger at her playfully and say "Wow, I like your assertiveness, but that was a little rude. Give us two more minutes first", then grab the girl and pull her back to me. But she's protesting, so I let her go back and I go hang with some other friends for a few minutes.
I find her again not too long after, and bring the topic back up. Soon after that I take her to sit down on a couch and talk. She had asked me my craziest recent experience and I baited her for a bit about it ("Those stories are pretty explicit, are you sure you can handle that? I usually don't tell many people about these sort of things, but you seem pretty non-judgemental. Ok, I'll give you a recent threesome story since you gave me one"). She brings the topic back up, so I go through a dhv routine I have about the "threesome" I mentioned at the beginning. I bring up ig highlights from that night which was a themed party on my friend's balcony. So I have videos of me popping champagne surrounded by model female friends, girls drumming on each other's asses and feeding each other shots in the club afterwards, etc. I also scroll through some other heavy dhv story highlights to get there - lots of preselection/party stuff. She's a little intrigued by this.
Soon after, I was showing a little intent and she asked me what my type of girl was after I had asked her her type of guy. I gave a few frames that I wanted to enforce and added on "and I like girls who are submissive in bed" at the end.
Her: "So are you a dom then"
Me: "Yes. I like to be in control"
I took the topic to bdsm, which is something she has fantasized and been curious about but never tried before. She said she's usually the one who leads with guys, and I said "with me, it will definitely be the other way around". We talked about bondage and sex for a bit, and I let a lot of sex-knowledge stuff show.
She wasn't showing too many more iois, but I could tell she was curious about trying some new things. I started describing how I was going to blindfold her and put wrist and ankle cuffs on her to tie her to the bed in detail "...and then, when you're dripping wet with excitement for the crazy bdsm sex shit you think is coming next.... I'll force you to lie there and listen to the entire Taylor Swift discography for the rest of the night" (a reference to an earlier joke where I disqualified her for being too cool to listen to cheesy pop music). I let the spike hit, then grabbed her hand and told her we're going to go share our playlists with each other, and lead her outside to walk to mine under my umbrella at 2:30am. We never got to the Taylor Swift, but she did try a lot of new things that night
I went to bed at 7am.
The Threesome
After hearing about her threesome story, I'm thinking to myself "Why the fuck am I not having threesomes?". The next day I text girl 1 and tell her to come get a drink with me and a friend tonight. She says she doesn't feel like going out but will meet me at my place after if it's not too late. Girl 2 doesn't respond for most of the day before hitting me back with:
Girl 2: "(blah blah last night was fun) Are you still going to {early event at club X} tonight?"
Me: "Yeah, and I'm getting drinks with a friend after. You should join us"
Girl 2: "Oh nice! I’ll go to {salsa bar Y}, could join you after, but if you’d rather see your friend alone, that’s totally fine
"
It's her last night in the city, so I thought this wasn't super likely from her text. I go to bar Y anyway to see what I can do. I see some other friends there and we don't notice each other for a while. We talk and dance for a bit and then I tell her I'm going to drink wine with a friend and invite her to come. She says she wants to stay at the bar and I tell her that my friend said she's cute (was a lie, but I thought they might get along). She laughs a little when she realizes what's up. She wants to stay and dance longer since it's her last night here.
I move the time back slightly for girl 1 to 10:30. She doesn't want to have to wake me up early to leave for work, so she proposes tomorrow, but I tell her I don't mind. I don't want girl 1 to fall asleep, so I buy girl 2 a double tequila shot and then leave. She says she'll stay another hour, but to send me her address. It's all in the Lord's hands now.
I Uber girl 1 to my place and we talk and drink wine for a bit. I tell her my friend is coming to join us soon and she's super chill about it (she likes girls, and I'd briefly dirty-talked to her about what I'd do with her and another girl before, so I thought she'd be pretty down). We start getting into it and doing oral for a while while I keep checking my phone.
An hour and a half passed, and I figure the other girl isn't going to show. I make girl 1 squirt all over my bed (she squirts A LOT, like pissing the bed, fountain of liquid, pornstar squirting). Half my king bed is now completely soaking wet and I get a text from girl 2: "On my way!" Lmao. God was watching out for me. I put 3 towels on the bed and we put our clothes back on.
Girl 2 arrives and I get her wine and sit everyone in a triangle on the bed. Girl 1 is in her tank top and thong. I realized I had no idea how to lead this convo and the girls were not going to do it for me. I wing it and bring up commonalities (girl 1 used to be a professional dancer and girl 2 does social dancing etc). After 5-7 minutes I start slowly sexualizing things, we're rubbing each other's legs....and it goes from there into one of the most memorable sexual experiences of my life.
The whole threesome was straight out of a dream. Both of the girls were really into it and into each other. Everybody was equally involved and the vibe was just perfect.
Reflection
There wasn't really a ton of game takeaways from this one. It was mostly just having two bi, sexually open girls and going for it. The lay with girl 2 was pretty smooth, even if the start was rough. She actually told me after sex that she wasn't really sure about me at first, but the bdsm and sex talk made her interested.
Really makes me want to go for more threesomes though. The past 2.5 years for me have been full of game and debauchery, but I'll be taking a break from that life to grind and catch up on my neglected career in a couple weeks. But I really want to make another 3some happen if I can. At the same time it's a nice finish to everything I've done during this time. I switched to only nightgame and social circle a few weeks ago after getting overwhelmed with texting from running high-volume online (and a moderate amount of cold approach). I hate texting girls, but the volume is useful if I'm going to be screening for bisexual, so I think I'm going to get on that train again.
Ciao
This was a bit of a milestone lay for me because it was my first "real" threesome. (I pulled 2 girls from a club after a party I threw earlier this year, but one wasn't interested in the other girl, so I just fucked them one after the other). I feel like I always have exactly one bi girl that I'm seeing at any time, and whenever there are 2, the looks level and archetype are too different to bring them together. This was also my 150th lay.
Girl 1: 22yo Colombian webcam model. Petite with white skin, red and blonde dyed hair, and nose and tit piercings. Thin and average/pretty face. I met her from online a few weeks ago and we had slept together twice before. Chill, slightly introverted, sweet/feminine, sexually open, and stoner girl type.
Girl 2 (the new one). 26yo French solo traveler in the city for almost a week on a 7 month trip. White, thin, average/pretty face. Open-minded, adventurous, smart upbeat/easygoing, and sweet/feminine.
Me: Late 20's 6' white American. Slim body, average face. Longer dark-ish hair, usually slightly edgy-ish style.
The Lay
I meet girl number 2 at a bachata social on a weeknight. It was my first time at the event. I had been dealing with some annoying personal things, so wasn't really in a gaming/social mood that night. I talked with her some during the social. She was friendly and interested in background. I teased her quite a bit about her travel style and music tastes and open-looped her about my job, but my vibe/nonverbals were off that night (Consistency with nonverbals is a weak point of mine). My vibe was too nice/friendly, and maybe a little passive/in my head too. Optics weren't great either as I was just chilling and watching others dance half the time (I'm pretty beginner-ish at dancing). I liked her friendly, feminine vibe, but I wasn't planning on doing anything with it.
The social ended around 12:30am or so, and a lot of the people there were going to a party event at a bar near me. I usually go to this event most weeks - I actually closed a girl from their last week (I brought a different girl that I had already slept with there, but ended up taking home her classmate's cousin that I met that night despite her attempts to claim me. But that's another story). It was pouring rain, but I live a few blocks away, so decided to go anyway.
The party is mostly a crowded dance floor. I alternate between hanging out and dancing with a couple groups I already knew there and a couple groups I met at the social that night.
At one point when talking to girl 2, I asked her "So what's the craziest experience you've had in your trip so far?". And she mentions having her first threesome 2 weeks ago. So I start talking with her about it and immediately think: "This girl is pretty sexually open. This is the type of girl where if she's attracted to me I can probably sexualize and close really smoothly. She seems very open to meeting people tonight. And she's cute and I like her personality. So why don't I do something". The problem is that I've built zero sexual tension with her all night, and hadn't flirted at all except for some teasing and disqualification stuff.
But as soon as we get on that topic, another girl swoops in and immediately grabs her and pulls her away from me to talk to her. I've decided to try and turn the game switch on now, so I walk 2 steps over, wag my finger at her playfully and say "Wow, I like your assertiveness, but that was a little rude. Give us two more minutes first", then grab the girl and pull her back to me. But she's protesting, so I let her go back and I go hang with some other friends for a few minutes.
I find her again not too long after, and bring the topic back up. Soon after that I take her to sit down on a couch and talk. She had asked me my craziest recent experience and I baited her for a bit about it ("Those stories are pretty explicit, are you sure you can handle that? I usually don't tell many people about these sort of things, but you seem pretty non-judgemental. Ok, I'll give you a recent threesome story since you gave me one"). She brings the topic back up, so I go through a dhv routine I have about the "threesome" I mentioned at the beginning. I bring up ig highlights from that night which was a themed party on my friend's balcony. So I have videos of me popping champagne surrounded by model female friends, girls drumming on each other's asses and feeding each other shots in the club afterwards, etc. I also scroll through some other heavy dhv story highlights to get there - lots of preselection/party stuff. She's a little intrigued by this.
Soon after, I was showing a little intent and she asked me what my type of girl was after I had asked her her type of guy. I gave a few frames that I wanted to enforce and added on "and I like girls who are submissive in bed" at the end.
Her: "So are you a dom then"
Me: "Yes. I like to be in control"
I took the topic to bdsm, which is something she has fantasized and been curious about but never tried before. She said she's usually the one who leads with guys, and I said "with me, it will definitely be the other way around". We talked about bondage and sex for a bit, and I let a lot of sex-knowledge stuff show.
She wasn't showing too many more iois, but I could tell she was curious about trying some new things. I started describing how I was going to blindfold her and put wrist and ankle cuffs on her to tie her to the bed in detail "...and then, when you're dripping wet with excitement for the crazy bdsm sex shit you think is coming next.... I'll force you to lie there and listen to the entire Taylor Swift discography for the rest of the night" (a reference to an earlier joke where I disqualified her for being too cool to listen to cheesy pop music). I let the spike hit, then grabbed her hand and told her we're going to go share our playlists with each other, and lead her outside to walk to mine under my umbrella at 2:30am. We never got to the Taylor Swift, but she did try a lot of new things that night
I went to bed at 7am.The Threesome
After hearing about her threesome story, I'm thinking to myself "Why the fuck am I not having threesomes?". The next day I text girl 1 and tell her to come get a drink with me and a friend tonight. She says she doesn't feel like going out but will meet me at my place after if it's not too late. Girl 2 doesn't respond for most of the day before hitting me back with:
Girl 2: "(blah blah last night was fun) Are you still going to {early event at club X} tonight?"
Me: "Yeah, and I'm getting drinks with a friend after. You should join us"
Girl 2: "Oh nice! I’ll go to {salsa bar Y}, could join you after, but if you’d rather see your friend alone, that’s totally fine
"It's her last night in the city, so I thought this wasn't super likely from her text. I go to bar Y anyway to see what I can do. I see some other friends there and we don't notice each other for a while. We talk and dance for a bit and then I tell her I'm going to drink wine with a friend and invite her to come. She says she wants to stay at the bar and I tell her that my friend said she's cute (was a lie, but I thought they might get along). She laughs a little when she realizes what's up. She wants to stay and dance longer since it's her last night here.
I move the time back slightly for girl 1 to 10:30. She doesn't want to have to wake me up early to leave for work, so she proposes tomorrow, but I tell her I don't mind. I don't want girl 1 to fall asleep, so I buy girl 2 a double tequila shot and then leave. She says she'll stay another hour, but to send me her address. It's all in the Lord's hands now.
I Uber girl 1 to my place and we talk and drink wine for a bit. I tell her my friend is coming to join us soon and she's super chill about it (she likes girls, and I'd briefly dirty-talked to her about what I'd do with her and another girl before, so I thought she'd be pretty down). We start getting into it and doing oral for a while while I keep checking my phone.
An hour and a half passed, and I figure the other girl isn't going to show. I make girl 1 squirt all over my bed (she squirts A LOT, like pissing the bed, fountain of liquid, pornstar squirting). Half my king bed is now completely soaking wet and I get a text from girl 2: "On my way!" Lmao. God was watching out for me. I put 3 towels on the bed and we put our clothes back on.
Girl 2 arrives and I get her wine and sit everyone in a triangle on the bed. Girl 1 is in her tank top and thong. I realized I had no idea how to lead this convo and the girls were not going to do it for me. I wing it and bring up commonalities (girl 1 used to be a professional dancer and girl 2 does social dancing etc). After 5-7 minutes I start slowly sexualizing things, we're rubbing each other's legs....and it goes from there into one of the most memorable sexual experiences of my life.
The whole threesome was straight out of a dream. Both of the girls were really into it and into each other. Everybody was equally involved and the vibe was just perfect.
Reflection
There wasn't really a ton of game takeaways from this one. It was mostly just having two bi, sexually open girls and going for it. The lay with girl 2 was pretty smooth, even if the start was rough. She actually told me after sex that she wasn't really sure about me at first, but the bdsm and sex talk made her interested.
Really makes me want to go for more threesomes though. The past 2.5 years for me have been full of game and debauchery, but I'll be taking a break from that life to grind and catch up on my neglected career in a couple weeks. But I really want to make another 3some happen if I can. At the same time it's a nice finish to everything I've done during this time. I switched to only nightgame and social circle a few weeks ago after getting overwhelmed with texting from running high-volume online (and a moderate amount of cold approach). I hate texting girls, but the volume is useful if I'm going to be screening for bisexual, so I think I'm going to get on that train again.
Ciao
