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Hi everyone,
some background for a start. 2 moths ago I broke up with my girlfriend. That got me into a depressed state, my libido went down. I consider myself a beginner in pu
so everything combined I had almost no success. But lately things finally started to turn around. This is a fr I wanted to share with you.
I was with 2 friends and its Shrovetide Saturday so we were all wearing costumes. I was wearing a aviator bomber jacket, big old Gucci sunglasses and was smoking a cigar. I wanted to be a Tarantino movie character, half succeeded haha. My friends were on acid and drank A LOT and I decided to stay sober.
The venue is an alternative sqad consisting of 7 different venues. We were at the most crowded one.
We were having fun and I enjoyed their drunk stupid company, it was making me laugh but around midnight I got tired and almost went home. I drank a coup of tea and then joined my friend. They were talking to this group of acting students, 2 girls 2 guy. My friends disappear, I stay in the group. This girl on my left started asking me a lot of questions, commented on my resting bitch face (as I said, I was tired) and started qualifying herself. Than it went something like this (don't know how we ended up here):
the actress: I love the word bitch.
dg: oh realy?
the actress: yea.
dg: ok... bitch haha
the actress: not like that haha (she didnt mind it) I mean like using it on other people and... thinking about
calling other people that when I masturbate (wtf haha)
dg: haha tell me more haha
the actress: are you serious? ok, but I will have to whisper, because other people are here.
dg: we can take a walk around here
She agreed. She was very open about everything, not shy at all, but at the same time very logical when she talks about sex. And she talked about sex almost exclusively. Looks wise she was just my type of a girl. So we walk. We talk some other stuff but then she starts to worry about something.
the actress: where are we going?
dg: just taking a walk around this place, something I like to do when I'm here.
the actress: I'm not sure... (negative compliance, bad)
dg: ok, do you trust me?
the actress: no. (even worse haha) why do you ask that (to early?)
dg: because I'm not going to steal your kidneys, were just going for a walk around here. haha
the actress: ok haha (she was still worried)
Then we walk and talk sex, then we talk to some random people dressed like penguins just for the fun of it and than we stop.
the actress: we should look each other in the eyes.
dg: lol that's weird standing here in the middle of the place, but why not.
We're looking each other in the eyes without blinking. She is beautiful.
the actress: yeah, you definitely look like you want something from me (was I becoming needy? I have a hard time distinguishing between needy and persistent sometimes...)
dg: I don't know, maybe? what do you think? (I got a scared that im going to fuck it up... so I was becoming needy.)
Than we talk some other stuff, I hugged her on a high note and then went back to her friends. Meanwhile I said she looks horny, she was surprised and asked why, than saw some other friends and went to meet them. I'm like fuck it, and went back to her friends, the actors. We talked a little than the actress comes back and says ''he said I look horny''. That really was a spotlight on me haha. I said yea because you do. We all laugh, than she wants to know why and slowly closes herself of me. Did I make her uncomfortable by reflecting her attack on me? At the end she just says ''byee'' and shows me the back. I look at my other friend who is in a
conversation nearby and say ''she completely canceled me hahaha'' and than we all laugh some more. I didn't care haha.
So then I went in dancing with my friend. We joke and dance like we're gay. Nearby there's a couple dancing. This girl starts grinding on me. I'm confused because the other guy is still there watching us. But he's ok with it so I'm ok with it haha. That's weird I'm thinking. Than this girl wants me and my friend to kiss. I dodn't know if she really thought we're gay (we don't look like that at all) or was busting our balls. I said no, but she kept insisting. Than the three started dancing together. She again asks why we don't kiss and I say because were not gay. She then out of the blue kisses me. Then she says ''you are. see how easy that was?''. I say I'm not and get really confused (these kind of stuff doesn't usually happen to me) and weirded out because the guy I mentioned before keeps looking at me. What the hell was that? Was she teasing me? Were they looking for another guy? I honestly don't know.
Me and my friend go out to catch some free air. We were both weirded out haha. It is 2 in the morning by now.
After we finish smoking, we go back in. We dance, high five people and generally enjoy ourselves. Than I notice this cute girl dancing at the other part of the room.
She looked like the girl from Leon The Professional (older of course haha). I decided to approach. I slowly positioned myself near her, than asked her about her costume.
She was glad to see me, talked something about her costume, than asked about mine. I joked I left my beard growing for 2 months just so it fits the costume. She
complimented it and touched it. Than I complimented her hair and touched it. It was on. We started dancing and she starts to grind on me. It got me really
hard. We dance sexually some more, than in between the songs i tell her that she really got me hot and that I think that's not good. She looked a little surprised by
me being so direct, than laughed, than proceeded to dance even more sexually. We were touching with our faces, our hands. Than I pulled away, saw my friend is not there anymore so I went looking for him. I found him walking around. Acid just kicked in he told me something about four parallel time zones hahaha. Than we get a drink (my first) and go back inside.
I dance around a little, have fun, than go back to the girl. Shes still there, she looks happy to see me. We get really close, she leans on my face with her face
and says hi. I could have kissed her then, but didn't want to. I wanted to make her even more horny, so I could take her home. And her friends were starting to look
suspicious of me. Didn't notice them the before... one looked like he works 9-5 computer office job, one looked gay and there was one black metal looking girl...
I should have notice them before, danced with them, instead of going for the kill immediately. So I dance with this girl. I'm grabbing her ass, she leans into my face,
wants to kiss me, I playfully turn my face, so she kisses me on the cheek. I than ask her if she wants to go talk outside, she likes it more here. That's negative
compliance again. I should work on building up compliance. Hard to do, when you're not talking. After that her gay friend (is he really gay, I'm wondering by now) pulls
her away from me. What a nasty cock block. I nonchalantly dance with her and with them but they all look like lemons, so I leave them alone. This back and forth lasted
around 1h30min, counting me and my friend drank a beer meanwhile outside.
I go outside for a walk, looking for my friend again. He is really high hahah. I find him, we have some fun and then decide to go home. Then I see the group with this
girl talking outside the place. I ask them for a cigarette, because my friend cant roll anymore. The girl gives him a cigarette. They laugh at this, but are still looking at me like I'm from hell haha. I try to talk to them, introduce my self to everyone, ask them where they know each other from, but they keep silently looking at me with the fuck off eyes. So I decide to call it a night. I get the girls full name and leave.
I wrote to the actress and Leon the Professional girl on instagram today, but so far it looks like a dead end. Is there anything standing out I should be working on? Both girls showed a lot of interest at first, but then I failed to escalate. I'm going to try to get more compliance and watch out for the friends next time.
Thanks for reading, it turned out longer than I thought,
dongiovanni
some background for a start. 2 moths ago I broke up with my girlfriend. That got me into a depressed state, my libido went down. I consider myself a beginner in pu
so everything combined I had almost no success. But lately things finally started to turn around. This is a fr I wanted to share with you.
I was with 2 friends and its Shrovetide Saturday so we were all wearing costumes. I was wearing a aviator bomber jacket, big old Gucci sunglasses and was smoking a cigar. I wanted to be a Tarantino movie character, half succeeded haha. My friends were on acid and drank A LOT and I decided to stay sober.
The venue is an alternative sqad consisting of 7 different venues. We were at the most crowded one.
We were having fun and I enjoyed their drunk stupid company, it was making me laugh but around midnight I got tired and almost went home. I drank a coup of tea and then joined my friend. They were talking to this group of acting students, 2 girls 2 guy. My friends disappear, I stay in the group. This girl on my left started asking me a lot of questions, commented on my resting bitch face (as I said, I was tired) and started qualifying herself. Than it went something like this (don't know how we ended up here):
the actress: I love the word bitch.
dg: oh realy?
the actress: yea.
dg: ok... bitch haha
the actress: not like that haha (she didnt mind it) I mean like using it on other people and... thinking about
calling other people that when I masturbate (wtf haha)
dg: haha tell me more haha
the actress: are you serious? ok, but I will have to whisper, because other people are here.
dg: we can take a walk around here
She agreed. She was very open about everything, not shy at all, but at the same time very logical when she talks about sex. And she talked about sex almost exclusively. Looks wise she was just my type of a girl. So we walk. We talk some other stuff but then she starts to worry about something.
the actress: where are we going?
dg: just taking a walk around this place, something I like to do when I'm here.
the actress: I'm not sure... (negative compliance, bad)
dg: ok, do you trust me?
the actress: no. (even worse haha) why do you ask that (to early?)
dg: because I'm not going to steal your kidneys, were just going for a walk around here. haha
the actress: ok haha (she was still worried)
Then we walk and talk sex, then we talk to some random people dressed like penguins just for the fun of it and than we stop.
the actress: we should look each other in the eyes.
dg: lol that's weird standing here in the middle of the place, but why not.
We're looking each other in the eyes without blinking. She is beautiful.
the actress: yeah, you definitely look like you want something from me (was I becoming needy? I have a hard time distinguishing between needy and persistent sometimes...)
dg: I don't know, maybe? what do you think? (I got a scared that im going to fuck it up... so I was becoming needy.)
Than we talk some other stuff, I hugged her on a high note and then went back to her friends. Meanwhile I said she looks horny, she was surprised and asked why, than saw some other friends and went to meet them. I'm like fuck it, and went back to her friends, the actors. We talked a little than the actress comes back and says ''he said I look horny''. That really was a spotlight on me haha. I said yea because you do. We all laugh, than she wants to know why and slowly closes herself of me. Did I make her uncomfortable by reflecting her attack on me? At the end she just says ''byee'' and shows me the back. I look at my other friend who is in a
conversation nearby and say ''she completely canceled me hahaha'' and than we all laugh some more. I didn't care haha.
So then I went in dancing with my friend. We joke and dance like we're gay. Nearby there's a couple dancing. This girl starts grinding on me. I'm confused because the other guy is still there watching us. But he's ok with it so I'm ok with it haha. That's weird I'm thinking. Than this girl wants me and my friend to kiss. I dodn't know if she really thought we're gay (we don't look like that at all) or was busting our balls. I said no, but she kept insisting. Than the three started dancing together. She again asks why we don't kiss and I say because were not gay. She then out of the blue kisses me. Then she says ''you are. see how easy that was?''. I say I'm not and get really confused (these kind of stuff doesn't usually happen to me) and weirded out because the guy I mentioned before keeps looking at me. What the hell was that? Was she teasing me? Were they looking for another guy? I honestly don't know.
Me and my friend go out to catch some free air. We were both weirded out haha. It is 2 in the morning by now.
After we finish smoking, we go back in. We dance, high five people and generally enjoy ourselves. Than I notice this cute girl dancing at the other part of the room.
She looked like the girl from Leon The Professional (older of course haha). I decided to approach. I slowly positioned myself near her, than asked her about her costume.
She was glad to see me, talked something about her costume, than asked about mine. I joked I left my beard growing for 2 months just so it fits the costume. She
complimented it and touched it. Than I complimented her hair and touched it. It was on. We started dancing and she starts to grind on me. It got me really
hard. We dance sexually some more, than in between the songs i tell her that she really got me hot and that I think that's not good. She looked a little surprised by
me being so direct, than laughed, than proceeded to dance even more sexually. We were touching with our faces, our hands. Than I pulled away, saw my friend is not there anymore so I went looking for him. I found him walking around. Acid just kicked in he told me something about four parallel time zones hahaha. Than we get a drink (my first) and go back inside.
I dance around a little, have fun, than go back to the girl. Shes still there, she looks happy to see me. We get really close, she leans on my face with her face
and says hi. I could have kissed her then, but didn't want to. I wanted to make her even more horny, so I could take her home. And her friends were starting to look
suspicious of me. Didn't notice them the before... one looked like he works 9-5 computer office job, one looked gay and there was one black metal looking girl...
I should have notice them before, danced with them, instead of going for the kill immediately. So I dance with this girl. I'm grabbing her ass, she leans into my face,
wants to kiss me, I playfully turn my face, so she kisses me on the cheek. I than ask her if she wants to go talk outside, she likes it more here. That's negative
compliance again. I should work on building up compliance. Hard to do, when you're not talking. After that her gay friend (is he really gay, I'm wondering by now) pulls
her away from me. What a nasty cock block. I nonchalantly dance with her and with them but they all look like lemons, so I leave them alone. This back and forth lasted
around 1h30min, counting me and my friend drank a beer meanwhile outside.
I go outside for a walk, looking for my friend again. He is really high hahah. I find him, we have some fun and then decide to go home. Then I see the group with this
girl talking outside the place. I ask them for a cigarette, because my friend cant roll anymore. The girl gives him a cigarette. They laugh at this, but are still looking at me like I'm from hell haha. I try to talk to them, introduce my self to everyone, ask them where they know each other from, but they keep silently looking at me with the fuck off eyes. So I decide to call it a night. I get the girls full name and leave.
I wrote to the actress and Leon the Professional girl on instagram today, but so far it looks like a dead end. Is there anything standing out I should be working on? Both girls showed a lot of interest at first, but then I failed to escalate. I'm going to try to get more compliance and watch out for the friends next time.
Thanks for reading, it turned out longer than I thought,
dongiovanni
