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TheEcho

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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Hey all!

Figured I'll make an LR for the girl I was seeing for a couple months, since my current situation feels like a desert. This happened back in October and ended early December with her "confessing" to me (not in Asia, but basically was that idea), me holding the same frame I communicated the whole time that I'm not trying to date anyone, and her going a bit psycho accusing me of being a fuckboy and lying. Meanwhile she was misquoting things I was explicit about the whole time, but ANYWAYS onto the goodies I can remember:

When I came back from my European trip, I started doing dancing and singing lessons and there was a wine tasting+dance event at the dance studio, so I attended that. There weren't any attractive ladies at the place, but I liked most of the members anyways. There was a new girl I've never seen who ended up sitting next to me and she was okay looking. Early 30's, Arabic, very short, double-d's, some pudge, dressed nicely, but ehh, a 7 at best. I was friendly and flirty the whole evening and some of the others invited us to go to another dance studio. My car was having issues, so I wasn't up to drive extra, so she offered to take me.

We chatted a bit and I angled to figure out how close her home was to the spot (it sounded like it was nearby), it also came up at some point that I like to be dominate (wasn't even trying to do sex talk, mais c'est la vie). The next spot was even worse than the first, I was 1/3 the age of most of the people there. Fast forward an hour, they're closing and she's going to take me back to my car (30 minutes). We're talking and I'm teasing her throughout, she was back and forth about me managing the directions and I got her flustered about her switching. "Do you not trust me?" lol.

In the parking lot, it was nearly empty, but we kept talking in her car and at some point I kissed her and she was like confused it happened, despite kissing back lol. I invited her to go to my car (her back seat was full; she's mid-moving), and we did. Things got quite steamy and we kissed a lot, but she kept cutting it, then I'd lay back and she'd give me crap to stop posing like a model lol. Eventually got her boobs out and they are the largest I've ever dealt with (sadly super flat nipples, couldn't nibble) and I'd edge toward her pussy, but she'd stop. We did this dance for quite a while and she was so hung up about being in public.

We eventually part and start texting. My rebound emotions crashed on my head like crazy with her long response times, then after a few days, I snapped out of it. She invited me to a poetry reading, and I was down. On the way down to her (1 hour.....) she asked if I could pick her up and I said sure, but I'll need to use the bathroom real quick. I park at her place, she let's me in, I go, and we head of to the reading. She's pushing hard to make this a friends thing, and I just push how it seems to be a nice pairing. Dropping her off, I manage to invite myself "back" up (I think the bathroom excuse again lol), and we sit on her couch and chat for a while. I'd occasionally attack her with kissing and she'd go into, then back off, because she's "older and wiser now" or something.

Eventually she relents and I carry her to her bedroom and have insane, mind-blowing, limp dick lol. Getting hard, then soft, like 5 times made it difficult to bring it on now and she was on her period and she had me use a condom which I hadn't used in 5 years AND not super attracted to her lol. Whatever, I laugh a bunch and enjoy it anyways. She asks me to sleep over. At some point in the night I actually got hard and did her for a while before losing it again lol (I think my ex was more flexible than I realized, and I got used to that...).

We end up seeing each other weekly for a couple months having sex a good 3+ times each visit, during which I make it clear I'm not trying to have a relationship and her espousing the same. She lives an hour away and EVERY TIME took 10-15 minutes to come let me into her apartment building while I'm dying to pee, then would be doing other stuff for a while, and sometimes have plans to go somewhere else that night without telling me ahead of time(I just end up fucking her instead lol). I ended up drowning her in talk about my ex, which isn't the coolest thing, but she kept wanting to continue. I always held that I'm not trying to start a relationship and I want to move to Europe "and find a European girl to marry" lol, yeah, I said whatever came to mind.

In the end, again, she said she really liked me, despite me trying to back out of it for weeks (I was a bit desperate given the total lack of girls in my day-to-day so kept going for a while...). It definitely made me miss my ex more and value things about her I hadn't before, as well as see a different set of options (even if the overall package wasn't up to my standards). Ended up blocking her due to her going off on me and before I would get angry enough to tell her what I actually thought of her appearance. I also found her chest size to be annoying, as I like to "crush" when I hug a girl I'm intimate with and they tended to hurt at any squeezing, I think B-C is my ideal cup.

Future LR's will be much more like my past ones (fresh and detailed about THE DATE), but might as well share my only experience after my relationship.

Thanks all!
 
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