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The word "DANCING" has been noted as an escalation window.... at first I thought it was only a Latin thing, but I've closed girls, from different cultures signaling during the date/ through text stating
"I want to dance"
"do you want/like to "dance?"
"do you want to go for a drink?" not dancing-related but a sign relating to "fun"
An escalation window. I understand is a display of showing sexuality but why is it that this specific word has that hidden meaning behind it...
If this is the case. I'm sure there are other ones that I'm not catching or missing as escalation windows. A girl being mean to you, demanding investments, frame grab, then later on, you catch her mixed in physical touch, or her friend/sister tells you
"she thinks your cute"
Off the top of my head are interest signals masked as shaming you or being mean...
"do you talk always tell every girl that?!" (she thinks you are a player)
"Does your voice SounDDEDD like that !??!"
"your voice is SOoooo fuNNNyyy ?!?" (you have an attractive voice)
"why are you being so rude?!" (too much value?! attainability issue?)
"NO THANK YOU!!!!" (WHALE INCOMING, unless you got whale expert.... your toast)
"you are actually "kinda" cute" (10mins later)
-----> "YOUR UGLY" (value)
I remember it was noted as anxiety, but they aren't able to admit the fact because it would give a "frame" or they aren't able to do to feminist culture, etc
These smaller hints I've found are all escalation windows but without a decent amount of reference is hard to pinpoint which ones are "IT"
What are some things you guys noticed over the years that were windows?
"I want to dance"
"do you want/like to "dance?"
"do you want to go for a drink?" not dancing-related but a sign relating to "fun"
An escalation window. I understand is a display of showing sexuality but why is it that this specific word has that hidden meaning behind it...
If this is the case. I'm sure there are other ones that I'm not catching or missing as escalation windows. A girl being mean to you, demanding investments, frame grab, then later on, you catch her mixed in physical touch, or her friend/sister tells you
"she thinks your cute"
Off the top of my head are interest signals masked as shaming you or being mean...
"do you talk always tell every girl that?!" (she thinks you are a player)
"Does your voice SounDDEDD like that !??!"
"your voice is SOoooo fuNNNyyy ?!?" (you have an attractive voice)
"why are you being so rude?!" (too much value?! attainability issue?)
"NO THANK YOU!!!!" (WHALE INCOMING, unless you got whale expert.... your toast)
"you are actually "kinda" cute" (10mins later)
-----> "YOUR UGLY" (value)
I remember it was noted as anxiety, but they aren't able to admit the fact because it would give a "frame" or they aren't able to do to feminist culture, etc
These smaller hints I've found are all escalation windows but without a decent amount of reference is hard to pinpoint which ones are "IT"
What are some things you guys noticed over the years that were windows?
