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Hey what up everyone! I've been meaning to finally become active in these boards and I've thought I might as well do it now while I have a relevant question in regards to women and dating in general. I have a date on Monday with a girl in one of my classes in college who's been showing some interest and we decided to go grab Mexican food since it's something that's sort of like an inside joke between her and I and so I suggested we go for some after she joked about wanting to go. I'm aware about Chase's "3 C's of Dating" (Cheap, Convenient and Conversation-preferably covert as well) which is why I've been thinking about this a bit (maybe too much). We go to the same school and our faculty is located 10 mins away from the main campus but in order to get there we'd take the bus since neither of us will have a car. The restaurant is about a 5-6 min bus ride away from the main campus which means we'd take two buses to get there. Now she doesn't actually doesn't seem to mind taking the bus according to our text convos when I told her that's how we'd get there but doesn't that take away the "Convenient" aspect away? It's not too too much of a hassle but there are other places like coffee shops for instance that are way easier to get to although I'm not sure if the best idea to change up our plans a day beforehand when we already agreed that we would get Mexican food(which is the whole point in the 1st place).
As for closing her- I wouldn't be able to do it at my place (I live with my parents and I don't bring girls over when they're around haha) but she however lives in the same city as our college but I'm not too wary of what her situation is like. I can check mark the conversation and the cheap element of the date (I don't consider it expensive) but when getting down the nuts and bolts of a date I find myself doubting a few things. When going out with a girl- what are reasonable expectations and goals that I should aim for? (I don't like making into a big OMG DATE scenario) but is it really shooting myself in the foot if I don't try to close things? This is a girl I run into pretty often AND she's in 2 of my classes. Any feedback is appreciated, thanks!
-Taco
As for closing her- I wouldn't be able to do it at my place (I live with my parents and I don't bring girls over when they're around haha) but she however lives in the same city as our college but I'm not too wary of what her situation is like. I can check mark the conversation and the cheap element of the date (I don't consider it expensive) but when getting down the nuts and bolts of a date I find myself doubting a few things. When going out with a girl- what are reasonable expectations and goals that I should aim for? (I don't like making into a big OMG DATE scenario) but is it really shooting myself in the foot if I don't try to close things? This is a girl I run into pretty often AND she's in 2 of my classes. Any feedback is appreciated, thanks!
-Taco
