Date Ideas/Advice?

[persona]

A while back I met this girl in one of my classes (see one of my older posts viewtopic.php?f=2&t=5307 ), and the general consensus was that I should move on since there was little I could do about the situation.

A couple months later I ended up running into the same girl at an obstacle course run during the summer, and ended up asking her out for drinks. The night went well l although she had to leave early because she had work early the next day (we went out on a Thursday). I didn't expect much to happen since I was leaving to go to school in another city, but lo and behold she ended up getting accepted by that same university for a different program! Unfortunately her program started a few weeks later than mine so we ended up in sort of a weird separation time lag. To top it off I've been swamped getting classes and my new place set up so I really haven't had a chance to ask her out until now.

I was wondering if you guys had a good plan/ideas/suggestions for a 2nd date? I'm currently living in Toronto if that helps at all!

 

[Zoro]

Hey Persona,

I think these two articles will help you out

https://www.girlschase.com/content/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls

https://www.girlschase.com/content/keeping-it-simple-planning-great-dates

Chase also wrote up a great article on date ideas.

Now, here's my advice.

And it will help you out in more ways than one, not excluding getting this girl out on a date.

Meet other women!

You may have heard this already if you have been spending time around the GC community, but women love men with options. Even in relationships, its ideal for your woman to feel like you would have a relatively easy time finding another girl.

You my friend are in two very great positions for meeting women.

One, Toronto is great for walking around and I have been there in cold weather and saw, with my own eyes, the cuties and beauties out. So no excuses! I will always remember the legs and long flowing hair on this gorgeous asian girl wearing a little black dress and heels walking into a little bakery in chinatown.

Two, college is amazing for meeting women!!! I took a break from college myself this year, and have thought about going back just for the abundance of young attractive women.

As for date ideas... ALL of my dates, even first dates, I have at my house. It helps to have your fundamentals in check and a good understanding of women when inviting them home like that but experience trumps all especially with GC to guide you. The journey is long and perilous, but so rewarding and fulfilling!

Good luck!
-J

PS I have heard toronto is hard to pick up in so read this too
https://www.girlschase.com/content/navigating-highly-competitive-sexual-markets

 

[persona]

Thanks J Wick! I don't think I'm particularly stuck on this girl, it just happened to be a strange coincidence that she'd be down here too so I thought I'd try to grab the opportunity and see where it goes. I'll definitely keep an eye out for the oneitis though