FR Dating struggles

[Rancorous]

I've read it already. You informed me about it when I opened this thread. It's great, thanks a lot for writing it btw.

Thank you for the positive feedback!

Those are all the tips and tricks and techniques I use to pull girls.

I try to spread it around for other guys to read and educated themselves on pickup and pulling women.

 

[Ratata]

I'm just looking for a hook up, i'm not looking for a relationship.

Then why are you taking women on cringy dates? Do this instead: Meet at a club, rizz her, take her outside for "air", slam her into the wall and make out with her. Then bring her with you for a hookup! Optional: Stop for food first (food is a great excuse to get away from the club btw, "me so howngry, come let's grab a bite." Boom, you're outta there. By pure luck the restaurant is right across the street to your pad... How about that!)

Dating = Screening for a relationship. But you aren't trying to have a relationship with her. You're trying to hook up. So stop socializing and start escalating.

On this date in particular, you failed in other ways that I could comment if you were also screening for a relationship, But ... if you truly want hookups, then simply don't bring her on a date at all. This will fix the majority of your problems getting a hookup!!!

At best you should bring her somewhere to eat or grab tea, as an excuse to get away from friends on your way to the sex location. Like Rancourous said over here somewhere, screen during the first meet instead. Although in my opinion, you don't even need to do that if you're good at escalating. So instead just get it on, flirt, get close to her, turn up the heat, and then bring her ASAP somewhere semi-private for a makeout. It's not about logical things at all. Only about feelings.

Trust me, she'll want to "date" you regardless of your religion if you're good at escalating quickly and smoothly. Ask me how I know. I'm not called "the spice rack" for nothing.

Look, do you think she'd care about your religion, or lack of it, if you're just going for a hookup? No. (Not unless she's super religious herself anyway, but then she probably wouldn't put herself in a situation like that anyway, or... I mean, among some religions anal isn't counted as sex so wtf do I know...) Does her hobbies matter if you just want to fuck her? Hell, no! That shit only matters if you're having a relationship. (Um or if her hobby just happens to be sex toys, but I digress... Those girls exist you know! Fair warning!!!)

But you're not going for relationships, so whenever she starts asking dumb and logical screening questions like that, you can safely just ignore it, or joke it away, or even use it to disqualify her entirely (as a joke, obviously, to break her balls a little), using this amazing social technology called breaking rapport. "Aw shit, you're religious? Ahhh sorry I need to leave now." Then start rocking as if you're about to leave, while giving her a cheeky smile at the same time. Watch her go "no, no!" or just freak out a little then go "Nah jk, I would never leave you. C'mere!" And give her a hug instead, that... instantly turns a bit sexual and - hey you might even be making out with her already!

Despite this hardass talk, let's dial it back a little. Let me be a bit gentler with you. A date is still a great setup to get a hookup, if you play it right. And ... in this date you didn't. In this date you played it logically, and that's why you lost. Moreover, you let her play it logically, and you never shut it down when she started doing it. So listen very closely: Always shut logical shit down during ... well, any interaction with any girl. Always! Repeat after me: Never logical. Never politics. Never religion. Read that again if you must.

Is she starts spitting logical questions at you, treat them as shit tests. Start breaking rapport. Turn it into jokes. Do quick takeaways. Change the topic.

That is all. Excited to read your next FR!

 

[Rancorous]

Then why are you taking women on cringy dates? Do this instead: Meet at a club, rizz her, take her outside for "air", slam her into the wall and make out with her. Then bring her with you for a hookup! Optional: Stop for food first (food is a great excuse to get away from the club btw, "me so howngry, come let's grab a bite." Boom, you're outta there. By pure luck the restaurant is right across the street to your pad... How about that!)

Dating = Screening for a relationship. But you aren't trying to have a relationship with her. You're trying to hook up. So stop socializing and start escalating.

On this date in particular, you failed in other ways that I could comment if you were also screening for a relationship, But ... if you truly want hookups, then simply don't bring her on a date at all. This will fix the majority of your problems getting a hookup!!!

At best you should bring her somewhere to eat or grab tea, as an excuse to get away from friends on your way to the sex location. Like Rancourous said over here somewhere, screen during the first meet instead. Although in my opinion, you don't even need to do that if you're good at escalating. So instead just get it on, flirt, get close to her, turn up the heat, and then bring her ASAP somewhere semi-private for a makeout. It's not about logical things at all. Only about feelings.

Trust me, she'll want to "date" you regardless of your religion if you're good at escalating quickly and smoothly. Ask me how I know. I'm not called "the spice rack" for nothing.

Look, do you think she'd care about your religion, or lack of it, if you're just going for a hookup? No. (Not unless she's super religious herself anyway, but then she probably wouldn't put herself in a situation like that anyway, or... I mean, among some religions anal isn't counted as sex so wtf do I know...) Does her hobbies matter if you just want to fuck her? Hell, no! That shit only matters if you're having a relationship. (Um or if her hobby just happens to be sex toys, but I digress... Those girls exist you know! Fair warning!!!)

But you're not going for relationships, so whenever she starts asking dumb and logical screening questions like that, you can safely just ignore it, or joke it away, or even use it to disqualify her entirely (as a joke, obviously, to break her balls a little), using this amazing social technology called breaking rapport. "Aw shit, you're religious? Ahhh sorry I need to leave now." Then start rocking as if you're about to leave, while giving her a cheeky smile at the same time. Watch her go "no, no!" or just freak out a little then go "Nah jk, I would never leave you. C'mere!" And give her a hug instead, that... instantly turns a bit sexual and - hey you might even be making out with her already!

Despite this hardass talk, let's dial it back a little. Let me be a bit gentler with you. A date is still a great setup to get a hookup, if you play it right. And ... in this date you didn't. In this date you played it logically, and that's why you lost. Moreover, you let her play it logically, and you never shut it down when she started doing it. So listen very closely: Always shut logical shit down during ... well, any interaction with any girl. Always! Repeat after me: Never logical. Never politics. Never religion. Read that again if you must.

Is she starts spitting logical questions at you, treat them as shit tests. Start breaking rapport. Turn it into jokes. Do quick takeaways. Change the topic.

That is all. Excited to read your next FR!

This^^^^^

Logic is a game killer. You should never be logical around her. This totally kills the interaction. it kills the fun factor and vibe. She's with you because she wants to escape the logic of the real world. Much like watching a movie or playing a game. Imagine movies and games being logical all the time. People wouldn't like that. Think of the interaction as entertainment for her. Keep it engaging and interactive so she's having fun around you.