Day 1 - So here we go... Daygame

[Tots the way]

Hey All,

So I've recently come out of a long term relationship and have just entered the dating world again.
Not going to lie I am excited to see where this could go and have read some of the field reports that are wild

I decided to start this thread so that I have some accountability as today was the first day I thought to myself "I'd try and run some day game" however I can't believe I choked and made 0 approaches after exploring the city for a couple of hours (sure we've all experienced this and kick ourselves for it ). Not even a hello. It was outstanding to say the least.

I've had some success during night game but thought it was ridiculous not to be able to build these kinds of sexual connections sober/ in day light and feel like these kinds of adventures are completely different and will do a world of good for personal development.

I'm in pretty good shape and have taken care of myself. Im in my early 30's and I'd say my fundamentals, style wise for example, are good however I definitely need to work on my voice projection and eye contact to create more of a sexual vibe plus I'd say my seduction techniques are pretty basic so looking forward to learning more.

Hyped for the journey ahead and I want to look back in a couple of months and read back over these posts and the conversations to see the progress so here's to the start of the thread and feel free for any advice on day game seduction!

Cheers lads and lets smash this summer !



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[Sabre]

In a similar position my friend. I'm starting out moving forward. Cheers to success let us keep the accountability going!

 

[JollyRoger]

I'm in the same place. Just started my journal. Keep us up to date.

 

[Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem]

The first few approaches are the most painful

Your whole body is telling you no, while some distant part of you wants to fuck

Nike - just do it.

Forcing yourself willl be uncomfortable, but it is the only way

all I can say is once you get used to it, that anxiety gets replaced with some excitement and confidence, and women will respond well to that

 

[Tots the way]

Guys,

I wrote this and left it.

Guess what ? I made 1 approach sober in since I made this post. a cute Brazilian that went nowhere. Probably 30 or more during night game where it feels easier for me.

No pulls, no lays from new numbers etc. I have a couple of FBs which I see regularly but I find it insane I cannot get over my approach anxiety haha. I actually laugh at how ridiculous it is. I have to work with people all the time and don't struggle socially just this is fucking me over and I do not know why.

I live in a city with some of the most beautiful women in the world. come on bro...

Here's what I'm going to do lads. Today sat 20th July - I will make 10 approaches and report back how each one went otherwise I will donate 100 euros to the rival football club to the one I support ( this will kill me )

@JollyRoger how are you getting on ? Sorry for letting you down brother but tomorrow I will deliver the goods.


Cheers,

 

[Tots the way]

also @Sabre you too man

 

[Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem]

Guys,

I wrote this and left it.

Guess what ? I made 1 approach sober in since I made this post. a cute Brazilian that went nowhere. Probably 30 or more during night game where it feels easier for me.

No pulls, no lays from new numbers etc. I have a couple of FBs which I see regularly but I find it insane I cannot get over my approach anxiety haha. I actually laugh at how ridiculous it is. I have to work with people all the time and don't struggle socially just this is fucking me over and I do not know why.

I live in a city with some of the most beautiful women in the world. come on bro...

Here's what I'm going to do lads. Today sat 20th July - I will make 10 approaches and report back how each one went otherwise I will donate 100 euros to the rival football club to the one I support ( this will kill me )

@JollyRoger how are you getting on ? Sorry for letting you down brother but tomorrow I will deliver the goods.


Cheers,

I’m in the same boat, getting back into it

I’ve already approached 1,000+ times previously so I don’t have AA tho

fears are usually overcome in fear heirarchies via exposure therapy (google it)

chases newbie challenge (posted on the beginners board) is essentially a fear heirarchy

you do the least scary thing first and the most scary thing last - work your way up

It’s fear because your doing something that breaks social norms in a sexual way which is very controversial

You do it enough you find out women actually want to be hit on by the right guy

you just need to be “him”

this is more attainable as your fundamentals get better

and hey - I wish I was In ur city man

Mr. Socially acceptable harem

 

[Tots the way]

I’m in the same boat, getting back into it

I’ve already approached 1,000+ times previously so I don’t have AA tho

fears are usually overcome in fear heirarchies via exposure therapy (google it)

chases newbie challenge (posted on the beginners board) is essentially a fear heirarchy

you do the least scary thing first and the most scary thing last - work your way up

It’s fear because your doing something that breaks social norms in a sexual way which is very controversial

You do it enough you find out women actually want to be hit on by the right guy

you just need to be “him”

this is more attainable as your fundamentals get better

and hey - I wish I was In ur city man

Mr. Socially acceptable harem

Really appreciate your responses mate. Dropping knowledge bombs as per.

Read up on the fear hierarchy along with the newbie challenge. I am going to test it today.

Ps I need to donate to my rival team, even that wasn't enough for the AA A friend of mine supports them so I'll be buying him the shirt for his Birthday ( technically counts eh ). I've got dates lined up through the app but I don't feel like I'm actually developing so the newbie test it is.

Stay in touch bros..

 

[Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem]

Really appreciate your responses mate. Dropping knowledge bombs as per.

Read up on the fear hierarchy along with the newbie challenge. I am going to test it today.

Ps I need to donate to my rival team, even that wasn't enough for the AA A friend of mine supports them so I'll be buying him the shirt for his Birthday ( technically counts eh ). I've got dates lined up through the app but I don't feel like I'm actually developing so the newbie test it is.

Stay in touch bros..

Glad to hear.