Day 4 , Hardest task in my existance. HELP

[MUGENYI]

Hey guys I started newbie assigmment couple of weeks ago but still stuck on day 4.
Am Mugenyi in UG 21 yrs old new to girls chase. Its not lazyness guys coz I've been trying day to day but still dont havr the guts.
So today I read some of the assignments posted and and again tommorrow, yeah I will be done.

 

[Skippy]

Day 4 is to say "Hi" to a bunch of girls, correct?

That task tends to be very challenging when you're starting out because you might feel unsure how to continue the conversation after that (not that you need to). You might find it easier to ask for directions first or ask for the time. Just say "hey my phone died...do you have the time".

You might even find it easier to just give a compliment and eject.

 

[foggy]

Try this extra step:

Instead of verbally saying hi, just say hi in your head while holding eye contact.

Once you are comfortable with that, try whispering hi (with no intent for them to hear you) and then you can practice raising your voice so they can hear you

It's a smoother transition into day 4

 

[alisternova]

Hey guys I started newbie assigmment couple of weeks ago but still stuck on day 4.
Am Mugenyi in UG 21 yrs old new to girls chase. Its not lazyness guys coz I've been trying day to day but still dont havr the guts.
So today I read some of the assignments posted and and again tommorrow, yeah I will be done.

what's the underlying issue here? what don't you feel you have the guts?

is it looks, self worth it? it's worth digging deeper to find the root cause

 

[Yaxir]

what's the underlying issue here? what don't you feel you have the guts?

is it looks, self worth it? it's worth digging deeper to find the root cause

i know i am not the op but i can tell you something relevant

for me it is fear .. fear of coming across as a creep, as someone who is too eager to talk to girls, as someone who might be considered a pervert

and the fear eventually translates into fear of bodily harm

i don't want to get beaten up by angry males

this is a very real fear for people from conservative / religious societies

and the rest you can figure out, that how this can be so very soul crushing for any man just starting out

so there you have it

 

[alisternova]

i know i am not the op but i can tell you something relevant

for me it is fear .. fear of coming across as a creep, as someone who is too eager to talk to girls, as someone who might be considered a pervert

and the fear eventually translates into fear of bodily harm

i don't want to get beaten up by angry males

this is a very real fear for people from conservative / religious societies

and the rest you can figure out, that how this can be so very soul crushing for any man just starting out

so there you have it

interesting. what part of the world do you live in?

so, you're linking approaching women to being beaten up?

is this because women might complain to guys to have you beaten up or you think guys will think you're a creep and pick fights?

 

[PalmaSailor]

There comes a point where you have to grab your balls and JBDI.

just bloody do it.

 

[Rain]

Hey guys I started newbie assigmment couple of weeks ago but still stuck on day 4.

Hi,

Did you end up finding a way to get passed day 4, or what ended up happening?

 

[MUGENYI]

Hi,

Did you end up finding a way to get passed day 4, or what ended up happening?

Ya a long time now
The advice I found useful was 'JUST DO IT'
Now am building the repairing my convo
THANKS